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Old 09-11-2005, 03:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default My men keep falling asleep on me :eek:

And I'm starting to get a complex ...


The past two play sessions that we have had (MFM ) both of the men we played with went to sleep. Now to their credit, they both woke and rallied very well .

But...I'm not sure what to think about this. Am I so boring that after some fun they just decide they need a cat nap or...am I wearing them out so badly that they need to recharge their batteries ?

Now being the positive thinking person that I am I'm leaning towards I'm just wearing them out and instead of MFM I'm thinking we need to start doing MMFM that way maybe I'll be the one that needs a cat nap

So...does anyone else have this problem and what do ya'll think of this?


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Old 09-11-2005, 04:00 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I don't ever recall anyone falling asleep on us until everyone was spent, but we have done this alot so there may have been a time or two. There have been many times Mrs Naughty has phyisicaly worn out her playmate, and myself, to the point of exhaustion and fell asleep afterwards, but not during the actual session.

I will admit I have fallen asleep after I thought the MFM session(s) had ended only to awake to the sounds of heavy foreplay next to me

Having met you, I will go with the you are wearing them out option.

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Default Re: My men keep falling asleep on me :eek:

Did they fall asleep in the middle of the act or when you were taking a breather?

I can promise you that if they have risen to the occasion upon awakening, they aren't falling asleep because you're boring them. I think you're wearing them out. I wouldn't take it as an insult, I'd take it as a compliment!

Either way, I'm sure it's because you're too much woman for one man to handle. I think a MMFM would solve your dilemma and restore your ego!
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Did they fall asleep in the middle of the act or when you were taking a breather?

I can promise you that if they have risen to the occasion upon awakening, they aren't falling asleep because you're boring them. I think you're wearing them out. I wouldn't take it as an insult, I'd take it as a compliment!

Either way, I'm sure it's because you're too much woman for one man to handle. I think a MMFM would solve your dilemma and restore your ego!
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Old 09-11-2005, 04:11 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Did they fall asleep in the middle of the act or when you were taking a breather?

I guess I should have said that it was NOT during the act

It has always been after very intense playtime and orgasms have been reached by all involved...we were lying snuggled up, taking what I thought was a breather and then I realized they were dozing quite nicely....strategically placed hands and lips were all it took to awaken them.

Nothing wrong with the play sessions at all...I just got tickled about it on the ride home last night and wonder if others had ever had this happen to them.


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After having met you in Memphis I can say with out a doubt that you are NOT boring them!! facelick My guess is that you have just worn them out and after a little rest they are totally ready for another round. If you were boring then they would be sleeping and never even know you left

Trust me ...... they are just resting for round 2.... there is nothing about you that is boring.

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If I had my guess I would think you're wearing them out. You're a highly charged person who seems like you could just keep going and going and going....

I think it's only natural they need to recharge a little.

BTW, I'm totally envious of your stamina
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Frankly, I don't think you could wear a man out to the point of passing out...

Prove it...

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Frankly, I don't think you could wear a man out to the point of passing out...

Prove it...

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Prove it...

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Hmmmm....that sounds like a challenge to me....Bring it on monkey man


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Knowing you, I'd lean towards the latter, you are probably wearing them out.
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They are probably just recharging their batteries.

Take it as a compliment.
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Default Re: My men keep falling asleep on me :eek:

My hubby recently fell asleep during sex with me, but we had been drinking and it was very late and we'd been going at it for some time and he had cum some time before...so I gave him a hard time about it but didn't take it personally. OTOH, I still came on him while he was asleep! I love that man's equipment! He never goes soft until I'm done!

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and BTW I'd like to add that if that's really a pic of "curiousagain" in the previous post, I'd like to try wearing him out too!
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Ok, I guess I am getting a complex.

I have had a guy fall asleep with me not once but 2 times! Both times I was in the middle of giving him a blowjob and I looked up and the guy was sound asleep!!! Now, one time he had told me that he was really tired, guess he was not lying! The second time it happened, he was drunk. So I really don't think it was me who put him to sleep. Bear just laughs because he says that yes, my blowjobs put him to sleep, but only AFTER I am done And funny thing, this guy just can't understand why I don't want to play with him again. Maybe I should play with him again to see what would happen, and if he feel asleep again, I could just bite to wake him up
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Maybe I should play with him again to see what would happen, and if he feel asleep again, I could just bite to wake him up
LMAO! Mental note to self...don't fall asleep while receiving a blowjob.
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