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C&D

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Tyler, TX
  • Interests
    Cars, Sports, and anything my kids do

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    CandD3

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  1. As you can see we are all of the same opinion. Communicate, Communicate. It can't be stressed enough. Take it slowly and make sure you discuss the bounderies and rules that can make both of you comfortable. Going into to this with open bounderies can have some major ramifications and that is something neither of you need. You'll find as things progress that the bounderies and rules will open a little more. Get as much information as you can about the lifestyle and discuss it very openly. This website is a great place to start. The people here have a ton of information and the both of you can benefit tremendously from it. Good luck! C&D
  2. Start with a simple hi my name is so and so. I've viewed your profile and feel that I fit the criteria of the type of person you are searching for. Please view my profile and respond if you agree. Thank you. If you are indeed the type of person they are searching for trust me...you will get a response. D
  3. "...you take it or leave it...things that their sayin' aren't right...if I promised you the moon and the stars would you believe it...games people play in the middle of the night" Sorry...couldn't resist And actually turning out to be the jealous type. D
  4. Well I posted this because we received just that. The guy sent us an email with a pic and all it said was..."my pic." No hello, liked your profile, nothin'. Just kinda rubbed me the wrong way. Like I said...most of you guys don't do this but if you do show a little more respect if ya want to meet the misses'. D
  5. I know most of you don't do this but if you want to meet a couple don't send a pic of your 12 inch dick with a message of "here's my pic." This is a sure fire way of getting a "no thanks" response. I assure you that 12 inches of personality goes a lot further than 12 inches of dick. CandD
  6. Actually aroused is an understatement. One of my favorite things about swinging is seeing C with another man or woman. Now, while C does find it very arousing she's still getting use to me being with another woman.
  7. A very simple and understandable concept. We've run into a few of those ourselves. It's just made us more reluctant to who we give access to now. I've made it so that the only difference between our public and private pics are that the private pics have faces on them. There's enough showing in the public pics to get a general idea of what we look like. If they want to see private pics then they can be patient and wait 'till we get to know them a little better. If they can't handle that then it's probably best that we don't get to know them anyway. CandD
  8. We used to feel that way about kissing. It being more for love. That was until C kissed another man and it was a serious turn on. Then she kissed another woman and oh man let me tell ya... CandD
  9. Yup...agreed. There is plenty to see in our public and private pics that there is no reason to send anymore. We do however get alot of free members that want to see pics and those are the ones that we are leary of to a degree. If we email a few times and they want to see pics then we'll send them ones with no face shots. The face pics only get sent when we start to feel like they are for real. And no...you did nothing wrong. Family and time come before anything and if they can't understand that then they might be someone best left alone. CandD
  10. It's just a learning curve that may take a little time to get use to. C is the same way. It takes her a little while to get comfortable. Matter of fact she did something this weekend that is totally uncharactoristic of her...she was the first one naked which pretty much told everyone what was about to take place. That doesn't mean she'll do the same the next time but it's nice to see that side of her starting to surface. Sure you may loose out on some playtime but it's not something that you can force. It just takes a little time for you to get comfortable being in that role. You can however start with someone that you've played with before and are already comfortable with. Next time ya'll are together try being the first one to break the ice and see how that goes. CandD
  11. And that's precisely what our profile is for. We're actively seeking other couples but it doesn't mean we wont consider a single male or female for that matter. And not to stereotype but single males are a little easier to find in everyday life where couples are a little harder to come by and that's the purpose of our profile.
  12. We don't seem to have a lot of problems with single males if we by chance happen to meet one. After all that's how we got started and some of our best times have been with single guys. Our profile however states that we are only looking for couples but that doesn't mean we will turn the single guy away. As long as he treats sleeping with my wife an honor and a privilege and not a quest.
  13. She has sought counseling, but he "doesn't have a problem". His words not hers......If it isn't one thing it is another, he has an addictive personality. Before the porn it was pot, or alcohol. The sad thing is she is a very patient person and has been putting up with this for at least 15 years! One day she will finally make the move and see that she needs and wants more than what she is getting, and deserves it and he will be left thinking about what he lost.
  14. C here of C&D, the sad thing is that "she" doesn't handle it well at all, it has been a struggle their entire relationship. The problem that she has with it is that he doesn't include her, and she is willing. She had some sexy pictures made (nothing nude) for him one year for their anniversary and he was totally pissed at her and didn't speak to her for days because of it. But it is o.k. for him to break them (financially) making phone calls and ordering pornos on pay-per-view or on internet chat rooms. I guess he expects his wife not to be that way.
  15. Yup...agreed. As long as C and I stay within the set bounderies then everything is fine. I have no problem with her going out and sleeping with another man as long as she tells me about it. That's not cheating to me. Now she doesn't feel as comfortable as I do. If I were to sleep with another woman that I had met whether I told C or not it would be considered cheating on her. So I believe cheating to be different for each individual or couple. We have a friend who's husband is addicted to porn. I'm talkin' internet, phone, movies...the whole nine yards. To her, he's cheating on her because he's not including her in their sex life. And I'm almost inclined to agree with her. D
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