Leaving body marks

**BiloxiCouple** · 10-28-2003, 11:32 PM

Has anyone had this happen before? Before we get into it, it was an interesting experience for me.

Have you partied with someone and they left marks on you? i.e. hickies or bite marks or maybe scratch marks?

How did it affect you? Your spouse?

In the throes of passion things happen and you can't always plan them out in advance.

For us it was a positive and new experience. The sensation of touching a sensitive spot makes that moment of passion last for several days as I am coming to realize.

The wife smiles at me when I remind her of it or she sees the marks. The only thing is I have to wear a shirt around the kids until the marks are gone.

Thanks and you know who you are.

biblonde · 10-28-2003, 11:44 PM

some marks are good. But we did have a lady leave lots (i am talking 13 clawmarks) from the top of hubbies back to bottom. Well that kinda annoyed me. I personally exspect some marks and that is great and fun to talk about after the fact! It does keep it going for days on end. I have also had a lady friend leave a hicky (very small) on my neck before after we made out for the first time together and the first time for me...she said it was so i would remember!! So i would have to say small marks are great as long as it is within reason. I have long nails and I'm careful about leaving scratches because i dont want to be inconciderate about it. I have in the past left little ones here or there and silly but i feel bad about doing that although they havent seemed to mind any. As long as it was done during passion and not just to say "hey i was here" i find it a turn on to see. I know my hubby did a good job!!

that is my 2 cents for the day

yawanna · 10-28-2003, 11:45 PM

Luvved those pics BiloxiCouple !!!

Michcouple · 10-29-2003, 01:32 PM

What pics?

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-29-2003, 02:57 PM

I am bad about leaving marks at time... when I really get into things or when I've been drinking. AND, I love to be bitten so it's not uncommon for me to end up being the marked one as well.

If I'm not too drunk to care (or for that matter to notice that I'm doing it), I do try to NOT leave marks... it is possible to bite, claw, etc without leaving them.... but occasionally you don't know what you really did until the next day.

Bite ME!

yawanna · 10-29-2003, 04:02 PM

Quote:

What pics?

On another thread.... can't remember which one sorry.

yawanna · 10-29-2003, 04:03 PM

found it!!!

Bewitched on the Beach

thestars · 10-30-2003, 08:36 AM

A few small maks can be a nice reminder how the night went.
Any type that needs ointment later, well that is a bit excessive.We will allow them and will place them where the kids or anyone else will not ask questions later.
We always have same room and keep an eye or join in when we swap,so the marks can be a reminder as to what is a great feeling.Can be a learning experience...:evil:

**TNT** · 10-30-2003, 09:46 AM

Ummm, yes I have left marks before, didn't mean to, just happened.

Sometimes they are not good to leave...like when your husband is right out of boot-camp and it's the day before inspection. Honestly, I really didn't mean to leave marks, it was just that we had been separated so long and well...I got carried away facelick

Teresa

BradAndJanet · 10-30-2003, 11:27 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thestars
A few small maks can be a nice reminder how the night went.
...

Mmmm...I know what you mean. I enjoy having my nipples pinched, bitten, etc. J knows this and obliges.

The next day they're sometimes sore, but part of the fun is having a souvenir from the night before.

-B

WesternSwing · 03-30-2006, 01:33 AM

Although there have been occasions where in the heat of the moment it can just happen, overall both Mrs. WS and I are against body marks given by other people. Especially anywhere that can't be covered-up easily. This is definitely an area that a partner has to ask about first.

We've given them to each other... but we're married to each other and for us that's different then some guy marking-up Mrs. WS's body.

Mr. WS

plymouthsd · 03-30-2006, 03:17 PM

During passion she loves to have her breasts sucked. When we engage in a hot, (some are just hotter then others) she likes the new male to mark her breasts with deep bright hickies on both sides of her nippples and just underneath them. This benefits all of us, she goes wild when it happens and for the several days it takes for them to go away everytime she sees them it makes her hot again so I benefit from that. All in all everyone benefits.

intuition897 · 03-30-2006, 04:03 PM

I'm not quite as affected by bruises or scratches as I am by perfume, cologne or the scent of another body on Mr. intuition. It just drives me crazy. Trouble is, it only lasts a short time.

But "personal evidence" like lipstick stains for example, are cool too. Sort of like in that post, 'You know you're a swinger when you see lipstick stains on your husband's collar and all you can do is smile.'

WesternSwing · 03-30-2006, 04:10 PM

Lipstick stains properly placed are just plain erotic.

Mr. WS

kirscovitch · 03-30-2006, 05:22 PM

small visible marks are ok. ive had my back clawed into hamburger before, and as long as i can cover them up when i want too, thats ok too.
the girlfriend doesnt really mind too much. shes got some claws of her own....

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10-28-2003, 11:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Leaving body marks Has anyone had this happen before? Before we get into it, it was an interesting experience for me. Have you partied with someone and they left marks on you? i.e. hickies or bite marks or maybe scratch marks? How did it affect you? Your spouse? In the throes of passion things happen and you can't always plan them out in advance. For us it was a positive and new experience. The sensation of touching a sensitive spot makes that moment of passion last for several days as I am coming to realize. The wife smiles at me when I remind her of it or she sees the marks. The only thing is I have to wear a shirt around the kids until the marks are gone. Thanks and you know who you are.
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10-29-2003, 01:32 PM	#4 (permalink)
Michcouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 845 Location: Michigan Status: couple	What What pics?

10-29-2003, 02:57 PM	#5 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	I am bad about leaving marks at time... when I really get into things or when I've been drinking. AND, I love to be bitten so it's not uncommon for me to end up being the marked one as well. If I'm not too drunk to care (or for that matter to notice that I'm doing it), I do try to NOT leave marks... it is possible to bite, claw, etc without leaving them.... but occasionally you don't know what you really did until the next day. Bite ME!
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10-30-2003, 09:46 AM	#9 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Ummm, yes I have left marks before, didn't mean to, just happened. Sometimes they are not good to leave...like when your husband is right out of boot-camp and it's the day before inspection. Honestly, I really didn't mean to leave marks, it was just that we had been separated so long and well...I got carried away facelick Teresa
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10-28-2003, 11:44 PM	#2 (permalink)
biblonde Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:curious1918	some marks are good. But we did have a lady leave lots (i am talking 13 clawmarks) from the top of hubbies back to bottom. Well that kinda annoyed me. I personally exspect some marks and that is great and fun to talk about after the fact! It does keep it going for days on end. I have also had a lady friend leave a hicky (very small) on my neck before after we made out for the first time together and the first time for me...she said it was so i would remember!! So i would have to say small marks are great as long as it is within reason. I have long nails and I'm careful about leaving scratches because i dont want to be inconciderate about it. I have in the past left little ones here or there and silly but i feel bad about doing that although they havent seemed to mind any. As long as it was done during passion and not just to say "hey i was here" i find it a turn on to see. I know my hubby did a good job!! that is my 2 cents for the day

10-28-2003, 11:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
yawanna Has Left the Building Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,176 Location: Canada Status: married female	Luvved those pics BiloxiCouple !!!

10-29-2003, 04:03 PM	#7 (permalink)
yawanna Has Left the Building Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,176 Location: Canada Status: married female	found it!!! Bewitched on the Beach

10-30-2003, 08:36 AM	#8 (permalink)
thestars Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 40 Location: eastern nc Status: couple	A few small maks can be a nice reminder how the night went. Any type that needs ointment later, well that is a bit excessive.We will allow them and will place them where the kids or anyone else will not ask questions later. We always have same room and keep an eye or join in when we swap,so the marks can be a reminder as to what is a great feeling.Can be a learning experience...:evil:

03-30-2006, 01:33 AM	#11 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Leaving body marks Although there have been occasions where in the heat of the moment it can just happen, overall both Mrs. WS and I are against body marks given by other people. Especially anywhere that can't be covered-up easily. This is definitely an area that a partner has to ask about first. We've given them to each other... but we're married to each other and for us that's different then some guy marking-up Mrs. WS's body. Mr. WS
	__________________ "Sex is something you do, sexuality is something you are." ~ Anna Freud

03-30-2006, 03:17 PM	#12 (permalink)
plymouthsd Active Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 15 Location: Virginia Status: couple	Re: Leaving body marks During passion she loves to have her breasts sucked. When we engage in a hot, (some are just hotter then others) she likes the new male to mark her breasts with deep bright hickies on both sides of her nippples and just underneath them. This benefits all of us, she goes wild when it happens and for the several days it takes for them to go away everytime she sees them it makes her hot again so I benefit from that. All in all everyone benefits.

03-30-2006, 04:03 PM	#13 (permalink)
intuition897 Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,633 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:intuition897	Re: Leaving body marks I'm not quite as affected by bruises or scratches as I am by perfume, cologne or the scent of another body on Mr. intuition. It just drives me crazy. Trouble is, it only lasts a short time. But "personal evidence" like lipstick stains for example, are cool too. Sort of like in that post, 'You know you're a swinger when you see lipstick stains on your husband's collar and all you can do is smile.'
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03-30-2006, 04:10 PM	#14 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Leaving body marks Lipstick stains properly placed are just plain erotic. Mr. WS
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03-30-2006, 05:22 PM	#15 (permalink)
kirscovitch Active Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 10 Location: aniwa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:kirscovitch	Re: Leaving body marks small visible marks are ok. ive had my back clawed into hamburger before, and as long as i can cover them up when i want too, thats ok too. the girlfriend doesnt really mind too much. shes got some claws of her own....

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