Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter...

Mr. Mac · 02-05-2005, 11:51 AM

OK, many of you know that we are new to this lifestyle and that we have ot had our first encounter. That being said, JennyMac is not ready for any "action" and will just be watching the first time or so.

So I have a question I would like to see some responses on.

When the time comes for her to play....

What kind of feelings did the guys have after that first encounter of seeing you mate in action with another man?

You are all always there when we need you, so what do you have to offer?

Mr. Mac

BradAndJanet · 02-05-2005, 12:15 PM

I wanted to see it again...soon.

I had no jealousy and my main concern was whether she had enjoyed it or had any regrets. No worries there!

-B

northindycpl · 02-05-2005, 12:20 PM

Mr. Indy says it was excitment! (I know he showed me that, too

)
We haven't had any reservations at all about our encounters.

tnt Dayton ohio · 02-05-2005, 12:29 PM

I thought it was very hot to watch her playing with another man. My only concern was, is she enjoying it as much as I am. And after it was all over, we could not stay off of each other for weeks!

02-05-2005, 12:31 PM

I thought it was GREAT!!!! facelick

But I think it has to be something you already fantasize about.

CB_n_Red · 02-05-2005, 02:11 PM

My feelings? I was as excited as hell! Like some of the others, my only concern was that Red had enjoyed it as much as I had!

CB

confunktion · 02-05-2005, 07:30 PM

I enjoyed it thoroughly with no regrets. I know that jealousy overtakes some guys after their first time, but I think that if you are really secure in your relationship, you can rest assured that she'll be coming home with you and that there's nothing to worry about. The intimacy is the key - if you and your lady have it, let that give you the confidence you need.

Mr. Funk
Reliving that first time over again in my head as we speak.

**TNT** · 02-05-2005, 08:45 PM

I wanted to see it again and again and was hoping she was having a lot of fun.

Ted

mf69_98 · 02-06-2005, 01:19 AM

I was wondering how I would take it, but as I sat back and watched her with another guy for the first time, I was amazed at how hot I thought it was. I loved watching them and kept thinking - this is just like watching a porn movie, only I can join in instead of just watching it. I still love watching her go at it with someone.

mfmyeahbaby · 02-06-2005, 01:27 AM

I totally loved it. It was with a close friend of ours. Of course we very nervous but relaxed enough to try. He fucked her so hard and long, I was hooked. She loved it and we are still friends, enfact the respect for our joy of the mfm with him and our friendship seems to have grown.

bgbdbld · 02-08-2005, 12:40 PM

For me it was VERY erotic, It is a Mental thing I get off Mentally when I see her Orgasim and the expressions on her face. It is awesome, Sex is sex Lovemaking is for Couples only.

Have Fun Enjoy it.

Partybare · 02-08-2005, 02:15 PM

I have no regrets. I watched her many times, I get hot just thinking about it. I thank her for doing it. I hope she enjoyed it as much as I did.

DnHtxCPL · 02-08-2005, 08:03 PM

Wow, what a feeling is all I can say. Nervous, excited, butterflys in my stomach. Watching the lust and ecstasy on her face! All I can say is OMG. Just loved it! And she enjoys it just as much as I do. Having him come over again tonight to give her a special treat and I can't wait! And afterwards the sex between us is just mindblowing!! Here's hoping it never ends. It's not for everyone but we enjoy it very much.

WesternSwing · 02-08-2005, 08:25 PM

It was not bad, but not the big turn-on I thought it would be. Probably because we were newbies and it was all happening pretty fast. But it has gotten better and is very exciting now.

My issues after the first encounter revolved around how the Mrs. acted toward the other husband the next day, and for a couple of months to follow. Because it was her first time being so "naughty" she felt she needed some connection to him to make it all okay and to not feel like a "slut" (paratheses because I don't believe in the word

). So she had quite a bit of contact with him for awhile. After our first experience with another couple that all disappeared and all has been hunky-dory since. But, there were some intense jealousy feelings on my part for a few months. And it had nothing to do with the actual sex itself.

Mr. WS

**two4youinswva** · 02-08-2005, 08:31 PM

When I saw the enjoyment on her face, I thought it was the coolest, hottest, freakiest, bestest, sexiest thing in the world! It added about 400 points to her already high "Hotness Index" in my mind. facelick

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02-05-2005, 11:51 AM	#1 (permalink)
Mr. Mac Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 50 Location: Memphis, TN Area Status: M. Male	Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... OK, many of you know that we are new to this lifestyle and that we have ot had our first encounter. That being said, JennyMac is not ready for any "action" and will just be watching the first time or so. So I have a question I would like to see some responses on. When the time comes for her to play.... What kind of feelings did the guys have after that first encounter of seeing you mate in action with another man? You are all always there when we need you, so what do you have to offer? Mr. Mac __________________ *Now it's morning but last night's on my mind*

02-05-2005, 12:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... I wanted to see it again...soon. I had no jealousy and my main concern was whether she had enjoyed it or had any regrets. No worries there! -B __________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

02-05-2005, 12:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
northindycpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,424 Location: Indiana Status: Blissfull SITCOM SLS Name:northindycpl	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... Mr. Indy says it was excitment! (I know he showed me that, too ) We haven't had any reservations at all about our encounters. __________________ Mrs. Indy

02-05-2005, 12:29 PM	#4 (permalink)
tnt Dayton ohio Registered Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 6 Location: dayton ohio	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... I thought it was very hot to watch her playing with another man. My only concern was, is she enjoying it as much as I am. And after it was all over, we could not stay off of each other for weeks!

02-05-2005, 12:31 PM	#5 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mr here I thought it was GREAT!!!! facelick But I think it has to be something you already fantasize about.

02-05-2005, 02:11 PM	#6 (permalink)
CB_n_Red Life's too short not to.. Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 615 Location: East Yorkshire, UK Status: Married Couple SLS Name:CB_n_Red	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... My feelings? I was as excited as hell! Like some of the others, my only concern was that Red had enjoyed it as much as I had! CB __________________ Take all things in moderation....including moderation

02-05-2005, 07:30 PM	#7 (permalink)
confunktion Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 358 Location: Wisconsin Status: Widower	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... I enjoyed it thoroughly with no regrets. I know that jealousy overtakes some guys after their first time, but I think that if you are really secure in your relationship, you can rest assured that she'll be coming home with you and that there's nothing to worry about. The intimacy is the key - if you and your lady have it, let that give you the confidence you need. Mr. Funk Reliving that first time over again in my head as we speak. __________________ The cool points are out the window, and I'm all twisted up in the game...

02-05-2005, 08:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,196 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple SLS Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 31	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... I wanted to see it again and again and was hoping she was having a lot of fun. Ted __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

02-06-2005, 01:19 AM	#9 (permalink)
mf69_98 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 94 Location: Delaware, OH	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... I was wondering how I would take it, but as I sat back and watched her with another guy for the first time, I was amazed at how hot I thought it was. I loved watching them and kept thinking - this is just like watching a porn movie, only I can join in instead of just watching it. I still love watching her go at it with someone.

02-06-2005, 01:27 AM	#10 (permalink)
mfmyeahbaby Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 93 Location: michigan	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... I totally loved it. It was with a close friend of ours. Of course we very nervous but relaxed enough to try. He fucked her so hard and long, I was hooked. She loved it and we are still friends, enfact the respect for our joy of the mfm with him and our friendship seems to have grown.

02-08-2005, 12:40 PM	#11 (permalink)
bgbdbld Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Nevada	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... For me it was VERY erotic, It is a Mental thing I get off Mentally when I see her Orgasim and the expressions on her face. It is awesome, Sex is sex Lovemaking is for Couples only. Have Fun Enjoy it.

02-08-2005, 02:15 PM	#12 (permalink)
Partybare Registered Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Georgia Status: Couple	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... I have no regrets. I watched her many times, I get hot just thinking about it. I thank her for doing it. I hope she enjoyed it as much as I did.

02-08-2005, 08:03 PM	#13 (permalink)
DnHtxCPL Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 49 Location: D/FW Texas Status: married couple SLS Name:ngtytxcpl	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... Wow, what a feeling is all I can say. Nervous, excited, butterflys in my stomach. Watching the lust and ecstasy on her face! All I can say is OMG. Just loved it! And she enjoys it just as much as I do. Having him come over again tonight to give her a special treat and I can't wait! And afterwards the sex between us is just mindblowing!! Here's hoping it never ends. It's not for everyone but we enjoy it very much. __________________ "When authorities warn you of the sinfulness of sex, there is an important lesson to be learned. Do not have sex with the authorities."

02-08-2005, 08:25 PM	#14 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,824 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Guy's feelings after the 1st encounter... It was not bad, but not the big turn-on I thought it would be. Probably because we were newbies and it was all happening pretty fast. But it has gotten better and is very exciting now. My issues after the first encounter revolved around how the Mrs. acted toward the other husband the next day, and for a couple of months to follow. Because it was her first time being so "naughty" she felt she needed some connection to him to make it all okay and to not feel like a "slut" (paratheses because I don't believe in the word ). So she had quite a bit of contact with him for awhile. After our first experience with another couple that all disappeared and all has been hunky-dory since. But, there were some intense jealousy feelings on my part for a few months. And it had nothing to do with the actual sex itself. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

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