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    Seattle
  • Occupation
    Photographer
  • Swinging Experience
    Almost
  1. I want to second window light. It is very soft and directional. Have the camera near the window, and the subject facing the window, and you will likely get very nice light. An advantage of working with a photographer is you get the subject's relationship with the photographer and not the camera. If you are shooting the two of you as a couple with the self timer, try taking some pictures where you are looking at each other instead of at the camera. And take lots of pictures. Pros take hundreds of pictures to get a couple good ones. Good luck
  2. OK, so we were at New Horizons yesterday, and we had a great time dancing. This is our second time at a swing club, and we are there more to get a taste of the lifestyle rather than do any actual swinging. We went up to the play area wanting to watch, but not really knowing how to approach it. AT NH there are more public areas and less public areas. We saw an attractive foursome playing in a public area and I did not know if it was alright with them if we watched them. And of course, I thought it completely wrong to ask them while they were having sex. So my question is, if there is a public area of a swing club, how do swingers feel about being watched?
  3. What do you like to masturbate to? I like soft porn. I like pictures of attractive women. I also like hardcore porn, but I tend to come if I masturbate to hardcore porn, and my orgasms from masturbating stink. I prefer to masturbate to feel the sensation and the desire to come. Are you a guy or a woman? I am a man. Yeah, I figure it is probably some kind of porn. But, what kind in particular? What is your fetish? Group/lingerie/anal/gay/boobs just a couple of examples. Group is my favorite. CFNM for some reason. Also I like the stories here. Also, how do you masturbate? One hand, two? Thumb on top or bottom? Toys? Certain positions? Usually seated, left hand. How long do you masturbate and would your SO be upset about that? 10 to 20 minutes at at time, some days three times, usually without coming. My SO is encouraging. Do you know what your SO masturbates to? Yes.
  4. If your mom kicked you out of the house when you were 17 and expected you to suffer on the streets, then what right does she have to have any judgement whatsoever about the life you are currently leading? None, in my opinion. You are going to hell, right? I mean, she already decided that. Why is she snooping around the hellbound's computer? I'd ask her that. Your question is what kind of a relationship do you want with her? If you want to have a truthful family relationship, I think she would have to be willing to go to therapy with you. I am sorry I can't answer any of the questions you asked. Bob (certainly going to hell in a mormon world.)
  5. This thread is the best discussion I have read not just on Swingersboard, but on the internet. For my part I would happily play with a couple where one of them was a paid escort as long as that person genuinely wanted to play with me. And I think that would be phenomenally flattering, someone who has sex professionally, chooses you as a partner of desire. However, the caveats are that I am a theoretical swinger (happily married to a doesn't think she will be a swinger, but willing to go to clubs to enjoy the atmosphere), and on topic, how can one know if someone who is being paid to be there genuinely wants to be? I imagine it is not that difficult, but then again... I am imagining. Anyhow, my thanks to Spoo, Singleagain, Sereneiders and Tybee as well as the others for such thoughtful and compassionate discussion.
  6. So, Do you want to swing? If not, don't. "Honey, I love you. I think it's great you have that fantasy, but it's a fantasy." If you do want to swing, I agree with Intuition, it seems like it should be equal. Bob
  7. Swing if you want to. Don't if you don't. Don't swing if your husband wants you to. (I mean, if that is the only reason.) I want my wife to swing. But first and foremost I want her to be happy. Sex is tough. It's hard to admit to your fantasies, accept your desires and be open about them. If your husband is having trouble talking about it now, he may feel judged. Does he know you feel like you aren't having enough sex? That may be a reason why he wants to swing, so you can have more. When I first brought up swinging with my wife, it was a highly charged topic, and it was hard for me to talk about it with her, because it was so exciting to me, I had difficulty maintaining a connection with her during the conversation. Basically, I had trouble hearing anything other than "yes or no." But we have been talking about it for a month or so now, and I understand her concerns much better. Cassie's
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