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Baddog and Angel

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About Baddog and Angel

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    Chicago, IL, USA
  • Interests
    Full swap bi-fem cpls; bi-fem singles, mmmmmmf
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  1. Although angel would respond differently on this point (she'll bogart that joint!), I'd have to say that while I love to smoke, and have done so off and on for 35 years, I do not care for extreme body highs that give me the whoozies when I want to try to concentrate on whatever. I like a few (3-4) tokes of the weed, just enough to put a smile on my face. I feel the same way about alcohol -- that 1-2 drinks are good for me, and more leave me feeling unfomfortably and dizzy. Although, oddly, there are rare occasions when I can pound 7-8 absolut martinis in a strictly social situation (w/ the guys after work on a fri.) and remain straight as a slightly bent arrow. (I always take a cab home on those nights...jush in case I'm not as think as I am sober! ha!) I doubt that I do that more than once a year, however. I'm a 2-drink, 4-hit guy for the most part. Also love mj brownies!!! A totally different kind of buzz. One nice thing about toking and swinging is that it's a good way for people to lose any jitters they might have (body image, meeting new people, trying new things, etc.). Why? Because when everybody is stoned then everybody is being goofy. But it does depend on the strength of the weed because some types will blast you off into another galaxy with 3 hits. Too high = paranoia, and that's not good for a swinging situation. A primary rule, however, is respect the house rules. Many/most clubs will not tolerate any drug use.
  2. Funny you should ask ... First, I'd have to say that I L-O-V-E a good bj. The hungry oral attentions of the Mrs. usually turn me into a wildman. But that said, No, I rarely ejaculate from oral sex alone. It's like there's a trigger point to my ejaculation that is hard to hit orally. However, I have had multiple "body" orgasms during oral sex. What is an orgasm without ejaculation? Well, you'll know it when it happens. It's your body going wild, just as with an ejaculation, but without the goo. It's different than ejaculation, but still a WOW experience for me. So, I don't mind long lusty oral attention being paid to my cock without ejaculation. But t-o-o long sometimes numbs me. Even that, however, can have its advantages because when our foreplay shifts into fucking, a little bj numbness can prolong the intercourse. Then again, if I want to "shoot the wad" as my honey blows me, I'll "assist" by stroking it as she is gobbling it ... and by the way, she can deep throat like a sword swallower. YOW! Back in my callow youth, I was adverse to masturbating while receiving a woman's oral administrations. But after watching porn flicks, I got the idea. Ever notice how many male porn actors stroke it off while being sucked? Well, I figured that if it's good enough for them, it's okay for me. NOTE: it's perhaps more difficult in a 3some/4some situation because some women are not into the guy beating off while they are sucking him off. So, it's usually something i only do with Angel. In summary: I don't usually ejaculate from oral alone, though the body orgasms are great. Long oral sessions may numb my cock, but that can make intercourse last longer. If I want to shoot during oral, I can stroke while Angel sucks (and BOY does see love to suck cock!). And my honey doesn't mind giving a long, mind-blowing ejaculationless bj because it means she gets to ride the bologna pony after all!!! There's one downside to not ejaculating during a bj -- that is that some women won't relent...won't stop...if the man doesn't cum from oral. They'll seem resentful that he didn't "get off" for them, and take it personally -- sometimes, even criticize the guy. This can really burst my bubble and spoil the mood, because it's judgmental and personal. My philosophy is that an orgasm (squirting and all) is not a destination, it's a journey. So if a woman doesn't cum from kissing or nipple play or teasing or cunnilingus or screwing or whatever...then I mix and match and try different combinations of the above until I can find a way to satisfy her and give her "release." After all, those "triggers" aren't always physical ones, and sometimes it's the mind that needs to be stimulated to set off the Big O. Baddog
  3. First, in the extensive private and club swinging experiences of my earlier life I rarely (!) ran across a couple who would swing separately -- either in separate rooms or at separate times. So where do clubbers or ad respondents get off trying to cherry pick couples to pull away the more attractive mate. Some of the most annoying memories were of just this sort of ignorance. That's not rude -- that is hubris raised to an art form. Now, on the weight issue ... do NOT lose weight to make yourself more acceptable. Any person who would turn their back to you because of your weight is not worth talking to, much less becoming intimate with. Are their valid reason for slimming? Yes, or so we are told. But if you are otherwise healthy, and you and your mate are happy with each other, then those are the most important things. This is not to say that I (yes, I am heavy) expect all the Barbi and Ken couples to rush to rip my clothes off. But to turn one's back to another person, to me, marks someone as so shallow as to be a waste of life. All I can say, now at the cusp of 50, is: if you're young and pretty, live every day of your life as if it were the last because someday you WILL be old and saggy or fat ... and people as shallow as you will turn away in disgust from YOU. While we all have the right to our preferences on sex partners, no one has the right to treat anyone discourteously. This includes some sack of bones telling someone else they ought to lose weight. It also includes telling such a callow individual that they ought to develop some character and show some manners.
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