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Ok, so the title is a bit strong, but I'm pretty sure it got your attention. Before I get any further, this is not an ad to come and fuck my wife (well, not much). Reading through other posts, I know I am not the only guy in here who thinks it is hot to watch his wife get fucked by another guy. I see posts going back and forth about "Hey, I'm a single guy and we don't catch a break" kinda thing. Now, we kind of lean towards other couples ourselves, just cause it is the "safe" way to go about things. Can you guys (and girls) give us some input on some POSITIVE experiences you have had with single men? and just for curiosity sake, have any of you ladies ever let your man go be with another couple to help them fulfill a fantasy? I have this recurring dream to eat my wife WHILE she is getting fucked. Anyone done it? and how was it? I claim largly straight, but a little bi action for me here and there doesn't hurt my feelings. Was just wondering what your thoughts were? Evul |
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| Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple
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Sure... Once upon a time we met a nice, well-spoken gentleman at the club who spent some time talking with us, was very complementary and respectful to J and one thing led to another. He was not pushy, but let us know he was interested. (That's all it takes, guys.) We all had fun and J and I fucked like bunnies for a couple of days afterwards. We hope for another similar encounter in the future. ![]() -B |
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I guess I have been lucky, most of the single guys that I play with are very nice gentlemen. But I do take time to talk to them before any play goes on and if I have any feeling that the guy is not a gentleman, then nothing happens. I also like it if the single guy shows respect to my husband. To answer your other question. We were at our club one night, I was busy somewhere else, and a couple asked Bear to help them with their fantasy, a 3some. Bear said sure, and off they go. The woman just wanted to do oral on Bear while her husband fucked her. Bear was happy that the trusted him enough to be a part of their fantasy, and I had no problem with any of it. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jcbicouple
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married
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Well, we've had a couple of good experiences with a single friend of ours. Actually he's an ex-lover of mine which makes things a little different. Ken was a little nervous, but I think things have worked out well. I've enjoyed being the center of attention, and both Ken and G have dealt well with things. They've learned to take turns with some things:-). I think it has been a very positive thing. A few weekends ago G came up for an extended weekend. Let me tell you that was fun:-) Definitely wore me out. Rachel |
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As far as experiences you asked about. One of my first swinging experiences was when my wife set me up with a couple we were friends with. He wanted to share his girlfriend with another guy in a 3some.My wife talked with them and set it up for me to meet up with them.I had a great time while she stayed at home literally wetting her pants thinking about me and what i was doing. |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 78 Location: Cleveland Hts., OH Status: single male (w/swing partner) Swing Lifestyle Name:montresor
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Longtime partner Ms P is straight, so she prefers having a single male join us; sex pal Ms F is bi but she still likes having 2 or more guys; I'm a big honkin' voyeur who likes to watch the women I know and love lose control with other men. Single males win out for me and my partners!
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| Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 24 Location: Ofallon
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We also have had some great times with mfm. It is a big turn on for both of us. I enjoy watching and getting a blow job while the other guy is fucking her, But it is even better if your girl likes anal. There is nothing like seeing your girl take it in the ass from somebody else.
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| Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple
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I know some really great single guys (i know some creepy ones too but I just keep waaay far away from them). One good one in particular comes to mind. We socialzed with him at several parties and every time he was respectful of me and considerate to my husband (ofcourse they got talking about hunting and suddenly they were buddies).He doesn't try to take up all our time or vise versa, he isn't looking for a realtionship, he's just fun. My hubby helped my best friend live out her fantasy of two men at once, I just watched and enjoyed. It was a blast. |
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| Active Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 14 Location: daytona beach
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My wife and I actually prefer playing with single guys. I always let her choose, and she is very selective. We are white but she does like black men. All playing begins with good conversation. It is not unusual for me to join in and do a little m/m if it is ok for the other guy. Turns her on so to watch. Wife knows I get so hot watching her get fucked by several guys in a night. To watch her taking a load of cum in her mouth as she is getting fucked is the height of our excitement. We finish with my cumming in her and watching as a woman eats her out. We just don't get that excitement with couples.
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Well, yea. Kinda the way I think about it too. The very thought drives me nuts. There is just this guy "comfort zone" thing that would have to be resolved, and it probably won't happen the first time around. :rollseyes She indicated the doorman/bouncer at a local club was very handsome and we noticed he doesn't wear a wedding band or ring, and there is no tan line there either. Go figure! That's the first time in over fifteen years she's ever, outright, ever said anything about another man. This happened not long after we setteled the arguement about swinging. flamethrow
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 307 Location: mass Status: Couple
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we were having a hard time with single guys. no show,no personality,no manners,no common sense. but finally this past week we got to hook up with the perfect guy. he could write a book on "How to bang other guys wives" this guy always says the right things, always is on time, always calls back and is VERY considerate. he happens to be a good looking guy too. the wife just thinks the world of him and so do I. so keep looking, he IS out there. it took us a lot of sorting thru, but we found one..... |
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| Active Member Join Date: Oct 2000 Posts: 45 Location: West Virginia, USA
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My wife and I have only done mfm and I have never really been interested in cpl-cpl swinging. We have been with married men only when their wife was aware of what was going on, but give us a nice, gentle single man and we can play for hours. We had the good fortune to play with one single man that was probably 15 years younger than us. He was a complete gentleman and was totally into pleasing my wife each time we met. We have done DP with him a couple times and he has licked her while I fucked her. Myself, I guess I am a little chicken to try it. Male thing I guess although I have done it after we both had her. Single men can be total jerks that think they are the best she has ever had ( not !! ) but there are alot more who will be what both of you can enjoy. It just kinda clicks when it works right and you can have a long term relationship with the right guy . This youngster could do it 6 or 7 times a night and we had him over many, many times over a three year period. We moved 5 hours away and had to end a very good thing. We both miss those long , hot nights. When you find the right thing, hang on to it. We are now looking for another and they are out there. |
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