My girlfriend's body doesn't turn me on and she won't swing

[Estaque]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

Funny but I don't remember saying anything about being relgious!

My committment to my husband to me has little or nothing to do with religion.

If you're not religious then why did you have a religious wedding ceremony?

[prettylady]

Estaque,
Why are you here?
Aside from upsetting people I like very much, you have no reason being here.
Please go away now.
Thank you
Prettylady

[CB_n_Red]

It now pretty clear that Estaque is just here to wind us all up. Pretty Lady, I commend you on your tact. I can feel myself getting rather less tactful.....

Good times - you're spot on. There are religions that don't have problems with sexuality, swinging or otherwise. I can only think of three that have major problems with sexuality and two of those are effectively schismatic sects of one of them.

Estaque - time to get back under that bridge.

CB

[Amanda69]

Ahh a new troll of the month...there always has to be one around to keep the place hopping....

[Estaque]

Originally Posted by prettylady

Estaque,
Why are you here?

I am here to engage in intelligent conversation with open-minded people. If you are incapable of doing that then, by all means, please do not respond to my comments.

[prettylady]

Originally Posted by Estaque

I am here to engage in intelligent conversation with open-minded people. If you are incapable of doing that then, by all means, please do not respond to my comments.

I am sorry Estaque,
I have not seen anything intelligent out of your posts yet.
Am I alone here?
If you were as intelligent as you claim to be you would see that no one here is really interested in your comments as they are just combative. Case in point I asked you politly to leave my friends alone and you suggest that I am unintelligent and close minded.
Your freind,
Prettylady

[Estaque]

Originally Posted by prettylady

I am sorry Estaque,
I have not seen anything intelligent out of your posts yet.
Am I alone here?
If you were as intelligent as you claim to be you would see that no one here is really interested in your comments as they are just combative. Case in point I asked you politly to leave my friends alone and you suggest that I am unintelligent and close minded.
Your freind,
Prettylady

Fine. I will make you a deal. If you choose not to further immaturely respond to my posts in a pre-pubescent, infantile way and cease with the personal attacks against me...

I won't respond to any more of your comments.

BTW, I currently have one of the most commented upon threads on the General forum.

[CB_n_Red]

Originally Posted by Estaque

Fine. I will make you a deal. If you choose not to further immaturely respond to my posts in a pre-pubescent, infantile way and cease with the personal attacks against me...

Ey - tosspot! There is only one person being pre-pubescent and infantile around here and that is you. Now piss off sonny and leave us adults to our own discussions. Your puerile and thinly disguised attacks on the members of this board show you to be exactly what we know you to be. Go find a bridge.

<plonk>

Or perhaps that should be "plonker".

Okay.... I feel better for that.

CB

[Estaque]

Originally Posted by CB_n_Red

Ey - tosspot! There is only one person being pre-pubescent and infantile around here and that is you. Now piss off sonny ...

Ah! The old "I know you are but what am *I*?" tactic, eh? Hmmmm, how to counter *scratches head* ...

I could come back with the pat "I know YOU *are*" but instead I think I'll go with the "I'm rubber, you're glue. Bounces off me and sticks to you" maneuver.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by CB_n_Red

There is only one person being pre-pubescent and infantile around here and that is you.

I wholly agree with you CB...

Originally Posted by Estaque

BTW, I currently have one of the most commented upon threads on the General forum.

This just makes me laugh! The adolescence just shines through.

So neener, neener.

I'm sure he felt like a big boy for posting this.

[Estaque]

Originally Posted by LFM2

This just makes me laugh! The adolescence just shines through.

So neener, neener.

I'm sure he felt like a big boy for posting this.

My thread is topping two thousand page views in two days and is making a bid for the top 100 most active topics of this forum. Apparently I have a lot of fans and am a commodity that is in demand around here!

And I'd like to thank all the little people who made it possible ...

[Estaque]

Originally Posted by Estaque

My thread is topping two thousand page views in two days and is making a bid for the top 100 most active topics of this forum. Apparently I have a lot of fans and am a commodity that is in demand around here!

And I'd like to thank all the little people who made it possible ...

And VOILA! The mods locked the thread! Ha ha ha ha like I didn't know that most of the responses in that thread were from site admin sock-puppets!

Alright gang, it's been real, and it's been fun, but it ain't been real fun. And I've wasted entirely too much time with you people. Have a nice life.

We now return you to your regular scheduled threads of squirting, what does pussy taste like, and does size really matter ... already in progress ...

[harsh]

and does size really matter

And I'd like to thank all the little people who made it possible ...


I guess size does matter

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by Estaque

There is nothing wrong with a little manipulation in a relationship to get what you want. All is fair in love and war they say. He's probably either going to cheat on this girl or dump her ultimately anyway, so he may as well try to get what he wants out of the relationship now while the gettin's good.

ANGEDKY, this one stunned me too. This is the kind of shit that lands people on the Jerry Springer show.

To the OP, disregard any advice that encourages you to be dishonest with yourself or your g/f, or that encourages you to pressure another person into something they don't fully agree with, just so that you can get your way. The end of a romantic relationship is NOT the end of the world. The tendency to cling to other people (because you feel lost without someone to validate you, perhaps?) has got to be THE biggest mistake anyone can make. All the other mistakes follow that one. If you're not okay being a single person, perhaps you should question the reasons for that. Then question whether your relationship makes sense, or if you're both just wasting each other's time. There's nothing to say that you can't retain the friendship. But it's senseless to try and make a relationship conform to what you think it should look like. Just let it be what it is. If you're not feelin' it, you're not feelin' it. It's a simple lack of chemistry. She's probably feeling it too. And I would give this same advice if you had just met, or if you just celebrated your 35th anniversary. Life is WAY too short to waste on silliness.

Just be honest with yourself, then be (tactfully) honest with her. You can tell her that while you think she's beautiful, and that you love her as a person, for some reason, there's just no chemistry. And you consider physical chemistry very important to a long-term relationship. You feel it would be unfair to not be honest with her and let her know this up-front. She may get upset, but this is not your fault. She is reacting, not thinking. Then again, she may surprise you by thanking you for your honesty, and for treating her like the adult she is. No one wants to be manipulated. If you have to babysit your partner, something is wrong.