Told him he had to choose between me and swinging

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by Paramour2_99

Every swinger I've ever know in the decade or so I was in it had absolutely no reservations about cheating. No reservations at all and would cheat at the drop of a hat.

Y'all remind me to stay the Hell out of Minneapolis cause it doesn't sound like any place I want to be.

So, does that mean you were cheating at the drop of a hat Paramour?

[vickster]

From what you say in your post, you want to learn enough to make a decision to go ahead and enjoy swinging with him. So, let me say to him...Sire, you have a rare treasure in your girlfriend. She is willing to go the extra mile...you should be also. If she says no to swinging, be satisfied and give your all to this wonderful gal. You will never regret it.

wow thats a great way to put it ......time and working together is a must for this to work as I really hope it can.... as long as we can walk on the same path holding hands we will be fine in what ever path we do decide.

you have all given me such wonderful advise and I thank-you all very much ....

i will keep you posted and let you know how it all works out....

P.S. as for the cheating part that was brought up ...My man wont cheat...that i feel very deep about...I fully trust him to not cheat on me in any way.......if I am not ready he will not do anything without .....so lets get off that note right away...