Married to a non-swinger.

[sexycopul4u]

Hey there, sound's like you got it pretty good where you are. I am the one who started my wife swinging, it took me 4 yrs. She like's it now, she would like a woman now for us,she has been with women before,we have been with couple's ,and single men,now we agree ,she wan't's me to search for woman. Has she been with a women before, You know ,the men may act polite,but they have one thing on there mind,that is to Hit It! If your wife is what you think.she will try something for you. To us this is natural, alway's the same room,thing's may change, use your judgement, We agree togeather in our marrage,good luck.

[Mike and Jan]

You know, there hasn't been any wives who would like their husbands to explore swinging here. And, there must be some of you out there that might read this thread. Come on ladies..., let's here from you!

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by Mike and Jan

You know, there hasn't been any wives who would like their husbands to explore swinging here. And, there must be some of you out there that might read this thread. Come on ladies..., let's here from you!

Sure, I'll bite on this one .

I brought my hubby into swinging. I never thought he would be interested but he surprised me all to pieces.

Right now we only swing with my best friend and her hubby. That's fun and all but honestly I would love to mix things up a bit and find some other people. He hasn't been very receptive to the idea, so I just left it alone for now. Maybe sometime in the future he will surprise me again.

[Mike and Jan]

Thanks Evil! Really nice to know that we men aren't alone in this. Gee, I sure wish my wife would catch your attitude. Thanks so much for joining in.
Rich

[hotnsexy63]

I would like to thank Mike & Jan for raising this issue. I am in similar predicament. We are a couple from india and in relatively conservative society. But even then we have heard about swinging but didn't know how to start. My wife was initially very reluctant though she enjoyed fantasizing. Anyway after lot of talks we did get in touch witha few cpls thru' aff. We met the first cpl and we did have a nice swapping experience. In fact she enjoyed the most as she had fucked 5 times with the other guy and after reaching home we had another 2 fucks.

Surprising part was she did not want to keep in touch with them after our little excursion, though she was the one who enjoyed it the most while we were with the couple. But we had a fun filled time after that where we kept discussing the episode and it greatly enhanced our sex life.

After this we met with another couple where the male was very active but when we met and actually wanted to have sex she just dried up and it was a blank caal. Though here I enjoyed the female more. Somehow after coming she did not want to discuss them any more.

The third one was with a couple where she was the initiator. In fact she knew the guy from and she started having raunchy talks with the guy- offcourse with my permission. We use to have great sex when she discussed all she talked with him. Then eventually it came to a situation where we met the couple and eventually it led to swapping. First time where we have had seprate room sex. I had an excellent time with the female and she supposedly had a good time with the Husband of the lady.

But she has once again confused me by not keeping in touch with them. She also do not discuss about them much. I have coaxed her to keep in touch at least for courtesy, but she did not oblige.

The other female has invited me for one on one a number of time but I have refarined.

I love my wife very much and our marriage is of 10 yrs. I like to enjoy her enjoying sex and we still have sex almost on daily basis. We do discuss about sex and she knows I watch this site and other porno sites. If i ask her if she is still interested she neither replies in +ve or -ve. So this our story and will appreciate if anyone can throw some light on her behavior.

[Mike and Jan]

My wife has very similar problems with dealing with it afterwards. I know show enjoyed the build up and certainly seemed to enjoy the sex, but..., afterwards just so much remorse. I think it's remembering that remorse/guilt/regret thing from years ago that prevents her from wanting to try again. And, I know that now we are older and I could lead her through those things.
I suggest that you don't hound her, but do keep trying to discuss it with her. BTW..., I find people from India very appealing. Rich