Female half of a couple turns me off

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by Nymph an' Satyr

Hmmmmm....the smell of a sweaty woman.......a turn on for me. Different strokes eh?

When I come home from a run or a day at the beach, I am obviously saturated in sweat. I can't keep my husband away from me. He follows me around the house inhaling me like a Basett Hound.

He is definitely a lover of sweaty women.

[Nymph an' Satyr]

The taste of salt and the smell of musk....I'm getting aroused in my office. Very bad....I must quickly read the daily news to kill my libido.....

[SexhoundDog]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Regarding the odor issue you might try taking her into the shower before sex, if you want to keep seeing her. Regarding her weight comments, I think you can be upfront with her about that and just flat out say "you look fine would you please stop making those comments, they are a real turn off - unlike you".

I like that comment, ending it with "unlike you." I agree about the shower or bath issue. Not only do I find it an ultra-sensuous setting, lathering each other up while doing some hot kissing, I'd think you'd find out within a half hour of hot and heavy playing whether or not her body emits some unusual odor, if she's just not as hygienic as perhaps she should be, or likes the scent of some stinky perfume that you find repulsive. I know my wife used to wear some perfume that she and perhaps others liked, but I found it to be almost sickenly sweet. I'm not a real perfume guy though, I like a clean fresh scent.

[inbeachcouple]

I'd guess it's the perfume. Could be that she is wearing an oil, like someone suggested. Could also be that she burns incense(sp) around the house. Sandalwood always has that musty smell to me. If you have one, spend some time in a hot tub, or pool. You could also go the shower/bath route and use it get things rolling, and hopefully the 'stink' will go away.

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by disgreetcouple

One thing I failed to mention is the positive. She is very sexy. I was just really turned off by those 2 things the last time we all met. Rather than just give up, I thought I would post here and see what you all had to say.

Originally Posted by DBL D

I agree that she mus'n't do this but I think if you like her then it's worth saving.

Sounds like you do like her except for working this issue out. That is a good thing for all of you, I think.

Male D

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

When I come home from a run or a day at the beach, I am obviously saturated in sweat. I can't keep my husband away from me. He follows me around the house inhaling me like a Basett Hound.

Okay am I a weird woman?? I am that way to Mr Spoo. When he is on the elliptical or working with the weights and gets all sweaty . . . I just stand and watch him and it takes all I have to keep from jumping him right in the middle of his workout!!!

Mrs Spoomonkey

p.s. sorry - back to our regular thread

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey

Okay am I a weird woman?? I am that way to Mr Spoo. When he is on the elliptical or working with the weights and gets all sweaty . . . I just stand and watch him and it takes all I have to keep from jumping him right in the middle of his workout!!!

No, you're not a weird woman!

I love it when my husband is sweaty. Sweaty men are HOT! I find them highly erotic. I particularly like to see mine shirtless, sweaty with any kind of tool in his hand.

If he's working on a ladder, I go doubly nuts.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

If he's working on a ladder, I go doubly nuts.

Hmmm, I think we have a ladder in the garage . . . . . . "oh, honey can you change a light bulb for me "



Mrs Spoomonkey

[JakenReenie]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

No, you're not a weird woman!

I love it when my husband is sweaty. Sweaty men are HOT! I find them highly erotic. I particularly like to see mine shirtless, sweaty with any kind of tool in his hand.

If he's working on a ladder, I go doubly nuts.

Hmmmmm.........Guys, I think we're being set up here.

"Honey, you look so sexy with tools in your hand. I could just watch you doing chores all day. It's such a turnon."

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by JakenReenie

Hmmmmm.........Guys, I think we're being set up here.

"Honey, you look so sexy with tools in your hand. I could just watch you doing chores all day. It's such a turnon."

LMFAO!!

My husband says the same thing! But I truly was being sincere.

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey

Okay am I a weird woman?? I am that way to Mr Spoo. When he is on the elliptical or working with the weights and gets all sweaty . . . I just stand and watch him and it takes all I have to keep from jumping him right in the middle of his workout!!!

Mrs Spoomonkey

p.s. sorry - back to our regular thread

I am sensing a trend here....There is nothing more erotic to me than a man in jeans and no shirt doing something physical....honestly I find it hard to speak just watching him....maybe I just like the country boys .

Now back to the thread ..... I think that is probably the hardest thing to say to someone without hurting their feelings. But the shower idea works.

I find women more than men are very self concious about their weight, and who can blame them with all that we see on TV and magazines. I agree that you just have to tell her that you think she is a sexy beautiful woman and you won't hear of her making any more disparaging remarks about herself.