Does being or feeling left out happen often?

[Alura]

Originally posted by Elusive BiFem
...as to who makes me laugh the hardest! Wrnakedru or Bear.

Exactly what is a pudknocker?
-EBF

I'm not sure what a "pudknocker" is, either, Elusive, but my guess would be that it's similar to a "Pudpounder," a guy who is "pounding his pud."

Bear, you're a hoot!

Mr. Alura

[bear_n_bunny]

Originally posted by BradAndJanet
Hey Bear, good post! You must discuss what everyone is expecting, or somebody will surely be unsatisfied in some way.

I do disagree with one statement, at least where it concerns us:

If we ever swing with a single guy again (and we're not going out looking) none of what you mention would matter. 'Special' to us would be a single man who knows how to be a gentleman, is open and honest, and understands our desire to be friends as well as sexual partners. He would also be concerned that everyone has a good time and leaves satisfied, including himself. Hmmm...this doesn't sound too far from our criteria for selecting couples, now that I think about it

-B

Brad, I'm sure there are exceptions to the rule, such as you and Janet. I base my earlier statement on past observations of a lot of couples and/or single swinger females were looking for when on the prowl for single guys that I've seen over time.

You all have the same basic criteria that Bunny and I do for selecting couples....

--Bear

[bear_n_bunny]

Originally posted by Alura
I'm not sure what a "pudknocker" is, either, Elusive, but my guess would be that it's similar to a "Pudpounder," a guy who is "pounding his pud."

Bear, you're a hoot!

Mr. Alura

You nailed it, A... That is exactly what a pudknocker is...

And we aim to please...

-- Bear

[shortiebabie03]

That is exactly what happened during our 1st time. He was so upset and felt left out but I had fun. We had our 1st time back in Jan and up till now I thought that was the way it went. I am so glad to read this post and replies.