Wife Worship and Related Topics

[northindycpl]

I have now been active on this site for awhile and I am constantly amazed at how I much our husbands love us!

Never in all my life have I met a group of men so ga-ga in love with their wives, than here- and never in the vanilla world.

There is so much respect, admiration, honesty written about daily. I am not sure if the husbands here realize how they are, but to an outsider, it is wonderful!

I know in my own marriage, since we have been actively swinging, we have really reached a new high. Mr. Indy has always been pretty good to me, but over the last several months he has been wonderful. I never knew I could love him more than I did, but it is possible. He continually works hard on our marriage and on my happiness. More so than ever before.

My vanilla friends complain about their husbands... they visit sites about other women who complain (like Oprah.com or Dr. Phil) and to read about the issues they have- WOW! No wonder so many of her fans are against swinging Surrender

We aren't perfect, and everyday isn't a love fest... but he worships me. And I, him. And everyone here is such a positive inspiration!

We are all doing something right!

Cheers to the Wife Worshipers!

[biblonde]

I agree with you!!!! Although my hubby has always catered to me and me to him...it seems that since we have gotting into swinging we are even closer than I ever imagined we could be. He tells me all the time he loves me even more now than ever! He also tells me I am sexyer now than ever also...which is so cool to hear. I know that all my friends are so jelous of our relationship and complain about their men all the time. They cant understand how to get their men to treat them like queens and be not only in love with them but in lust with them (which I think is equally important!!) To me a bad marrage is no marrage!! If you arent totally in love with your spouse..then what is the point.

I think the key here is that we have total trust in each other and dont play games with each other. We are open to letting the other one express all feelings and thoughts wether it be sexual or just in life itself which for us has brought us even closer to each other. It is real sexy to watch him flirt...tease other women and see them respond. If more people were open to this lifestyle the world would be a much better place for sure!!!

just my 2 cents for the day!!!

[CB_n_Red]

To be fair it works both ways - the wives here strike me as being just as much into and in love with their husbands. Far more than the vanilla norm.

Various non-swinging friends have described us as the "perfect couple". All are amazed at how much we are still into each other after nearly 30 years. We'd love to tell them why, when they ask, but we don't think many of them could cope with hearing about the swinging!

CB

[Alura]

Northindycpl wrote:

Cheers to the Wife Worshipers!

With twenty-four years experience in wife-worshipping, I can only proudly say, "Sign me up!"

Mr. Alura

[m9sept74]

Boy has this topic hit home!!!

My wife works with several women who either don’t get along well with their spouses, or have gone through a nasty divorce. The wife’s co-workers are constantly “bashing” their husbands or ex-husbands and she gets tired of hearing it. They just cant understand how after 30 years of marriage that we totally admire and worship each other, and they certainly can’t comprehend that we still have GREAT sex. You should see their faces when I unexpectedly drop by the office with a rose(s) for my wife. The wife’s co-workers are convinced that I am cheating on my wife. If they only knew, LOL!!!!!
The male half of m9sept74

[biblonde]

Ive had those kinda questions...oh he bought you this or that ...what did he do wrong? I just say I am LOVED is all. There is a joke going around my work that all I have to do is say I like something and it becomes mine...since he loves to buy me things and take me places. He is very romantic even after 23 years together. I try to explain what makes a good marrage is trust and love and lots of lust but they dont understand. They allow jelousy to rule their lives and well...we all know that doesnt work to well if you want to be happy with each other.

[northindycpl]

Originally Posted by m9sept74

The wife’s co-workers are convinced that I am cheating on my wife. If they only knew, LOL!!!!!

Does that hit home to me or what! All of my vanilla friends- including my best friend (who doesn't know we swing) continually tells me those things. That he is cheating or lying or betraying me in some way. It is so disgusting!

[Atilla]

I find this interesting because since my hubby and I have had our first encounter with another couple, I've seen exactly this happen.

He'll come up to me, embrace me in a hug and kiss, tell me he loves me, and then back off to work he goes. To have gotten that before when we were Vanilla, was unheard of.

It's definately put some sort of spark back into our relationship and our relationship definately needed it.

[Buck]

There are many of us men who do worship our wives and thus are highly interested in their pleasure before ours. Evidence of that is the number of us who admit that MFM's with our wives is our main turn on. Our vanilla friends wouldn't or don't understand but then most of them have crappy marriages.

[ready2play]

We are very new in this world. The things we talk about have brought us to new heights in our love. As we go on in swinging I see nothing but pure bright white light that will make us happier than we ever dreamed after 29 years of being only to each other. We are 44 (ME) 46 (him). He was so scared and excited to bring up swinging. I am so glad he did! He has treated me with so much love and adoration as we talked and worked through things together. We were in love before and now we are even more.....

[BradAndJanet]

It's true...I do worship the ground she walks on...

-B

[TNT]

My mother says that she has never seen two people spoil each other as much as Ted and I...and we do, shamelessly .

He tells me that I am his purpose for living...and he is mine.

Teresa

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Oh, I so agree with all the comments. Mr Spoo still amazes me sometimes with how wonderful he is to me.

The girls at work (male bashers head bang can't stand them) always pick on me because I do little things for him all the time since he can't leave his desk as easily as I can. They try to get me to say bad things about him and join in their distaste for husbands.

We love being around our swinger friends and being able to share good things about our spouses and not hear the negative. One of the first things we noticed at the meet up in Indy last year was as we left the restaurant to walk around and head to the bar, that all the couples (about 10) were holding hands as we walked down the street.

We have a lot of couples that work together and they'll ride in the same car and one will hop, out head to the building not waiting or walking with each other. Then they'll make fun of us because not only do we walk in together but we hold hands too

Kudos to all swinger spouses

and especially to Mr Spoo

Mrs Spoomonkey

[JennyMac]

I completely adore mine. Mr.Mac is IMO the best man and just person in general that I have ever met in my entire life. My mother used to say when we first started dating, "Boy, you sure had to kiss alot of toads to get that prince." Was she right!!!

I just told him today, that the word "love" just doesn't do justice to how I really feel about him. I adore him. I am enamored. After almost 8 yrs, it still sends chills up my spine when he slips his hand into mine. My 6yr old catches us kissing or something and he says "Mama, you really love my daddy, don't you?"

And I am sure when he gets back online, he will completely agree! :rollseyes

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

My vanilla friends complain about their husbands... they visit sites about other women who complain (like Oprah.com or Dr. Phil) and to read about the issues they have- WOW! No wonder so many of her fans are against swinging Surrender

We aren't perfect, and everyday isn't a love fest... but he worships me. And I, him. And everyone here is such a positive inspiration!

We are all doing something right!

Cheers to the Wife Worshipers!

Indy, this thread is a keeper! My hubby is my knight in shining armor. We aren't perfect either, but we're living the fairytale and no one we know has a clue how deeply we feel for each other.

I'm thinking that perhaps the reason so many people out there have screwed up marriages and are unhappy is BECAUSE they visit websites like Oprah's. While they waste their energy griping about their husbands, we're busy worshipping ours. We adore them, we fawn over them, we spoil them (... ok not every day, but we aim for that!). I think that if they put half the energy into just loving each other as they do into finding faults and problems and issues to deal with, their marriages would be much better for it. It's called cherishing. The 'vanillas' of this world claim we're breaking OUR vows by committing adultery (yeah right...but that's another thread), but I don't see them holding fast to their vow to truly cherish one another. Again, I'm generalizing... flamethrow away to your heart's content.