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Pat_38NV

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About Pat_38NV

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    M. Female
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    Las Vegas, NV
  1. By the time we actually meet people, we already have talked to them enough to think there is some promise (or else we wouldn't be meeting them). And when we meet, we usually can read them well enough to know if it can go farther or not. Thus it is not unusual at all for us to swing the first night we meet a couple. Other than that we respect their feelings if they need more time. It does take some time in the lifestyle to learn to read people but it does come.
  2. I was never the poster child for chastity...I was the girl with the reputation in high school, although honestly most of it wasn't deserved. That being said, I was always sexual. My husband and I enjoyed watching porn videos, and one day we were watching one where the actress (I think it was Shanna Mc Cullough) was having her face massaged by two hard cocks. I know..nothing special, but it was an image I couldn't erase from my mind. I got so intrigued by the thought of pleasing and being pleased by more than one man at the same time that it was my main fantasy. So we decided to look in swingers magazines so we could try to fulfill my fantasy. As a result, we met a very attractive couple that fulfilled that fantasy, even though we didn't want to meet with them again (another story). Oh yes, my husband didn't mind helping me to fulfill that fantasy at all....lol
  3. We have gotten together with 5 and/or 6 couples a few times over the years and it was great fun. The very best was when we squeezed into a room that was darkened like a dark-room. No light at all...it was more like "Oh here's a body, I think I'll play with it!"
  4. My husband and I met with a couple... the first time she really wasn't in the mood, and so we had a nice 3way, my husband, her husband and me. The second time, she had a 'tummy ache'... once again, a 3way... Come to find out from another swinging couple we knew, that was their usual thing... she would come along simply so he could get what he wanted.
  5. We have no problem with entertaining our swinging friends at home. But we prefer them to depart after we are done. It's just our way. And when we go to visit someone at their homes, we almost never spend the night. For one reason, my husband is one of those that has trouble sleeping in anyone else's house other than our own. I can sleep anywhere.... beds, couches, airplanes, behind the wheel...well...maybe not.
  6. We have, on rare occasion, let someone pick me up while dancing or something like that, and wind up in a 3way. That and meeting someone in a swing club and being in bed with them a very short time later. While we definitely prefer married couples, the stranger thing definitely has its place.
  7. My husband and I almost always reply courteously, either in e-mail, or even in person, that we aren't interested or that simply the 'vibes' are not right. Three-quarters of the time they respect that and all is well. I think that is because we have pretty well screened people to get to the go/no-go point in the first place. By that time we pretty much know how to address the issue. What makes me mad, and it could just be me, are those that follow up with 'Why not?' To me, if we say 'no thanks', then the subject is over. Maybe its none of their business as to why not. In the very least they need to respect that as our answer. We have been rejected at times as well, and when that happens we don't push it. If we did, we know SOMEONE was going to be strained somehow. There are other people to get to know without getting bent out of shape over each rejection.
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