Hi ya sc3way wife.
My wife is the same height as you and just a tiny bit smaller. Actually a lot smaller in the breasts. But hey, I think she is gorgeous. I pick her up and swing her around like she is my little doll and she squeals with delight. Your personality is the most important thing. Are you kind and fun to be with is what counts. I can picture you in my mind and I think that you would be just an awesome looking lady. Don't get all bummed out over the HWP folks. There are enough really nice folks who do not care about this issue that you shouldn't be bummed. Everybody has different tastes is all. I picture you as stunning. Someone else may not. It is their loss.
As long as you like yourself and are comfy with that. Then you are able to relax and meet others who can truly appreciate you. It is not necessary that absolutely everyone loves you is it? I didn't think so. You said "Why is it that no one bothers to see me for my personality instead of just looking at my measurements". Well I happen to believe that there are a lot of folks like my wife and I that think that personality is way way more important than measurements. (Let me throw in a disclaimer here - my mother is 5ft 2in and well over 300. I do not find that size very appealing, but there are men who love her.)
If you folks are ever planning a trip to Colorado, then give us a shout and we would love to take you to dinner and show you around.
Besides, I'll make you feel really great. That is if you don't mind a bit of drool on ya.
FYI: I am 6ft and buff but not a person that is overly concerned with HWP.
Have a lovely day. Tell hubbs hi from me. I hoped this made sense and helped.