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Pepper & Drew

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Pepper & Drew last won the day on January 9 2023

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About Pepper & Drew

  • Rank
    Mmmmm...tasty!
  • Birthday June 17

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Hurricane Alley
  • Occupation
    Pleasing each other
  • Swinging Experience
    3 years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    alhedonists

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  1. Hi, my name is Pepper, and I'm a squirter. This is a new phenomenon for me, and for me, it wasn't something I could (or can) control, and it is not an all the time thing. Thank goodness. Quite frankly, it's a pain in the butt, because you have to change the bed before you can go to sleep. But, once you know the combination, it springs the lock, so to speak. I don't know percentages, but I bet every woman can squirt. They just haven't had the right stimulation for it, and aren't relaxed enough to do it. Pepper
  2. This is my new best friend!! It's called the Wahl 2-Speed Coil Vibrator.I don't know how women hold down jobs after using this thing. I bought it 2 weeks ago, and it's the best toy I've bought....by far. And, it's actually good as a massager too. I've never tried the hitachi, but the Wahl is smaller and more portable. Seriously, I think I'm going to buy another one, because I'm probably going to burn this one out. Pepper
  3. Nope, no face pics in the public area, but sls certainly is not the main way of meeting people, and hasn't been for years now. To me, there are too many lookie-loos that are just fishing for dirt on their neighbors to be totally out there. Pepper
  4. Oh yeah, I've faked it. There have been times with playmates that were so disappointing that I just wanted to get the heck outta there. What are you supposed to do when you realize that you're just not that into him? Yell 'stop, you suck in bed and I'm never going to get there?' Yep, I've taken the coward's route before and if I get dud in the future, I might take that route again . Pepper
  5. That's sooooo true!!! And, after years of clean-shaven, I'm now sporting an FAA-approved runway. Pepper
  6. Income is not a concern, but as others have said, class is. I can think of one example that illistrates the concept of having all the money in the world and still being a low rent person...Brittney Spears. Pepper
  7. Oh, yes, we've been stood up. But, 100% of those "stand ups" were with people that we made contact with online, which is why typically we stick to meeting new people at clubs or house parties. Pepper
  8. Where there's smoke, there's fire, and if you feel uncomfortable with his actions with this woman, there's a dang good reason. I think you're being played like a DVD, and your husband is running rough-shod over your feeling and boundaries. You really need to sit him down and tell him exactly how serious this is. And, you need to stop seeing this couple, or any other couple for that matter, until you can agree how you'll procede with swinging. Do not deny your gut--it typically is correct. Now, this is good advice: Trust me, they're not the only couple in Pensacola....not by a long shot! Pepper
  9. If the guy has ever been to a house party or an on premise club, I'd bet big money that most of them have kissed a woman after she's blown another guy...they just may not have known it. I guarantee if you stay in the lifestyle any amount of time, you're going to come in contact with body fluids of someone of the same sex. My advice is not to get too heebed out about it. Pepper
  10. I don't wear them every day, but when we go to the social, I wear them. I've had too many encounters where a man (or actually, just as often, some woman) reaches under said skirt without permission. Besides, I do actually have some cute ones that I never get to wear otherwise. Pepper
  11. Nope, never introduced during, but there have been times when we're struggling a few weeks after playing to remember the names of people that we've played with. We were talking with friends about a couple we all met this summer at a party, and it probably took us 5 minutes to figure out both of their names. Pepper
  12. Amen. Not that I'm a porn conniseur or anything (ok, maybe I am ), but it seems like porn makers are afraid to have a new damn idea. Wouldn't it be cool to see a porno where there was no spit, no money shot, no anal after showing just a little saliva for lubrication, or ass-to-mouth and no fake moaning? Wow...what a concept! Pepper
  13. This may not be diplomatic or fair, but newbies scare the crap outta me. Most of our 'this-was-so-bad-that-it-will-make-a-great-story-to-tell-at-swinger-parties-without-naming-names' situations have been with newbies. I'm uncomfortable because I'm wondering if they're going too far too fast. I worry about whether there will be jealousy between them, and whether a fight will break out during play. I worry that they don't understand the concept of swinger discretion. I'm apprehensive that the guy will have performance anxiety and will freak out about it because it's never happened before. For the most part, I'm not interested in playing with newbies, just because it's too much to worry about. Just like I'd rather not ride with a 16 year old that just got their license last week, there's a confidence, comfort level, and improved "swing skills" that evolve when a couple has had some experience under their belt. It's nothing personal, and while we wouldn't totally rule it out, it's not on the top of the list of things to do. And yes, I know that we were newbies once too. Pepper
  14. Same reason why they're rude on the highway, or at the grocery store, or at work.... I blame it on poor social training. Seriously, they're telling you what you need to know. I'm all for owning up to who you are from the very start. If you're an asshole or a bitch, please let me know up front. So, I don't see anything wrong with people not sugar-coating themselves online. Sure as hell saves some time... Pepper
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