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About jnbsmokin

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  • Birthday 06/07/1983

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  1. it is a marvel, but so many women like to pee and claim they have, ruining it for the rest of us that actually can. Great post!
  2. Ditto! Things like that tend to come out at some point......
  3. I was talking about it being incest..... you know, keeping it in the family?
  4. He lets me play back there, but mention the idea of a male doing it, and he pulls that macho hell no attitude..... lol There are guys that enjoy just a little bit of that sort of play and still call themselves straight, so J's too straight for it...lol
  5. I would hope people wouldn't have made THAT assumption!!! You might be a little freaky, but that's just nasty....
  6. He's ok with it to an extent, he knows how I felt about our past encounters and how I percieve my body, he claims I am severely body dismorphic. But I don't agree with his completely unprofessional diagnosis... He claims the only opinions that matter are his and mine... like I said, he hates forums, but I love getting real opinions from others, and I just don't mention them very much. Everyone likes to be validated, even if it's by strangers...
  7. He refuses to read it, he actually hates forums of any kind... lol He knows how I feel and I talk about my threads and posts I make. But he leaves the room if I pull it up on the screen. I'm much more social than he is, but if it's face to face, he opens up. He hates talking on the phone too though. I can't really blame him, he is a telco engineer and has to stare at screens all day.
  8. I actually deleted the aff account yesterday. It turns out that he was upset by the "fit & buff" single males/couples flirting and such. He wasn't taking the time to realise that I didn't initiate contact with them. So he was trying "to get his back", when he had jumped to conclusions in the first place.... Some men! But he has apologised and we will be swinging at some point, and I'm keeping our sls open and will still be paid untill July or August. Things are kind of crazy now anyway. I'm going back to school for more photography courses and trying to set up a trip to go to NYC to see the endometriosis specialist and set a surgery date, so it's better this way. And thank you SWMS! I'll take that as a compliment, and those are always appreciated. But if you had seen a before baby pic, you might agree with me on my having work to do.... lol We are stepping back, but being nosy as I am, I don't plan to leave the board, I have met too many great people here to willingly give it up.. Plus, there is a lot of great info!
  9. Older blog, I know, but I have to say if it had been me, I would have blown them a kiss on the way to smoke.... I'm all for pda...to an extent
  10. Tribbles, You have a great point, I know hiv can take 6 months to show up. We have played 3 times in the past 3 years and were just tested again in November. It's something we do around our anniversary too(hence the Nov test even though we hadn't played since oct 06). The aids thing is scary, especially because people can carry it for 10 years + before showing symptoms. And if our testing policies scare people away, well I consider that a very good thing, because it most likely means that they would ruin our "clean streak". And that's something I can't abide. After all, if we can't be very picky and strict about who we have sex with, then what can we be picky about, you know? We are only after clean naughty fun, if that makes sense...
  11. Great post lott!!!!!!!! This is exactly why we ask how often people play before we mention tests. We attack this issue head on in the second email, letting people know, we only play with test results, and only if they have had completely protected sex since the last test, and they must be willing to submit to a test 2 weeks prior to playing with us. Most hiv/aids tests take up to 2 weeks for results. We have no issue doing the same. One of our mfm was with a good friend of ours, he still had to get tested! I only say nasty, because of them being willing to spread it, the honest and up front people with std's get nothing but respect from us. I suppose in my temper, I didn't make that clear.
  12. I don't get cold sores or fever blisters, but if I did, It would be front page on my profile. I am all for honesty.
  13. I know that it is not the end of life. But anyone who knowingly hides having it, potentially spreading it to unsuspecting victims.... well I have severe issues with that. And yes, I know it has to be asked for specifically, we get tested after 6weeks and 6 months of being with another person. We obviously don't play often. And I also know, that taking Valtrex only lessens the chance of spreading it. That is the problem, it only lessens that chance. And most people don't know it, but anyone who has any form of unprotected sex(vanilla or not) should still be tested for everything very often. That is an issue. People don't seem to think about it. How many of us would forgo our bi-annual dentist appointments? Very few who wanted to keep a healthy mouth. This is just as important. In fact moreso! You can't exactly spread gingivitis to a playmate, but it seems more people are concerned about it, then a life-long skin rash. Just a skin rash, that it may be, but I don't have it--- even though the statistic is 1 out of every 5 adults. Yeah, I research this sort of thing often because I care about keeping my body free of this sort of thing. Trading full test results is absolutely mandatory for any sort of unprotected fun, and if they have played since the test, it's completely protected or not at all. Doctors may not consider it a health risk, but if a person gives me something, knowing I am clean, even if it is just a rash--it is still at this time, lifelong! It's a life sentence, and you know, I would be willing to spend time in prison to be sure somebody else wasn't infected by a pos(s) like herpescpl. That is sop disgusting. You, 50'slady, are obviously a strong person, and like was mentioned before, there are groups on yahoo and Adultfriendfinder for people with herpes and other std's. Your swinging doesn't have to end, and neither does your honesty. Nor do you have to make it completely public.
  14. I don't know about this, I'm anti-hooker, of course I am from TN--- the Volunteer state...lol I would rather be with somebody who actually wanted to be with me. This coming from the fem-half.
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