She wants to be with others but isn't ready for him to be

[valley]

QUOTE " My questions are: Is this something that others have experienced? Is it a common thing? I do NOT want to be the odd man out or "take one for the team". If I'm involved with all the activity going on except for full-swap I'd be perfectly content. I truly do not think that I would start to feel resentful that I wasn't getting "my fair share" of fun. After all, I have enjoyed the MFM thing and sometimes just enjoy watching."



It appears to me as if your GF is being selfish,possibly through insecurity. She is not committed to the true sense of swinging as a couple. Sharing equally is vital. It's O.K for you to enjoy watching her in action,that is very normal and common,but to deny you the pleasure of sex with another woman is an unequal limitation. If you were to ask her to restrict herself to oral sex only,with the other man,I wonder what she would say?