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| mildly abnormal Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 1,437 Location: Sometimes Canada Status: I'm with Kermit
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This is something we've talked about doing with some of our play partners. I think the reason that we haven't done it is that we see some of them so infrequently that "other activities" seem to take priority. So far, we've only been to strip bars with our vanilla friends (as I was mentioning on another thread, often our vanilla friends seem wilder than our play friends).
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 123 Location: kansas Status: female half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:janaandjames
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We have been a few times, but not with another couple. we have enjoyed and had a nice time with a dancer ![]() jj |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12 Location: Louisiana Status: Couple
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Love, love, love it. We go alone, just the 2 of us, with our vanilla friends, and have brought playmates with us. We have a ball, laughing, cutting up. We haven't brough a couple yet, but are planning on doing that soon!!!
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 49 Location: D/FW Texas Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ngtytxcpl
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We have gone with friends. Had a BLAST. The other couples there were having more fun watching us than the dancers and the manager only had to get on us twice lol
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| Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey
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I have been afraid to go back after a very unfortunate experience... I was in college and I had never been to a strip club. Of course, I was in Bible College, so going to a strip club was a bad thing, but I was driving some distance one day and passed one on the side of the road... Being a strip club "virgin" I didn't notice the "red flags" surrounding the place:
I mean - I'm a guy, right? I am certainly free to satisfy my curiosity, wasn't I? Just stop for a second, look around, and then leave... No big deal... I walked through the front door and immediately was hit with a blush that made my face burn. I kept my eyes on the floor as I made a bee-line to the restroom. I did my business and - ashamed of myself - decided I was just going to leave... But as I was walking as quickly as I could, I decided, "hey - it isn't going to kill you to take a look." Besides - if I didn't, it would eat at me... So I looked... And what I saw, I still wake up in a cold sweat over... There on stage, writhing about, looking every bit like a walrus trying to wrestle free of a fisherman's net, was the most loathsome bit of chick-flesh I have ever laid eyes on. Toothless old men waved their social security checks at her as if they were trying to help her ward off flies... "Do you need a drink, buddy?" the bartender asked as I zipped past... "Yes," I said, not stopping. "Yes, I do..." A single woman that we are in serious flirt mode with has asked us to go with her and I suppose I will break down. But if I never go to another strip club after that experience, it will be fine with me ![]() Spoomonkey |
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| It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person
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Awww...Spoo, they're not all that bad. I went to one a few months ago in a rural area. Some of the girls were from the city, but some of the others...they were definitely from the country. I don't think anyone was missing teeth, but there was one girl who looked like she had never even heard of a dentist. But we had a great time anyway! It really is a good place to get all sexed up and ready to go. Although, we didn't have sex after... It was a lot of fun, and I'd go back with a couple. ~SS |
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We enjoy strip clubs and have gone either just the two of us or with our vanilla friends. We have never gone with a swinger couple and I guess it's probably because we meet most couples in a swing club and there is plenty of stripping there so why leave. |
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| Never up.....never in Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 732 Location: se Michigan and se Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:wildmicouple
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Tam and I go to an upscale strip club about once or twice a year. Going in with her is better than flashing a $100 bill. The dancers just gravitate to her. Although she's not bisexual, Tam does enjoy the beauty of the girls and the attention they give her. About 10 years ago, while visiting one, Tammy had a run in with one of the dancer's while in the ladies room. Seems this dancer thought Tammy was visiting from another club and trying to steal their customers. She wanted to kick Tam's ass in the bathroom. Tammy thanked her for the compliment, but she was here with her husband Another time at another club, Tammy elbows me and says......"I know that older lady, she's Bobby's mom" (Bobby being her brother's boyhood best friend). Come to find out, she was the House Mother for the dancers. We said hello, and of course she remembered Tammy. She took us up to the VIP room where we all talked for about a half hour. She then got up and said "enjoy yourselves for the rest of the evening up here.....it's on me." Brett | |
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| Active Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 30 Location: California
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I love going to a certain strip club with my husband. In our state (New Jersey) most clubs serve alchohol, and the stripping is very tame (no nudity). Our favorite club is unusual in NJ - it is a 'juice bar' - the girls strip nude and you can bring your own beer or wine. Although the male/female ratio is about 50:1, and very few couples attend - we tend to stand out in the crowd - which actually lends to my (exhibitionist) excitement. <EG> As an 'interested' female, I get plenty of attention from the female dancers (most of them like/favor girls to some extent). I sometimes split a private lap dance with my husband. The dancers are great/sexy and I get am usually afforded certain 'comforts' in the lap dance room that are not afforded to males. Although men must keep their hands pinned to their sides, I enjoy many liberties - giving and receiving. <EG> Being outnumbered at a nudie bar strip club by horny anonymous males can be somewhat intimidating - but I always feel safe in the company of the dancers (who are savy and afforded great security), the bouncers (who are strong and professional), and my husband (who is extra-strong...and my personal body guard). Sure, go as a couple with other couples, sounds like great fun to me! |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 95 Location: Kansas City area Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:wolfnblu
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| Interracial Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 749 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Greg69Sheryl
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Denver has a "couples-friendly" strip club known as PT's Showclub. Every Friday and Saturday night, swinger couples will gather on the north side of the club. This club also has a dance floor which allows for some very dirty dancing. We like to go there several times a year.
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| Active Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 40 Location: San Diego Status: Married Couple
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 535 Location: Houston area Status: Couple
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Strip club? Why bother when we can go to an off-premise club and get the best of both worlds (strip club/dance club). We get to see ladies running around in G-strings and get to touch some as well while dancing like wild monkeys. |
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