Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room

Jerry1111 · 02-05-2006, 03:14 AM

Me and my wife want to include a man. She has been alone with the man and we now want to have all 3 of us together. While me and my wife are really excited about the idea, me and the other man are wondering what it will be like with us both being naked in the same room. Neither one of us have interest in men and are wondering if it will be really awkward being naked and erect around each other. Both of us have about the same penis size so there is no concern about that. I am thinking that when I am really aroused, the nervousness will hopefully mostly go away. What is your advice on how to be comfortable near a naked man?

WesternSwing · 02-05-2006, 03:21 AM

It's not as big a deal as you are thinking. In fact, it's not a big deal at all, unless you are uber-homophobic or make a big deal out of it. When it's all happening it all seems quite normal.

Mr. WS

She_n_Jaybee · 02-05-2006, 07:04 AM

That first time can be scary, until it actually happens. This is a case where your wife makes all the difference. She needs to be certain to keep both of you involved. If one or other of the men need a break, move to the side, let the other take over for awhile. But she needs to pay just as much attention to the one on the break. She needs to be aware enough to pull that person back on board when he's ready again.

FlaPlaya561 · 02-05-2006, 08:01 AM

first time was scary for me. and that was a long time ago..My g/f helped as much as she could to please us all and make us comfy....If it's gonna be a regular even you'll get used to it ...So will the other guy ...Been there dont that...Started to enjoy it MORE as time went on

M

meandher2go · 02-05-2006, 08:46 AM

dont sweat it. you BOTH will be focused on HER and not each other. go for it and enjoy it.

hilltop · 02-05-2006, 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by meandher2go

dont sweat it. you BOTH will be focused on HER and not each other. go for it and enjoy it.

Dito to meandher!
You'll be suprised how quickly it will become comfortable.
Just have a good time.

Jerry1111 · 02-06-2006, 02:00 AM

Thank you everyone. I really do look forward to it.

sexyshelby · 02-06-2006, 07:38 AM

Enjoy and let us know how it goes!

~SS

ohcpl43952 · 02-06-2006, 01:57 PM

Remeber: A stiff dick has no conscience.

Vespertine · 02-06-2006, 09:27 PM

Get to know the other guy socially before you jump right in and get naked with him.

It'll be much more comfortable if the two of you can joke around a bit with eachother during playtime and offer one another a high-5 every once in awhile.

FlaPlaya561 · 02-06-2006, 09:29 PM

<--- High 5's Vespertine

twohots4u2 · 02-09-2006, 09:44 PM

In our first I just focused on making sure that she was taken care of in every way. We both got into it, and her, and it was great. By the second time I had gotten over my reluctance, especially after she took care of both of us, encouraged us, and praised our differenct specialities. He had a large dick but did not make her cum. I love to use my tongue to give her multiple orgasms. We ended up bumping into each other but in the heat of the moment it was FINE!

the_write_one · 02-11-2006, 12:45 AM

It may be a little disconcerting or even uncomfortable at first but like anything else, the more you do it the more comfortable you become. As man who has shared his past partners often with multiple (black) men, I can tell you I hardly notice at this point.

Platinum24 · 02-11-2006, 02:06 AM

I'm a single gay male and I started going to swingers clubs about 3 months ago. Before that, I had never been naked in front of a female. So I had the same concerns as you...except with the opposite sex. But I'm pretty comfortable with my nude body so when it happened it was nothing for a woman to see me naked. I even thought I could never cum in front of a female but I did with absolutely no problem. Meandhergo said that you'll be focused on her and not each other. He's right. As for me, I was focused on the guy fucking his girlfriend/wife and the other guy in the room jacking off watching. So it'll be hot

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02-05-2006, 03:14 AM	#1 (permalink)
Jerry1111 Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Illinois	Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room Me and my wife want to include a man. She has been alone with the man and we now want to have all 3 of us together. While me and my wife are really excited about the idea, me and the other man are wondering what it will be like with us both being naked in the same room. Neither one of us have interest in men and are wondering if it will be really awkward being naked and erect around each other. Both of us have about the same penis size so there is no concern about that. I am thinking that when I am really aroused, the nervousness will hopefully mostly go away. What is your advice on how to be comfortable near a naked man?

02-05-2006, 03:21 AM	#2 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room It's not as big a deal as you are thinking. In fact, it's not a big deal at all, unless you are uber-homophobic or make a big deal out of it. When it's all happening it all seems quite normal. Mr. WS
	__________________ "Sex is something you do, sexuality is something you are." ~ Anna Freud

02-05-2006, 07:04 AM	#3 (permalink)
She_n_Jaybee Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 202 Location: SW Indiana Status: Couple	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room That first time can be scary, until it actually happens. This is a case where your wife makes all the difference. She needs to be certain to keep both of you involved. If one or other of the men need a break, move to the side, let the other take over for awhile. But she needs to pay just as much attention to the one on the break. She needs to be aware enough to pull that person back on board when he's ready again.

02-05-2006, 08:01 AM	#4 (permalink)
FlaPlaya561 The Neighborhood PC Tech Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 166 Location: Lake Worth Florida Status: Fun Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:FlaPlaya561	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room first time was scary for me. and that was a long time ago..My g/f helped as much as she could to please us all and make us comfy....If it's gonna be a regular even you'll get used to it ...So will the other guy ...Been there dont that...Started to enjoy it MORE as time went on M
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02-05-2006, 08:46 AM	#5 (permalink)
meandher2go Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 307 Location: mass Status: Couple	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room dont sweat it. you BOTH will be focused on HER and not each other. go for it and enjoy it.

02-06-2006, 02:00 AM	#7 (permalink)
Jerry1111 Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Illinois	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room Thank you everyone. I really do look forward to it.

02-06-2006, 07:38 AM	#8 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room Enjoy and let us know how it goes! ~SS
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02-06-2006, 01:57 PM	#9 (permalink)
ohcpl43952 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 65 Location: Ohio Valley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ohcpl43952	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room Remeber: A stiff dick has no conscience.

02-06-2006, 09:27 PM	#10 (permalink)
Vespertine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room Get to know the other guy socially before you jump right in and get naked with him. It'll be much more comfortable if the two of you can joke around a bit with eachother during playtime and offer one another a high-5 every once in awhile.
	__________________ Ves The art of life lies in taking pleasures as they pass, and the keenest pleasures are not intellectual, nor are they always moral.

02-06-2006, 09:29 PM	#11 (permalink)
FlaPlaya561 The Neighborhood PC Tech Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 166 Location: Lake Worth Florida Status: Fun Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:FlaPlaya561	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room <--- High 5's Vespertine
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02-09-2006, 09:44 PM	#12 (permalink)
twohots4u2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 183 Location: Arlington, VA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twohots4u2	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room In our first I just focused on making sure that she was taken care of in every way. We both got into it, and her, and it was great. By the second time I had gotten over my reluctance, especially after she took care of both of us, encouraged us, and praised our differenct specialities. He had a large dick but did not make her cum. I love to use my tongue to give her multiple orgasms. We ended up bumping into each other but in the heat of the moment it was FINE!

02-11-2006, 12:45 AM	#13 (permalink)
the_write_one Active Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 40 Location: Ohio Status: single male Swing Lifestyle Name:vanilla_thrilla	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room It may be a little disconcerting or even uncomfortable at first but like anything else, the more you do it the more comfortable you become. As man who has shared his past partners often with multiple (black) men, I can tell you I hardly notice at this point.

02-11-2006, 02:06 AM	#14 (permalink)
Platinum24 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 29 Location: Houston, TX Status: Single Male	Re: Nervous about Two Males Naked in the Room I'm a single gay male and I started going to swingers clubs about 3 months ago. Before that, I had never been naked in front of a female. So I had the same concerns as you...except with the opposite sex. But I'm pretty comfortable with my nude body so when it happened it was nothing for a woman to see me naked. I even thought I could never cum in front of a female but I did with absolutely no problem. Meandhergo said that you'll be focused on her and not each other. He's right. As for me, I was focused on the guy fucking his girlfriend/wife and the other guy in the room jacking off watching. So it'll be hot

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