"Taking one for the team" - Page 3

DBL D · 06-11-2006, 03:21 AM

Wouldn't she?

M.D.

DBL D · 06-11-2006, 03:22 AM

As would I.

M.D.

Sweet_Candy · 06-11-2006, 08:10 AM

We hold equal say in who we do or don't do. We have not taken one for the team either. Someone mentioned quality over quantity and that is our mode of operation.

Pepper & Drew · 06-11-2006, 11:33 AM

For us, taking one for the team doesn't necessarily mean having sex with someone there's no attraction to, because we definitely wouldn't do that. In our case, it means having sex with someone that we have marginal interest in, so the spouse can have an extra good time. To borrow a phrase from another thread--being with someone that's doable, but not necessarily extremely desireable.

In our earlier days, we've both "taken one or the team" on the same night with the same couple! So, since then, we've learned to say exactly what each of us want to do. Because, in this case, I thought Drew was really hot for her, when he was thinking that she was just OK, but thought I was really hot for him. I thought he was alright, but just alright. Now we give our true opinion.

Pepper

mrs good times · 06-11-2006, 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

For us, taking one for the team doesn't necessarily mean having sex with someone there's no attraction to, because we definitely wouldn't do that. In our case, it means having sex with someone that we have marginal interest in, so the spouse can have an extra good time. To borrow a phrase from another thread--being with someone that's doable, but not necessarily extremely desireable.
Pepper

We have the same view as you.

I have also been pleasantly surprised on more than one occasion when I have been with a man that I initially thought of as "doable" to be incredably sexy and fun behind closed doors.

**good times** · 06-11-2006, 06:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

In our earlier days, we've both "taken one or the team" on the same night with the same couple! So, since then, we've learned to say exactly what each of us want to do. Because, in this case, I thought Drew was really hot for her, when he was thinking that she was just OK, but thought I was really hot for him. I thought he was alright, but just alright. Now we give our true opinion.

Pepper

We have done that too, great communication improver that was. We were on the way home from the club discussing the evening when we both realized we had taken one for the team with the same couple. We had to pull over we were laughing so hard.

DBL D · 06-11-2006, 08:46 PM

I tell ya, you just never know!

I am sure tha I have passed on ladies that could've/would've been great...I just didn't trust that it could happen. I am still learning. I still will have a block against really heavy people but I am growing and learning that great people can come in all shapes and flavors.

I try to stay open for anything.

Male D

Swingers Ads	Swinger Pics	Swinger Stories	Shopping	Search Swingers	Swingers Clubs	Swinger Articles	Dictionary	FAQs	Swinger Links
Forums	Register	Swinger Events	Search	Today's Posts	Mark Forums Read	Chat Room [2]

06-11-2006, 03:21 AM	#31 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: "Taking one for the team" Wouldn't she? M.D.
	__________________ "Just nod if you can hear me..." David Gilmour

06-11-2006, 03:22 AM	#32 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: "Taking one for the team" As would I. M.D.
	__________________ "Just nod if you can hear me..." David Gilmour

06-11-2006, 08:10 AM	#33 (permalink)
Sweet_Candy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 535 Location: Houston area Status: Couple	Re: "Taking one for the team" We hold equal say in who we do or don't do. We have not taken one for the team either. Someone mentioned quality over quantity and that is our mode of operation.
	__________________ Sweet_Candy

06-11-2006, 11:33 AM	#34 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: "Taking one for the team" For us, taking one for the team doesn't necessarily mean having sex with someone there's no attraction to, because we definitely wouldn't do that. In our case, it means having sex with someone that we have marginal interest in, so the spouse can have an extra good time. To borrow a phrase from another thread--being with someone that's doable, but not necessarily extremely desireable. In our earlier days, we've both "taken one or the team" on the same night with the same couple! So, since then, we've learned to say exactly what each of us want to do. Because, in this case, I thought Drew was really hot for her, when he was thinking that she was just OK, but thought I was really hot for him. I thought he was alright, but just alright. Now we give our true opinion. Pepper
	__________________ "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

06-11-2006, 08:46 PM	#37 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: "Taking one for the team" I tell ya, you just never know! I am sure tha I have passed on ladies that could've/would've been great...I just didn't trust that it could happen. I am still learning. I still will have a block against really heavy people but I am growing and learning that great people can come in all shapes and flavors. I try to stay open for anything. Male D
	__________________ "Just nod if you can hear me..." David Gilmour

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Email this Page
Display Modes
Linear Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode

Similar Threads
Thread	Thread Starter	Forum	Replies	Last Post
Questin about "Taking One For The Team"	Liutas	One Sided Swinging / Taking One For the Team	16	12-05-2007 11:56 AM
Interesting Dilemma - Twist on "Taking One for the Team"	txduo2000	One Sided Swinging / Taking One For the Team	9	10-14-2005 09:00 PM
"Taking one for the Team"?	ophelia	One Sided Swinging / Taking One For the Team	33	08-30-2004 08:52 PM