Is this too weird?

07-21-2006, 02:08 PM

Would it be too weird to have a girl/girl show for my husband and his brother? The two girls would be me and his brother's wife--my SIL.

I was thinking it could just be a little girl/girl action and then we retreat to separate rooms with our own spouses to finish up.

My BIL/SIL are very sexually open people and we all flirt all the time. They are not by any means conservative.

intuition897 · 07-21-2006, 02:48 PM

Um...probably best to avoid family. I won't comment on the borderline incestuous nature of it, but just the fact that they are very close to you and in a non-negotiable relationship (ie: you can't divorce a blood relation), if anything goes wrong, it will generally go REALLY wrong. And this means that there could potentially be some hard feelings between people among whom there should be none.

Then again, I don't know your situation. I know it wouldn't be for me, but you know your situation better than I do. If you feel that your relationships can all handle it, and everyone is communicating VERY well what their limits are, then I guess go for it.

**BiloxiCouple** · 07-21-2006, 04:21 PM

The theme song from Jerry Springer is playing in my head...

Chicup · 07-21-2006, 04:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

The theme song from Jerry Springer is playing in my head...

No that would be if the brothers were putting a show on for the girls.

While I dont' think what the OP plans to do is 'wrong' as they are not related, the fall out if things don't work out as planned would be FAR worse since it is family so I'd recomend against it and I'd have to go with intuition said on this one.

Edison Carter · 07-21-2006, 05:45 PM

As I like to say, say it out loud and see if it remains a good idea.

"I'm a woman that wants to have sex with my sister-in-law while my
brother in law and husband watch. Of course, this means my husband
is watching me 'do' his sister."

Tantra · 07-21-2006, 05:55 PM

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

Chicup · 07-21-2006, 05:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Edison Carter

As I like to say, say it out loud and see if it remains a good idea.

"I'm a woman that wants to have sex with my sister-in-law while my
brother in law and husband watch. Of course, this means my husband
is watching me 'do' his sister."

Well since there is no blood relation between the girls its a bit different. I do not think of my BIL as my 'brother' the same way I think of my real brother.

Edison Carter · 07-21-2006, 05:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

Well since there is no blood relation between the girls its a bit different. I do not think of my BIL as my 'brother' the same way I think of my real brother.

The point is could you watch your sister have lesbian sex ?

Tybee Swing · 07-21-2006, 06:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Unregistered

Would it be too weird to have a girl/girl show for my husband and his brother?

I think there's a misunderstanding here. The relationship is between the two men....the men are brothers. There's not a brother and a sister.

**fun4Ds** · 07-21-2006, 06:49 PM

wellllll

im not shure what to say, ill have to validate my answer with mrs.fun but im thinking................. no

i dont have a brother so i better stay out of this one.

Spoomonkey · 07-21-2006, 07:25 PM

I have a brother - and his wife is gorgeous...

But - no. I have seen enough swing relationships end in a frosty way that without delving much into the morality/ethics of the issue, I can easily say that family is far too important to have sex make those relationships awkward...

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07-21-2006, 02:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
intuition897 Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,633 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:intuition897	Re: Is this too weird? Um...probably best to avoid family. I won't comment on the borderline incestuous nature of it, but just the fact that they are very close to you and in a non-negotiable relationship (ie: you can't divorce a blood relation), if anything goes wrong, it will generally go REALLY wrong. And this means that there could potentially be some hard feelings between people among whom there should be none. Then again, I don't know your situation. I know it wouldn't be for me, but you know your situation better than I do. If you feel that your relationships can all handle it, and everyone is communicating VERY well what their limits are, then I guess go for it.
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07-21-2006, 04:21 PM	#3 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Re: Is this too weird? The theme song from Jerry Springer is playing in my head...
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07-21-2006, 05:45 PM	#5 (permalink)
Edison Carter Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 733 Location: Naperville, Il Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:EdisonCarter	Re: Is this too weird? As I like to say, say it out loud and see if it remains a good idea. "I'm a woman that wants to have sex with my sister-in-law while my brother in law and husband watch. Of course, this means my husband is watching me 'do' his sister."

07-21-2006, 05:55 PM	#6 (permalink)
Tantra Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 65 Location: Texas Status: Couple - Male half primarily	Re: Is this too weird? Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

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fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,488 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Is this too weird? wellllll im not shure what to say, ill have to validate my answer with mrs.fun but im thinking................. no i dont have a brother so i better stay out of this one.

07-21-2006, 07:25 PM	#11 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Is this too weird? I have a brother - and his wife is gorgeous... But - no. I have seen enough swing relationships end in a frosty way that without delving much into the morality/ethics of the issue, I can easily say that family is far too important to have sex make those relationships awkward... Spoomonkey
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