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DarkenFreaky

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About DarkenFreaky

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 05/21/1969

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Washington, DC
  • Interests
    Reading, movies, roleplaying games, video games.
  • Occupation
    hedonists
  • Swinging Experience
    over 10 years
  • Anniversary
    nov 10

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    darkenfreaky
  1. Hall passes can work when limits (or lack of) are clearly defined and nothing but entertainment is the desired outcome. Alan & Dee aka as DarkenFreaky
  2. Yes we have face pictures just about everywhere. We are very open about your lifestyle. Everyone who gets to know us, vanilla or otherwise, knows that we are not ashamed of it. Even if we were to run for office we would not hide it.
  3. First we are sorry for how things ended up for you. However, especially playing bareback, you had to know this was a risk and not standing by her/the baby is a bit fucked up in our opinion. Now of course this has to be judged with the fact that she did break your rule. Sometimes you just can't be with people no matter what you feel for them. This is true in our out of the lifestyle. As for her childish behavior after telling everyone you are to blame, that just shows she was not the woman for you in the first place. Chalk it up to hard lesson learned and keep moving on.
  4. Almost everyone we know for any real length of time knows we swing. co workers, friends and most family.
  5. We have rarely been in a situation to use this but when we started dating we discussed all possibilities we might find ourselves in. We use a safe word. Something that is not extra strange but not used in everyday conversation to know that something is wrong and that the other should step in and excuse us both to discuss what is going on.
  6. Most people we meet online. That is sls, yahoogroups and a few other sites. The next way is attending other peoples parties. We have been successful a lot mostly by learning to weed out the people that contact us fairly quickly and being selective of which parties we go to.
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