2New2it
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- Birthday 09/05/1941
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Fort Worth
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restoring old cars
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Occupation
retired
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2New2it started following What do guys wear to a swingers club?, Swinging Over 55 Club, Question about wife swinging alone for first time and and 3 others
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Like others have said, it's hard to find anyone interested in "the over the hill gang". What's even worse is that we have communicated with several people over 55 who are only interested in playmates under 45!
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Question about wife swinging alone for first time
2New2it replied to SWConnecticut's topic in Swinging Solo
Yes, my wife has done it several times. We first had a threesome with her young lover, but he discovered he was very uncomfortable with another man in the same bed and couldn't be enticed to do it again. My wife and I discussed it thoroughly and because we both liked and respected him so much, we decided to let her try meeting him alone. Their first time alone came when I was out of town for an extended period of time and the knowledge of what was happening was as big a turn-on for me as it was for them. I experienced no jealousy and she really enjoyed it, so their one-on-one relationship has continued for several years. We seem to be more comfortable with the fact that he always comes to our house for their play sessions. Sometimes we all have dinner together and then I will leave for the evening. Sometimes I stay home, but give them their privacy and I'm totally comfortable withe either situation, as are they. Needless to say, after he leaves things get pretty hot around here. Because he is quite a bit younger, her playmate is non-threatening to our relationship and I encourage her to have a good time with him as often as she wishes. So far, it's been a very enjoyable situation for all of us. -
How and where did you meet your partner?
2New2it replied to curious24's topic in Curious About Swinging?
We met on AOL 12 years ago and it was love at first type. We've been together 10 years and married nearly 5. -
Wife wants MFM but doesn't want to be involved in planning
2New2it replied to mtbound's topic in Curious About Swinging?
A couple of years ago, my wife was scheduled to take a business trip to another city. She would be staying several day alone at a hotel in a town where she knew no one. Being a loving husband, I decided to see if I could find someone to "entertain" her during her free time. The best part is that it would remain a surprise until I drove her to the airport and handed her a name and phone number. She had previously made me very aware of a man's physical attributes that turn her on, so that part of the search was easy. I also know the personality types she enjoys being around, so that wasn't a problem. With those facts in mind and a month to work with, I searched personal ads in that city for the perfect man to be her companion for a few days. I weeded through several hundred ads, but finally found a guy who was perfect in every way. After contacting him, we exchanged many e-mails to assure ourselves that the two of them would be compatible. It was almost too good to be true, but they were the perfect match. Then the fickle finger of fate reared it's ugly head and her trip was cancelled. He was very disappointed, but she was spared the same, because I had yet to tell her. Because she still entertains the fantasy of a sexual encounter with "the perfect stranger", I hope to find a situation to surprise her again...but with better results this time. -
Discrimination by employer towards our lifestyle
2New2it replied to stoco's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
The missing and very relevant link here is the reason they gave for your demotion and probation. Refusal to answer personal questions is by itself not a valid reason for diciplinary action. That said, your resignation was voluntary and will be difficult to fight without you being prepared to open your entire lifestyle to the world. Your choice. -
What terminology do use to describe yourself?
2New2it replied to OhioCouple's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Erotic recreationalists. -
What do guys wear to a swingers club?
2New2it replied to Highway Sexy's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
I can't imagine jeans not being the norm in any N.Texas club! They are considered appropriate wear for weddings and funerals and I've seen them at both. Really dressing up involves polished boots and a sport coat.- 54 replies
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My 7" length sometimes hurts my wife and while my average thickness works for her, she really enjoys them very thick.
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Viagra - Your experiences please...
2New2it replied to Blondx2for4's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I've only tried it a few times in situations where a quick recovery is desired. It takes about a half-hour to feel the slightly fuzzy effect on my vision. That is the only negative feeling. Since I'm getting into the senior citizen category, there has been a slight softening of a normal erection over time and Viagra makes my erection rock hard. It also does not get totally soft between sessions. The positive effects last through the night and well into the next day, but the fuzzy vision lasts a couple of hours at most. I use a half-tablet and the sample 6-pack has lasted about 2 years. I think there is still one left in the bottle. -
We've done FMF, MFM and she's been in a FFF, but her remaining fantasy is having 4 or 5 younger men. That one will likely remain a fantasy, though hope springs eternal.
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I enjoy watching my wife have fantastic orgasms with our playmate. When the two of us make love, she gets off several times, but when we have a threesome, the newness of the other man is obviously more erotic and often he is the one who brings her to climax most often. After all, the MFM threesomes are what makes her fantasies come true and I'm glad she enjoys them.
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Can you describe your ideal swing partner(s)?
2New2it replied to Elusive BiFem's topic in Swingers Talk
Male or female, they must have enough things in common with us that we can enjoy getting together for more than sex. We have no interest in one night stands, no matter how physically attractive the potential playmate might be. We both prefer people who are a bit on the plus side of a perfect body. Women with curves are appreciated, and looks are not important if there is physical attraction. Cleanliness is mandatory and pierced body parts or tatoos are pretty much a turnoff. We much prefer people our age and since a lot of folks in their 50's have no interest in recreational sex, that limits our activities. My wife does enjoy a substantially younger male playmate, but usually doesn't appreciate their out-of-bed personality as much as someone closer to our age. It makes no difference where the person lives if we can get together a few times a year. We're quite conservative in all aspects of our life and that really limits the number of people we enjoy being around, since conservatism and recreational sex don't often travel hand in hand. One final thing. We have three dogs and won't even think about playing with someone who didn't love dogs, or who had a problem if they got dog hair on their clothing while visiting us. -
I scored 350, but there were several questions that didn't have the right answer for me.