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  1. Really appreciate all the feedback. I think im going to sit down with the wife and really try to figure out the differences between the good experiences I had and the bad ones. Im sure with some good communication and a couple we are comfy with, there wont be any problems. Guess ill get back on the boat and start paddling again
  2. very interesting Alura. Thats something to thinking about. The only thing i see that could go wrong is MANY swingers dont want friends, they want swinging partners. Am i wrong?
  3. thanks so far for all the feedback. The reason why we have only had 7 or so experiences in 6 years is this(swinging) really isnt very important to us. We do it once in awhile for fun. Kinda like going to the movies. This last experience though got me so frustrated. We were really attracted to the couple but i think some of it might of been that it was a one night stand thing out of our local area. We have never done this before. Its always been meet the couple for drinks first, then plan a second play meeting if we all got along on that first meeting. Things were really rushed and no one really knew how to break the ice once we got to our hotel room. I was just really suprised that the Cialis didnt kick in. I had tried it once before in a non-swinging situation with my wife just for fun, and i was really blown away by how hard i got..lol. I guess though since this appears to be a mental thing, I had to search for another answer to this problem. I wonder if a hypnotist could help??? lol
  4. My wife and I have been swinging for about 6 years now but have had limited experiences. I'd say 4 soft swap experiences and 1 full swap. Well.. the first 2 times we did the soft swap thing, I couldn't get hard. It really devastated me because i had never had the problem before. In fact, after those 2 experiences failed, we went home each time and had incredible sex together without issue! Well, after those 2, we had 2-3 relatively good experiences. I wasn't the hardest I've ever been, but it was working and we both had fun with the couple. Well... the reason why I'm posting is the last 2 experiences we had a full and a soft swap scenario, I again wasn't able to get hard. At this point, i have no idea what to do. I'm frustrated and really want to find a way to beat this. The weird thing about the last experience was I actually used Cialis and took it abut 4 hours before. guess what.. NOTHING.. didn't work at all .is this even possible? lol:( Well.. I'm sure this topic has been posted before but i would appreciate any advice including if you feel the best thing to do would be quit swinging.
  5. maybe I will try viagra, its cant hurt. one question,couplewanting50, If i take it at like say 8pm, will I be ready by1am without worry of it wearing off by then?
  6. hmm..less effect huh. Not sure I want that. I think the cialis really did its job, I just wanna cut down on the side effects. Maybe the Advil might not be a bad idea. Thanks for the Tip! Anyone have any experiences with viagra and its side effects? Maybe that might be something i should try instead?
  7. wow! I just thought i would follow up on my original post. I finally got a chance to try cialis after a swingers party this past weekend. WHOA..lol! You could tell a difference right away. First of all let me tell you the time table on everything: 1)7pm at dinner I took 1 pill, 20mg cialis 2) Arrived at the party at 8pm and had 1 beer and that was it the whole night. I took peoples advice and cut back the drinking 3)got back to the room at 1am with a couple now, as soon as i got back to the room, i went in the bathroom to kinda freshin up and noticed something right away. Usually when I am about ready to do something like this, I get nervous and my cock gets really small..lol. Well, this time it was semi-hard and had a different feeling to it. Its hard to explain but it kinda had that feeling like if someone started to touch it once it would be ready to go. Well, it turned out if was! I had no problems at all and it was a great experience with the other couple. Now, with that being said, I would like to ask for some advice again from all the great people on this website. The cialis did get me one Major side effect. a BAD HEADACHE for about 24 hrs. It was bearable but still, very annoying. Is this anything I can do about this? Maybe cut the dosage back or maybe try another ED drug? I mean, for me its probably a confidence thing anyways and I might not need it anymore but Id like to keep my options open cause wow.. it got SOO HARD. it was awesome..lol So..can anyone offer me any advice on the headache issue?
  8. My prescription is for 20mg pills. Would 5mg really do the trick? seems kind low.
  9. another thing i just thought of was the last couple we played with we really never discussed any rules. The good experience we had we did discuss everything up front. So im sure that was a factor in the problem as well. Thanks to everyone! This is really helping me alot!
  10. couplewanting50, I think you touched on something that actually happened to me at the last experience we had. I wasnt sure if the women was really desiring me. I didnt get a clear vibe at the party, so when we went back to the room, that stressed me out. hmmm, thanks for that suggestion! Thanks to goodtimes as well, lots of great advice!
  11. i was really hoping that this wasnt going to turn into a drug review session..lol Anyways, I really appreciate all the suggestions. I will try one of those drugs and see what happens. I figure, it cant hurt and if i only need to take it a couple times to build confidence, then thats a good fix for this problem. One last plea though.. if anyone has any stories about overcoming this problem WITHOUT drugs, let me know
  12. I dont think i have a problem trying these drugs but people have told me they dont help you get an erection, they help you maintain one. So if this is the case, wouldnt it do me no good? Sorry to beat this topic with a stick. I just want to be clear.
  13. are viagra and cealis really that different? damm. i was hoping that i could do some excersises or chant in tougues rather than solve this problem with drugs. Especially since its not really a medical problem. But hey.. i know my insurance covers this, so what the hell i guess,,
  14. lol.. i wonder if the chat will work. I will definately try it . I was kinda hoping there would be some way to overcome this with using drugs. hmm.. the more i think about it though, maybe it would help just as a confidence booster for a certain time and then try things without the drugs. this is so helpful. keep the comments coming!
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