More/better attention to swing partner than to mate

[EvilMJ]

Swinging is such an emotional rollercoaster.....and I would be lying if I tried to present myself as a completely in control, 100% confident woman who never felt a twinge of jealousy.

That being said I have no problem with my husband bringing his 'A' game to the bedroom when he is playing, hell I've even suggested to the women some things they should ask him to do because he has a particular talent that I think should be shared. I want everyone to have a good time, isn't that what we are all here for?!

I would have a problem if he was doing things or acting in a manner that he did not do with me. It hasn't happened, but if it did I would feel quite hurt and we would have to talk about it.

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

I have no problem with my husband bringing his 'A' game to the bedroom when he is playing, hell I've even suggested to the women some things they should ask him to do because he has a particular talent that I think should be shared. I want everyone to have a good time, isn't that what we are all here for?!

I know what you mean. I do exactly the same thing. I'm proud for hubby to use his "skills" on other women, and I love watching him in action.

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

I would have a problem if he was doing things or acting in a manner that he did not do with me. It hasn't happened, but if it did I would feel quite hurt and we would have to talk about it.

Me too - exactly.

[HappyPeople]

With just the two of us, we have our A game nights and our B,C,D, or even F game nights. Sometimes, we just want to get laid and fall asleep and there is very little effort on both of our parts - that's just the way it is but we'd never do that with other people. If we only had sex with each other when we were energetic and ready for the A game, we would have A LOT less sex.