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Ok My turn! aim4kev @ SLS Thanks for any feedback! Aimee

Timeout! Whoa! I am sure there are two sides to this story. However, your concerns alone are enough to warrant a serious conversation with your wife about your rules for group play. It is unacceptable for either one of you to do anything behind each other's back or be placed in an uncomfortable situation. Sit down with your wife and tell her that it's ok if she enjoyed the othe male, but it is not ok for her to lie to you and keep secrets from you and it is not ok for you to feel disrespected by anyone in the group. If these pirameters cannot be met, then you may want to consider not attending the next party.

I agree with NandTfromCA I was once the womann who didn't want to swing. I had before in the passed and had decided it was a phase that I was done with. For 2 years my husband begged me. We did go back to a threesome scenario here and there but I was only doing it for him. Finally he stopped bugging me about it and one day, it clicked! I realize this doesn't work for everyone and given my past experience with swinging before, it made me more accepting of it again. However, there is truth in the approach...Stop bugging and let it be her decision. She knows you want it and maybe someday she will feel like trying it with you.

Thank you WesternSwing...I love it here!

Yes, he would most deffinitely be involved. I like the idea of him starting the "line" and finishing it. I had no idea that there was another name for that specific fantasy. I was, however, very familiar with the term "Fluffer". I just hadn't used that porno verbiage, lol.

Hello there and Happy Easter to you too! It sounds like you both have a very strong commitment and good communication for you to have gone thorugh many of the changes a young parent experiences, having children and being together for 10 years. So, I want to applaud you on that first. I also would like to note that it took a lot of guts for her to express her feelings about what is going on inside of her and let me tell you, I have been that woman before and it was hard "coming out with it". With that in mind, you owe her the same respect, HONESTY. If you honestly feel against her proposal, than you need to tell her. Do NOT do something because you feel you might lose her. TALK TALK TALK about it. A solution that makes both of you happy, should present itself. But you must find it TOGETHER. Aimee

I was sure hoping someone would come out with it! I too have the fantasy of a gang bang. Although mine differs slightly from the norm. I would not have them all waiting around me, cocks in hand waiting to get inside. I would have each man one on one for about 10 minutes or so. The other guys would be in a different room. They could have a cocktail, if they so desired or partake in the use of my cute little girlfriend's mouth while they are "on deck". I feel that having them one on one reduces the feeling of me being a slut and more like the best ride in the amusement park!

You aren't the only one. We have been together for 5 years and only married since last June. After year #1 we started slowing down our sexual activity to once a week and that continued for quite awhile. Our first year together, we were so care free and young and didn't have too many stresses. Since then, we have lead very stressful lives and I blame that loss of passion and fire, on that. It's easy for us to be with new people because it's detached and when we are together during a group scenario, the sex is hot! I'm not sure what category that puts me, lol

I agree with you graygo..and will add one thing to your advice..I always consider the consequences. If I make decision "A", am I will to accept the worst case scenario,in result? All of my friends know about my husband and I. Fortunately for us we have always gravitated towards friends that indulged in this sort of sexual appetite. To be honest, I am not sure how we knew this or when/how we told our friends of our lifestyle. I think I have always felt that it was a very natural part of my life so building up a huge CONFESSION of sorts would have been over dramatizing it. Maybe that's why I don't remember when I told any of them. Not sure that any of this really helps you. But I thought I would drop in my two cents. I really wish you luck. I cannot tell you how wonderful it is to be able to talk to my friends about my lifestyle. I sure hope your's will remain open minded for you. Aimee

Holding Hands and actually SLEEPING with the other person(s).

Two points to make and I will scoot my cutelitte rear, right out of here. 1. I have a bf who is currently packing a 10 inch cock and I am 5' 9" I have a long torso, long legs, etc. I have had two children and I know that I also have a long "canal" due to the long labor and comments my doctor made during labor. SO, my summation is this. I can take all 10 inches, it is humanly possible. However, It doesn't feel great to be pounded like a jackhammer from him. I can usually "moan" my way through it. (Knowing it is bringing him to complete ecstasy), but I gotta tell ya, if you're wife can handle 11 inches you have picked a winner. 2. Because I have a boyfriend with a 10" cock and a husband with an average 6.5" I have to do Keigals, RELIGIOUSLY. In the car, in the grocery line, watching T.V. in the shower, in bed, before I fall asleep. Because of this I have received HUGE compliments from my husband. After I get a good session from my boyfriend, my husband will enter me immediately and exclaim "Wow Baby! I can't believe you can get so tight SO FAST after him!" So, there they are..my two points. If anyone cares hehe Aimee

halaleuyah..AMEN. I totally agree. Have I mentioned how much I LOVE this group of people !?

It was with two single men. Separate situations, of course. It didn't bother me to know that they had feelings for me.We had become great friends (we=husband and I and the single male) so the feelings were recpriocated to an extent of "caring for" him, on my end. But, most certainly not "In-love" feelings. Both situations the single men were not looking for a serious relationship, yet found themselves expressing emotions they didn't think they could/would have in this situation. In the end they both admitted that they respected my marriage, they respected my husband and respected the bond that we have and are just happy to be a part of it in some way. Both, still date on the side and are certainly not exclusive to us. I suppose this situation could pose potential problems to a single that will not let go of the fact that the one they adore will not leave and that is where the cord would be cut, if that ever happened. Did that answer your question or was I totally off?

This has happened to me twice. Both times involving the other man and myself. The way I have handled it is, by referring to our rules. In the beginning, I explained to them that if "love" ever came to the table that no matter what I would never leave my husband and if there was ever an attempt on their part to try to see me away from my husband, I would call it off. The bottom line is, that I can't tell someone to not have feelings or care, even love, those involved in such intimate acts. But, trying to act on those feelings IS crossing the line of approprietness. Aimee

We play, on average, twice a week. There have been a few weeks where we have squeezed in three dates and some weeks we just need to breathe and sleep, lol. My husband is in the middle of getting his Masters and working fukl time. I stay home, so I obviousloy have more energy to play than he does. Aimee