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Suncouple started following Taking one for the team: How long can this go on?, He is quick to give oral to others, but not to me, Same room or separate? Together or solo?? and and 6 others
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House Party Games
Suncouple replied to austxmark's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Naked Twister! Amazon.com: Twister: Toys & Games- 39 replies
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He is quick to give oral to others, but not to me
Suncouple replied to VanessaV's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
"I brought the subject once when we were already arguing, and he said that he just felt like doing it at that moment." You have already had some feedback on this but .... you understand now. Here is some constructive advice: 1. Be sure to shower and be clean. Some guys like a strong scent but he may not. So, if you have been working up a sweat on the dance floor for a couple of hours - rinse off. 2. Regarding number 1, a bath is better than a shower. A shower may not work as well as you think without some leg-spreading and wash cloth action. Best advice if you shower only is to get a hand-held shower-massage type sprayer on a hose so it's easier to wash UP. Again, some guys like a strong scent but it is an acquired taste for many. 3. Wait until he is really turned on to suggest it. If he is hesitant he'll be more interested after his juices are flowing rather than in the car when you are driving home. Also, make sure he has yet to come and keep him that way. 4. Lube is really important for you and you can help yourself and him with a flavored lube. Be careful of the mint because that can burn some womens sensitive tissues. Experiment and have fun. OK. Here is the best advice I can give you. Make him read this book: "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman" - Ian Kerner Amazon.com: She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (9780060538262): Ian Kerner: Books Today the Amazon link shows 168 almost perfect five star reviews. That's for a reason. All you experienced Swingersboard guys think you know it all? I found out otherwise. -
"I pop all the herbs" Do mean herbal products or actual Viagra or Cialis (or real generics)? Try some actual Viagra or actual generic Viagra if you are using herb herbs. Anyone who says that is not what these drugs are for ... I disagree.
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Wife's all-time favorite by far: Amazon.com: Fun Factory Layaspot Personal Massager, Silver/Black: Health & Personal Care Best $10 you will ever spend: Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Lucid Dream 14 Multi-Speed, Waterproof G-Spot Vibrator, Twist-bottom Control, Purple: Health & Personal Care Forget about bunny ears. This rounds out the perfect basic toy chest: Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Lucid Dream 48 Squirmy Vibrator, Purple: Health & Personal Care
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Humanity has a special "thing" for the act that results in procreation. Your question is sort of like "What's the big deal about rape? It's better than getting punched in the nose." Although there are differences to be sure. I understand. No flames please! I'm on your side! It's just in a special category. I like it!
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What if he has a much larger penis than me?
Suncouple replied to tmayou's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
What if he has a Ferrari? Anyway ... I know what you mean. If you want to find out you could order a nice, large toy and experiment at home to see how she likes it! Amazon.com: California Exotics Love Vibes, Big Boy Lover, 9": Health & Personal Care So ... if she doesn't like it you only have everything else to worry about. If she does ... well ...? Then what? I think you can both have some fun experimenting, though! -
I am feeling guilty about being non-monogamous
Suncouple replied to safireblues's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
It sounds like a case of sour grapes to me. He is trapped in a marriage that doesn't satisfy him for the sake of the kids. That may be a noble thing to do for the kids but ... His attitudes have nothing to do with you. imho -
Fantasies don't have to come true. You may be happier keeping this in the realm of fantasy and enjoying it. Reality may be a disappointment - or worse!
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Taking one for the team: How long can this go on?
Suncouple replied to jid2008's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Find another couple with a woman you find attractive and a guy that finds her attractive. -
Must be an interesting video. Tom is not a frail man. We have not visited since the move. (That long??) Would you please describe (define) the "European Playroom" part? Thanks!
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Erotic Massage Party??
Suncouple replied to Suncouple's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
That reminds me of our last trip to Hedo. An very generous guy was giving vulva/genital massage to any woman who volunteered right out on the platform in the nude pool. Very happy customers! One lady in her 60's could hardly walk after her session. But I digress ... -
Has anyone ever tried or attended a party like this? We want to try it with maybe four or five couples. We really won't have five massage tables. Will the floor work OK? We plan to show a DVD like this: https://www.amazon.ca/Nina-HartleyS-Guide-Erotic-Massage/dp/B000MT0B0I and let everyone practice as a couple or try a rotation system of some sort to mix it up. Any advice from massage professionals?
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The swinging industry needs to be less homophobic to men
Suncouple replied to mackie44's topic in Bisexual Swingers
As they say on the TV commercial (sort of). "Start your own club!" Really! It's not like buying a railroad. Put together a business plan. Figure out how many customers you will have, what sort of fixed and variable costs there will be, how much you have to charge and go for it! Start-up costs are not going to be prohibitive. See about an SBA loan. Run it just the way you think a club should be run. Make up your own "rules". If there are many other individuals who share your interests you will at least break even and may even be able to cut back on your day job. Good luck!- 198 replies
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Masturbation Parties?
Suncouple replied to summitcouple's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
I remember an old Boy Scout legend about a party where a small number of boys would have a masturbation contest in the dark. Masturbation noises filled the room after lights out. The first one to come would shout out "done" to announce his winner-dom. The lights would be turned on when the unlucky scout shouted "done!" and the winner would actually be the mark. Everyone else was fully clothed and staring at the embarrased Tenderfoot. I don't know if this ever really happened but we were all warned.