Men: Do you prefer a Lady or a Tramp?

[TNT]

The ladies had their turn in saying whether they liked a Caveman or Gentleman more in Spoomonkey's thread that you can read here . Now it's time for the men to speak up.

Which do you prefer? A Lady or a Tramp?

I don't mean Tramp in a bad way, I mean it as an aggressive woman. Do you like it when a woman is aggressive in a club setting or do you like the challenge of having to draw her out of her shell? What makes you know that the woman is interested in you?

Ladies, what's your MO when it comes to letting a man know your interested?

I myself can be a little of both, depending on my mood at the time. There are times where I am very aggressive with men and times that I like to give just the subtle hints to see how he would react to me being more aggressive.


Teresa

[De and Ci]

I prefer a tramp, especially my wife!

[Spoomonkey]

Mrs Spoo always represents the kind of women that I wish there were more of in the club. She is obviously a lady - but she has on the "costume" of a "slut" (not a bad word for us, so please don't take any offense). She carries herself very well - but when she is flrting, the guy knows it. If a guy approaches her - and she is interested - she will be approachable and flirty. If she sees someone that she is interested in, she will make eye contact and let him know he is is welcome to stroll over if he'd like.

I like the woman who is friendly - not leaning back looking as if she is simply waiting to rebuff someone. A woman who is laughing and enjoying herself at the club is someone I'd like to approach. And then - when approached - I like it when they relax and flirt back.

I like a woman who you can tell is a lady beneath her "costume" - but I also like a little aggressiveness - and I certainly don't mind being hit on!

The one thing that is a turn off is the woman who is making out with and being groped by every guy in the place. Obviously, some women know everyone in the club and you can tell the difference between her and the woman who is just an easy mark. Social butterfly? Cool! Barfly? Not so much...

I guess I like a woman somewhere in the middle (similar to my thread, I suppose) but one who leans more towards tramp in that she is able to relax and have fun and not afraid to let people know what she is thinking.

Spoomonkey

[good times]

I have thought about this for a long time trying to think of a definitive answer for me without much luck.

I hate to admit this, but if I find the woman attractive and am interested in her I like a woman that is more of a tramp. I like it when they hit on me and through the provacative things they say and do make me know I am desired. This tends to make me very excited and receptive to progressing to a more intimate good time. While the woman who is very ladylike and waits for me to make all the moves is probably not going to get my motor running sufficiently for it to lead to anything more.

On the other hand, I have been in several situations where a woman was agressively pursueing me all night and I wasn't really interested in her. In that case the agressive woman was not desired, and if after repeated attempts to give her subtle hints that I'm not interested she still continues her agressive behaviour it becomes very annoying to me.

So I guess I'll have to give a nonanswer and say that if I am interested in them I probably like more of a tramp, if I'm not interested I much prefer the lady.

Does that make any sense?

[growgirl]

I love a tramp! An aggressive woman gets me almost everytime...

I'm not a tramp initially, but I like to become one as the evening goes on and I'm assured of reciprocal interest.

But now I'm wondering about those subtle hints GoodTimes... Me and subtle are like oil and water... clue me in so hopefully I won't annoy anyone down the line...

growgirl

[ALilOEverything]

I think I'm somewhere inbetween. I always start off as the nice girl, very much a lady and when the time is right I start to become much more provocative.

[Pepper & Drew]

Isn't it funny, but in both this thread and the one about the caveman or gentleman, people have a hard time saying they prefer one or the other. The men talked about having to walk a fine line between offending and not offending, and the women walk a fine line between annoying or not annoying. Vvvveeerrry interesting.....

Anywho, I tend to be more comfortable being the lady. Now, that doesn't mean that I don't flirt or let the guy (or girl) know that I like them, but 9 times out of 10, I'm not making the first move. If that misses out on some opportunities, so be it. I prefer to be a lady in the street............but a freak in the bed.

Pepper

[BradAndJanet]

Like Pepper says, more tramp than lady in the bedroom; more lady than tramp out of it. The old Madonna/Whore complex, I guess.

-B

[menher1559]

I've always said. I like an angel on my arm and a slut in my bed. Wife agrees......there is a time and a place for everything.

[toxicsambo]

Lady definitly. A woman with a controlled demeanor emits much more sexuality . It's just more powerful and seductive IMO. The coy smile, smooth flirting, and light touching gets me riled up. It makes me hornier than a rhino.

[JustAskJulie]

A poll to go with the question

[2fromstlou]

Since My Wife is such a Lady, I'm ready anytime for a woman who's alittle on the Trampy Side!!
Been a while since I've been taken and showed the "ROPES"!!
We've been with other couples, but unfortunately, the other women were like my wife.
So I'm waiting for the moment when it happens!??! facelick
Hope I don't get too wound up too soon, would hate to pop before it's time !! LOL

[Scrapin']

" A lady in the streets and a freakin the bed" but I really luv it when she's a little slutty in public too! not to an extreme just enough how bout a slutty lady?
Scrapin'

[CandTinLorainCo]

I(MO) personally prefer a good girl out and a bad one in! Sorry to borrow Mrs. LM's catch phrase, but that sums it up for us. My wife is the perfect lady almost all the time so when she does have the chance to "let her hair down" she does and she does it very well too i might add .


-C

[its_fun_for_us]

As said a lot before me -- we like a lady in character of a tramp. Personally I know I am a lady but on play nights not much of that comes out. I'm an aggressive woman who likes to be watched and I give y'al somthign to look at

Mrs Fun