Circumcision question

brandi511 · 12-29-2007, 01:30 PM

My husband is not circumcised. We are new to swinging and were wondering if this is going to pose a problem. He is extremely clean. Should we tell other couples in advance?

**TNT** · 12-29-2007, 01:37 PM

It's never posed any problems for us and we've never told anyone in advance. An uncircumcised penis looks pretty much like a circumcised one when they are both erect.

Teresa

Spoomonkey · 12-29-2007, 01:43 PM

One night at our club, we were about to go upstairs with a couple. I went into the bathroom and the husband followed me. As I was using the urinal, he pulled out his junk and showed it to me.

"Think she'll mind that I have a Prince Albert?"

Yes, he did; wagging there just about a foot from my pants leg. It was probably the most uncomfortable moment I have ever had in swinging.

"Uh... I doubt it..." I said, suddenly unable to pee...

That has nothing to do with your question, but it was the first anectdote that popped into my head.

Maybe the point is, we typically don't ask questions prior to heading upstairs about big or small, cut or un-cut, pierced or not pierced. We have connected with the couple we are heading to a room with and while I can imagine (if I try hard enough) a few unpleasant surprises that may pop up, "lack of circumcision" wouldn't be one of them.

Mrs Spoo has never been with a guy who is not circumcised (which I find rather surprising, actually) so she doesn't know if she would enjoy it or not. Since you mentioned cleanliness, that is the one issue that would pop into her head. If your husband is a clean guy - making that a non-issue - then that wouldn't be a problem at all...

Besides - cut guys can be pretty hygiene deficient themselves sometimes - which is one of her major complaints when it happens.

For me - playing with someone new for the first time there is a joy of discovery about that person - and those are always some of my favorite swinging memories. I don't like to "over talk" and take the fun away. So my advice would be don't think of it as a big deal.

Now, if you run into a number of couples who get to a room, see your husband naked and bolt, then you might want to start bringing it up prior to heading up - but I am guessing that won't happen.

Spoomonkey

tribbles · 12-29-2007, 01:57 PM

We have seen a mix of cut and uncut and never heard of anyone running away from either.

I would be surprised if you have any problems over it.

YMMV

**Alura** · 12-29-2007, 02:39 PM

I doubt your husband will have any problems. There are advantages to being uncut.

Alura

SCcpl40 · 12-29-2007, 03:23 PM

If it's important to the other couple, they will ask. My husband is cut, but he's only been asked twice in 11 years.

socolais · 12-29-2007, 06:10 PM

I'm uncircumcised and I've had one lady mention that it's a deal breaker. Don't worry about it at all, be proud of it.....

GoNatural · 12-29-2007, 10:12 PM

Yes, tell him to be proud of it. I wish that I were uncut.

**LFM2** · 12-30-2007, 12:58 AM

Mr. LFM is uncut. He's never had any women scoff at him, but then like TNT said, they are pretty much the same looking at a cut penis when erect. I wouldn't want him any other way!

FunCalifCple · 12-30-2007, 01:08 AM

The only purpose circumcision serves in this world is to give the woman one last point of verification before she spreads her legs whether she is breaking ethnic/religious boundaries should offspring result from the act.

Uncut men maintain sensitivity and benefit from sex much longer into adult years.

safireblues · 12-30-2007, 11:21 AM

I'd never seen an uncut penis until recently and once I did, I couldn't believe people would make such a fuss about it. Like others have said, once its erect, it's hard to tell the difference.

**BiloxiCouple** · 12-30-2007, 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FunCalifCple

The only purpose circumcision serves in this world is to give the woman one last point of verification before she spreads her legs whether she is breaking ethnic/religious boundaries should offspring result from the act.

Uncut men maintain sensitivity and benefit from sex much longer into adult years.

Huh? I thought I had a circumcision because an Air Force Doctor probably did it. And possible health reasons. Besides I think he screwed it up, I still have a piece of skin that goes from the bottom of the head to the top of the shaft. Probably around 1/2 inch long at the most and about a quarter of an inch wide. So I am semi-circ?

You can actually put things thru it and leave it.

Pepper & Drew · 12-30-2007, 02:30 PM

I don't know that I'd mention it. I don't expect people to mention how much pubic hair they have or piercings, so I'd put this in the same category.

Cut, uncut, the result is the same.

Pepper

Sico_tiko · 12-30-2007, 03:34 PM

i think being uncircumcised doesnt make any problems but preferable tell the couple u r playing with from the beginnning, so u could know there attitude towards the issue.

lovenestduo · 12-30-2007, 06:13 PM

I wouldn't worry about it. It's not like it's weird or uncommon. My wife prefers cut but has never turned down someone who wasn't. I'd put it in the same class as curved or straight. If it bothers someone that much then it's they that should be doing the asking.

Piercings or "modifications" on the other hand, shouldn't be left as surprises.

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12-29-2007, 01:30 PM	#1 (permalink)
brandi511 Registered Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 8 Location: Edwards AFB, CA Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:brandiandmac	Circumcision question My husband is not circumcised. We are new to swinging and were wondering if this is going to pose a problem. He is extremely clean. Should we tell other couples in advance?

12-29-2007, 01:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: Circumcision question It's never posed any problems for us and we've never told anyone in advance. An uncircumcised penis looks pretty much like a circumcised one when they are both erect. Teresa
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12-29-2007, 01:43 PM	#3 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Circumcision question One night at our club, we were about to go upstairs with a couple. I went into the bathroom and the husband followed me. As I was using the urinal, he pulled out his junk and showed it to me. "Think she'll mind that I have a Prince Albert?" Yes, he did; wagging there just about a foot from my pants leg. It was probably the most uncomfortable moment I have ever had in swinging. "Uh... I doubt it..." I said, suddenly unable to pee... That has nothing to do with your question, but it was the first anectdote that popped into my head. Maybe the point is, we typically don't ask questions prior to heading upstairs about big or small, cut or un-cut, pierced or not pierced. We have connected with the couple we are heading to a room with and while I can imagine (if I try hard enough) a few unpleasant surprises that may pop up, "lack of circumcision" wouldn't be one of them. Mrs Spoo has never been with a guy who is not circumcised (which I find rather surprising, actually) so she doesn't know if she would enjoy it or not. Since you mentioned cleanliness, that is the one issue that would pop into her head. If your husband is a clean guy - making that a non-issue - then that wouldn't be a problem at all... Besides - cut guys can be pretty hygiene deficient themselves sometimes - which is one of her major complaints when it happens. For me - playing with someone new for the first time there is a joy of discovery about that person - and those are always some of my favorite swinging memories. I don't like to "over talk" and take the fun away. So my advice would be don't think of it as a big deal. Now, if you run into a number of couples who get to a room, see your husband naked and bolt, then you might want to start bringing it up prior to heading up - but I am guessing that won't happen. Spoomonkey
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12-29-2007, 01:57 PM	#4 (permalink)
tribbles Fun and Pleasure Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 950 Location: SouthWest Status: Couple	Re: Circumcision question We have seen a mix of cut and uncut and never heard of anyone running away from either. I would be surprised if you have any problems over it. YMMV
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12-29-2007, 02:39 PM	#5 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,136 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: Circumcision question I doubt your husband will have any problems. There are advantages to being uncut. Alura
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12-29-2007, 03:23 PM	#6 (permalink)
SCcpl40 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 137 Location: columbia, sc Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sccpl40	Re: Circumcision question If it's important to the other couple, they will ask. My husband is cut, but he's only been asked twice in 11 years.

12-29-2007, 06:10 PM	#7 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,251 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Bruce_Melissa	Re: Circumcision question I'm uncircumcised and I've had one lady mention that it's a deal breaker. Don't worry about it at all, be proud of it.....
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12-29-2007, 10:12 PM	#8 (permalink)
GoNatural Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 201 Location: Austin, TX Status: Attatched Male	Re: Circumcision question Yes, tell him to be proud of it. I wish that I were uncut.

12-30-2007, 12:58 AM	#9 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,750 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Re: Circumcision question Mr. LFM is uncut. He's never had any women scoff at him, but then like TNT said, they are pretty much the same looking at a cut penis when erect. I wouldn't want him any other way!
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12-30-2007, 01:08 AM	#10 (permalink)
FunCalifCple Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 40 Location: Southern California Status: Couple	Re: Circumcision question The only purpose circumcision serves in this world is to give the woman one last point of verification before she spreads her legs whether she is breaking ethnic/religious boundaries should offspring result from the act. Uncut men maintain sensitivity and benefit from sex much longer into adult years.

12-30-2007, 11:21 AM	#11 (permalink)
safireblues Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 102 Location: Philadelphia Status: Married Female	Re: Circumcision question I'd never seen an uncut penis until recently and once I did, I couldn't believe people would make such a fuss about it. Like others have said, once its erect, it's hard to tell the difference.

12-30-2007, 02:30 PM	#13 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: Circumcision question I don't know that I'd mention it. I don't expect people to mention how much pubic hair they have or piercings, so I'd put this in the same category. Cut, uncut, the result is the same. Pepper
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12-30-2007, 03:34 PM	#14 (permalink)
Sico_tiko Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 185 Location: Eg Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:sico_tiko	Re: Circumcision question i think being uncircumcised doesnt make any problems but preferable tell the couple u r playing with from the beginnning, so u could know there attitude towards the issue.

12-30-2007, 06:13 PM	#15 (permalink)
lovenestduo Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 30 Location: Brandon Status: Couple	Re: Circumcision question I wouldn't worry about it. It's not like it's weird or uncommon. My wife prefers cut but has never turned down someone who wasn't. I'd put it in the same class as curved or straight. If it bothers someone that much then it's they that should be doing the asking. Piercings or "modifications" on the other hand, shouldn't be left as surprises.

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