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Forum: One Sided Swinging / Taking One For the Team

What does taking one for the team mean to swingers? Does swinging always have to be equal?

  1. I think this is one sided. She won't let us play with girls

    Started by terryanddar, 09-09-2013 08:30 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    unequal play
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 2,355
    09-25-2013, 12:03 PM Go to last post
  2. Feeling Left Out

    Started by Mr. Wolverton, 01-26-2013 12:57 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    left out, unequal
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 2,917
    05-04-2013, 05:41 PM Go to last post
  3. Leftovers

    Started by sunbuckus, 06-19-2012 10:40 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    awkward, left out, rejection, second choice
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 1,464
    06-23-2012, 09:25 PM Go to last post
  4. Surprise appearance of her male friend leaves me in the dark.

    Started by Cuda, 05-27-2012 07:15 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    communication, deception, one sided
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 1,871
    06-18-2012, 08:04 PM Go to last post
  5. Dealing With a Bad Night at the Club

    Started by Lionheart72, 05-26-2012 01:16 AM
    resentful, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,870
    06-10-2012, 10:25 AM Go to last post
  6. wife and single men

    Started by jkc4u, 05-19-2012 07:23 AM
    one sided, red flags
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,744
    05-29-2012, 06:17 PM Go to last post
  7. Don't really like other half of couple

    Started by D&D, 04-09-2012 07:59 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction, interest, veto
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 966
    04-13-2012, 07:36 AM Go to last post
  8. Wife sharing ... crossing the line?

    Started by jandlvaldosta, 05-06-2011 10:21 PM
    9 Pages
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 ... 9
    gifts, indecent proposal
    • Replies: 125
    • Views: 19,509
    04-10-2012, 12:40 PM Go to last post
  9. Unhappy Confused...Need advice

    Started by Blury, 12-12-2011 07:25 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    forced to swing, ticket
    • Replies: 44
    • Views: 2,464
    01-23-2012, 12:16 PM Go to last post
  10. First time in 2.5 years

    Started by JohnUK1, 11-30-2011 04:22 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    playing solo
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 2,321
    01-20-2012, 01:29 PM Go to last post
  11. Was it inevitable?

    Started by angelkin, 11-18-2011 08:36 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    bad feeling, house party
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 1,551
    11-22-2011, 04:58 PM Go to last post
  12. Impossible situation?

    Started by ftwguy29, 08-15-2011 10:48 AM
    double standard, jealousy
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,054
    08-16-2011, 08:21 AM Go to last post
  13. Unhappy Dealing with a partner who doesn't seem into it.

    Started by BePassionate, 06-22-2011 06:35 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    nervous, pressure
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 2,347
    07-02-2011, 06:01 PM Go to last post
  14. Feeling Left Out While She Plays

    Started by lucky & unlucky, 06-02-2011 01:31 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    left out, one sided
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,193
    06-14-2011, 04:36 PM Go to last post
  15. Seasoned swinger

    Started by TheSwingerSet, 03-12-2011 01:06 AM
    left out, swinging separately
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 1,364
    03-13-2011, 02:42 AM Go to last post
  16. Is she doing this for all the wrong reasons?

    Started by AsianSwirl, 01-27-2011 06:32 AM
    one sided
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,958
    01-29-2011, 05:45 PM Go to last post
  17. So what does she actually want?

    Started by alittleconfused, 01-14-2011 11:41 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    one sided
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,234
    01-20-2011, 01:01 AM Go to last post
  18. My hubby seems very eager to find another couple ?

    Started by mtneers, 01-04-2011 08:46 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    excitement, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,811
    01-16-2011, 03:55 PM Go to last post
  19. Question Should she drop the sex machine?

    Started by yumyum29a, 12-27-2010 12:05 PM
    3 Pages
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    playing solo
    • Replies: 43
    • Views: 5,340
    01-11-2011, 10:46 PM Go to last post
  20. MFM threesome that became a twosome: advice required

    Started by Moondance, 11-06-2010 02:11 AM
    3 Pages
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    left out
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 8,053
    12-07-2010, 01:39 AM Go to last post
  21. UGH, what is it with some people

    Started by bi4me2, 08-12-2010 07:38 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    aggressive, left out, one sided
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 1,898
    08-15-2010, 04:25 PM Go to last post
  22. I don't understand how it's OK for her but not for me

    Started by Stevef8, 06-29-2010 10:32 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    double standard
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,149
    07-05-2010, 09:26 AM Go to last post
  23. Feeling like 4th wheel... am I being petty?

    Started by happycouple5047, 06-01-2010 09:16 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    one sided
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 1,963
    06-08-2010, 03:20 PM Go to last post
  24. She can play without me playing.

    Started by olderyder, 12-08-2009 12:45 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    one sided
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,245
    12-18-2009, 05:38 PM Go to last post
  25. Bothered by what happened during play

    Started by little firefly, 11-09-2009 11:51 AM
    3 Pages
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    left out, one sided
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 5,679
    12-01-2009, 07:56 PM Go to last post
  26. Swinger and Non-Swinger

    Started by NDN, 10-21-2009 12:14 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    one sided
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 1,577
    10-22-2009, 03:52 PM Go to last post
  27. Boyfriend likes fmf but isn't sure about mfm, and I want both

    Started by stacey, 08-20-2009 10:38 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    one sided
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,556
    09-01-2009, 04:15 PM Go to last post
  28. Wife full swaps, I'd like full swap, but wife doesn't want me to...

    Started by memcme75, 08-15-2009 07:12 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    one sided
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,847
    08-23-2009, 05:38 AM Go to last post
  29. Fair or selfish?

    Started by swvacouplelookn, 05-26-2009 09:53 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    objections, one sided, swinging separately, veto
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,193
    08-08-2009, 09:50 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,096
    06-21-2009, 03:31 PM Go to last post
  30. If he can fuck other women, why can't I fuck other men?

    Started by Unregistered, 11-26-2007 09:11 PM
    4 Pages
    1 2 3 4
    one sided
    • Replies: 46
    • Views: 8,155
    09-20-2008, 05:16 PM Go to last post
  31. Taking one for the team: How long can this go on?

    Started by jid2008, 09-05-2008 05:35 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,091
    09-08-2008, 10:38 PM Go to last post
  32. Fairness in swinging and in sex....

    Started by JustAskJulie, 06-29-2008 12:29 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    fairness
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,730
    07-16-2008, 02:30 PM Go to last post
  33. Charity Sex

    Started by cracker60479, 08-24-2006 11:05 PM
    3 Pages
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    taking one for the team
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 2,665
    06-08-2008, 05:53 PM Go to last post
  34. Full Swap that made for an awkward situation...

    Started by SwingingForFun, 04-09-2008 10:22 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    awkward situation, bad experiences, full swap, not interested
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 7,098
    05-05-2008, 08:44 PM Go to last post
  35. Red face Only attracted to 1/2 of a couple ??

    Started by EnchantedBiLove, 03-08-2008 04:11 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 2,784
    03-15-2008, 08:13 AM Go to last post
  36. Couple interested in wife but not me

    Started by big_ems, 01-22-2008 10:42 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    red flags
    • Replies: 40
    • Views: 5,249
    03-12-2008, 05:23 PM Go to last post
  37. Question about "Taking One For The Team"

    Started by Liutas, 11-21-2007 12:06 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    not interested, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,660
    12-05-2007, 11:56 AM Go to last post
  38. a selfish husband contemplating divorce

    Started by texmo, 10-20-2007 03:34 PM
    5 Pages
    1 2 3 4 5
    divorce, not interested, priorities
    • Replies: 65
    • Views: 7,842
    11-21-2007, 03:58 PM Go to last post
  39. My wife isn't interested in intercourse with other men...

    Started by 2chase3, 10-11-2007 06:25 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    soft swinging, threesome
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,033
    10-24-2007, 12:39 PM Go to last post
  40. taking one as a team

    Started by fun4Ds, 10-11-2007 07:28 PM
    taking one for the team
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,823
    10-14-2007, 11:04 AM Go to last post
  41. Couples only seem interested in me, not my bf

    Started by Tenatious, 09-14-2007 11:25 AM
    not interested
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,854
    10-07-2007, 12:54 AM Go to last post
  42. Feeling like a hypocrite

    Started by sexcupid, 08-29-2007 12:15 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, one sided, veto
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,115
    08-30-2007, 09:44 AM Go to last post
  43. Non-Married couples posing as husband and wife

    Started by shywife, 08-14-2007 02:28 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    dishonesty, married not to each other, unmarried couples
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,293
    08-22-2007, 09:30 AM Go to last post
  44. How to compensate the she's hot he's not syndrome?

    Started by arvcpl, 08-04-2007 01:50 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    attraction, not interested, straight couple, straight female
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 3,283
    08-07-2007, 07:35 AM Go to last post
  45. A desire for mutual desire and connection

    Started by couplewanting50, 04-20-2007 12:57 AM
    four way match, playing separately, separate beds, separate rooms
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,869
    04-21-2007, 02:19 PM Go to last post
  46. Are we both being greedy?

    Started by KinkyKat, 02-04-2007 05:29 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    one sided, why swing
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,999
    03-10-2007, 07:37 AM Go to last post
  47. Couple not agreeing on the terms

    Started by Mr&MrsSwing, 02-10-2007 04:00 PM
    jealousy, left out, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 2,128
    02-13-2007, 11:27 PM Go to last post

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