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  • Birthday 01/15/1977

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    Happily Married Couple
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    CA
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    music,movies,reality tv,reading,art,sex,lots....
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    SAHM/freelance graphic design

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    curious2some04k

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  1. my hubby loves to use our dildos...(or have me use them on him!) he only recently fully admitted it (before, occasional finger play was usually the limit) but seems quite happy with the decision to be open about it!
  2. NOT true at all! My vagina easily bounces back to it's original size and shape! (after my child and after a good fisting or screw with my slightly large dildo!) soapbox - It takes a lot of work and care and time on my hubby's part before he can even attempt to go all out with the whole hand. Of course I believe that for the giver of the fisting...that is part of the fun of it anyway! like many others in this thread that seems too long for your liking have said...it has nothing really to do with anything other than personal desire! (stepping down from that soapbox now! )
  3. That has to be the case...there is a big trust issue involved with letting someone do that do you because I think the main concern (I know mine was) is simply the possibility of hurting the receiver.
  4. I have to agree with this post wholeheartedly! I haven't been back here for a few days after adding my response that I also enjoy fisting...and was just amazed at what most had to say (especially the Marilyn Manson comment). Most of the population would probably say the same thing about swingers in general that most of you said about someone who enjoys fisting. Oh well.....to each their own right! I also think that what you have said here sums it up really well... I would NEVER let just anyone do this to me. I have been with my hubby for 5 years (and known him for about 13) and the first time he even tried fisting me was this year! and it wasn't an all at once thing...it took much work, love, and slow going...but every once in a while I love it! And no I never feel dirty (but if I do it's because that's how I want to feel for that particular sexual romp! ) because it's just my hubby fucking me really well for lack of a better way to term it! I DID worry about the "being stretched out" issue when we started adding this element to our sex life...his response was that yes it does return to normal (after all his hand doesn't weigh 8 lbs. and consist of an entire body that is ripping it's way OUT of you!) fairly quick...and besides, he is the one who got off on stretching it to fit his fist so why wouldn't he get of on screwing it after?!?!? As far as the male perspective goes...you'd have to ask him...but I know that the way MY hubby fists me is wonderful!
  5. I have to agree with beachbaby on this one and be in the minority...I never thought that I would enjoy something like fisting, and even the few times I had seen it in a porno or something I wasn't interested. But sometimes the hubby just does things to me and I don't even notice...and only a few months ago that was one of the things that he decided to try. It took quite a few times to get to where we are with it now, and there is a lot of give and take and slow adjustment and listening and paying attention to and knowing the receiver's body I think... BUT it CAN, and has been many times for me, very nice and VERY pleasurable! Fisting (when done by and with someone who knows how and is making sure you are enjoying it) gets a big thumbs up from us!
  6. Yep, I'd have to say #1 would be the parents (more power to them if they want to play but EEWWW!) And then would come siblings and any other family members...again, it's their thing for sure and I wouldn't be freaked out by the fact that they were swingers...it's just something about family members and seeing everything out in the open unexpectedly! Depending on one's line of work. co-workers could be a concern....but I really think that once something like that is out, it can't really be bad b/c BOTH of the people are there for the same reason in the end!
  7. great points again.... And I think that I agree w/ the suggestion from jcbicpl and others about including the "curious" aspect of really knowing that we are both bi. I guess I thought that it was being honest when we started exploring and talking to others...and that the "curious" said that we were "bi-virgins". I have thought this myself many times though, about the fact that if you KNOW you want a same sex experience you are pretty much just Bi...and the more I have learned (especially where the internet is concerned) over the past months, I think you guys are right on in your comments. it does seem to be the common term used for people out looking for something other than what they say they are! So i think that I will take the advice here, and from now on label myself as just simply a Married Bi Female! Simple enough, and the male version of that goes for the hubby. I think, like others have said, it is just easier that way...and of course all needed details can be discussed as the talk progresses with each couple/individual.
  8. I can see where all of you are coming from in your responses. Imust say that i feel a bit more down than uplifted though after reading the final post here....about turning down "bi-curious" couples simply b/c they call themselves "bi-curious". i totally get (after lurking around and reading many posts as they appear) that there is a BIG iffy trust issue as far as finding people on the internet goes....but as I've said before we are stuck w/ this method for the time being due mainly to our own social issues! However....we REALLY ARE bi-curious, and that;s the best way I've found to describe it! We are BOTH completely happy w/ our own personal, married, heterosexual sex life...BUT we BOTH want to experience sex with a SAME SEX partner. my husband is a master at giving me oral...and he loves to fantasize about giving and/or receiving head, hand jobs and possibly anal with another man. I also have always (since i was young) wanted to and knew i would have sex with another woman. It just happens to be that we are going to do this all together. I am not at all coming down on you for your decision (as I am SURE you know these ropes better than we do!,) Ii just know that in the amount of time we have been seeking out others who are of like minds...that we have run across COUNTLESS scum...and i HATE to think that we are also being grouped in with these sort of people...the ones who "say" they have a wife...and that they are "really" bi-curious...but all they want is a photo or two of some nice tits! Bt...we will press on and hopefully (as with other internet "groups" of sorts) we will make our intentions known as we stick around and meld into the online swinger community!
  9. My husband and I are in search of a couple with a bi-male and find the same things you mentioned to be true. We seem to be a bit of the odd couple out in a few ways mainly b/c we are new to this, this meaning we are bi-virgins as well, also we have been together for almost 5 years w/ no other sexual partners included, and we both want to get all of our desires to explore our own bi-curious sides out of the way before we think about the swinging/swapping aspect of things. Sorry for running on so w/ that! The thing is that we REALLY want to do all of this together...which is why we so want to find another couple who want the same FF play, MM play before other things. It does seem that there MUST be others out there who want to do the same...but we've yet to find any of them.
  10. My husband and i are the same as many others here as far as sex during my period.....usually not the first day or so just b/c I'd rather not due to cramps. but as long as i feel like doing it....he's usually up for it no matter what! Just intercourse though...I think he's done oral once or twice, near the very end where flow was light....but I don't really like that either so we usually don't. As for giving him oral....I've never had a problem with that! as with some others usually the issue is more that i can't do too much if we want to move past that b/c he LOVES blowjobs and can cum very easily....as I know just what to do! I honestly can't say though if this is the "norm" in my experience. I have given oral to other men throughout my life that I was sexual with....BUT I never really enjoyed it when I was younger or with anyone other than the hubby (as is the case w/ most types of sex & me anyway....) I do think, as it's been said, that yes it has a lot to do with knowing what your partner likes as far as how you give him oral. ask him....I am sure if he pays attention to what parts of it make him want to cum....and then he communicates that to you, you will be drinking it up in no time! cheers!
  11. thought i might as well get my score now too being new! mine was 510
  12. i am quoting myself to add that i also agree with what others have said here as far as the "instant hot sex" goes......i think i will be able to do that (just sex....no ties) in a club/party type situation b/c yes that is what youa re all htere for! but i still prefer the idea of not having to go out and have sex with total strangers all of the time......i am guessing that these are all things that we discover as time and experiences pass. cheers!
  13. I am glad i saw this post! your comments seem so familiar b/c we have been saying this for weeks. being that the hubby and i are new to this we would love to be able to find a couple that we can be social w/ enjoy the same things and can hang out.....but b/c we are open and friendly there are also the benefits of saying "hey guys...wanna go back to the house and play tonite after the concert?!" i know just what you mean and i guess it all depends.....we hope to visit one of the swinger parties soon and maybe i will have a better idea then....but i am nervous too b/c i am the kind of person who likes to feel like i know something about the people i am planning on being intimate with......we'll see cheers!
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