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| Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 381 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxoticangel
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What is your opinion of taking/having taken pictures or videos while you play. We have pictures taken while playing with a few other people that we trust not to post or share them with anyone. We also have several hours of video that we have taken over the years with other people.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,398 Location: Texas Status: Single Female
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I understand others like and enjoy this, but for me, it would be an absolute NO! NO! NO! I'm probably in the minority, but as much as you might trust someone NOW, what happens later if that relationship falls apart? Or...someone, in the "excitement of the moment" may very unwittingly show the photo's or video to someone else - and they recognize you. Or a million other things? The babysitter is snooping around one night and finds them. Or your kids? For those that have less need for discretion, this might be OK, but it is something I personally would never allow although I can understand why you might want to go back later and relive the experience through the photos or video.A few months back, there was a similar thread, and as I recall, OhioCouple had a bad experience along that line. Maybe they'll come back and respond to this thread to give you their take on it. (And Mrs. O...I'm pretty certain it was you, but if not, my apologies. I'm older and entitled to forgetfulness. ) - EBF |
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That is a definite for us. Although, it does sound really hot! There isn't anyone that I trust that much, other than my hubby. Not to sound cynical, but I don't think you should ever trust anyone. You may think all is well now, but what about a few years from now when you are no longer talking? What if they decide to share them with someone else? Or any of the many thing EBF said? I wouldn't be opposed to hubby & taking pics while we played with soemone else, but I would never let anyone else do it. But, I would never ask to take pics, b/c I would let someone else do it. Although, I would let someone else take pics of hubby & I with our own cam & taking pics of another couple with their cam would be cool. that way you get some action pics of yourself & your spouse & you don't have to worry about trust issues.
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| Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 381 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxoticangel
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There was supposed to be a poll attached to this thread to get a better feeling about everyone's attitude. Guess I made a rookie mistake and flubbed that. Like I was saying, we have made some video and have several action shots of our play time with other people. We also have posed pictures with others (usually female) because I have this fantasy of being an erotic photographer a la Nigel Scott and Christophe Mourthe. We don't share our pictures with anyone and wanted to get everyone else's thoughts on the subject.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,398 Location: Texas Status: Single Female
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Thanks xxoticangel...you gave me one of my "laugh out louds" for the day. I've been around a long time, and I still make those "rookie mistakes."If I'm not mistaken, you can still go back and add a poll. If not, tho', just go ahead and start a new thread with your poll. If you need help, just holler! - EBF | |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 556 Location: off the board
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Well as we have posted a few times before concerning photography, those who know us here know we like photo-play. We don’t always do it, it’s something that the other couple or partner has to want to do. Since I am the one who does most of the photos, I always assure discretion. The region in which I live is such that reputations can spread quickly and one thing I don’t want it a rep for not being discreet with other people’s photos. I have done sessions for other couples and they have been satisfied with the results. I have never used any image for my own gains at the expense of another couple’s privacy. If you are enjoying being creative and trying to emulate the greats of the erotic art world, the more power to you I say. There is something alive and electric in the creation of art. It elevates what can be just people pointing cameras at each other in various sex acts to something that breaths and makes the air itself seem sensual. Have fun with it! ~D2 |
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Now see, I said I wouldn't ever let someone else photo us. But, I think I would be somewhat comfy with someone like BodyScape doing it. I know it sounds funny, but you are into erotic photography, & it seems to be a hobby for you. So, it isn't like you are using it to make money. I think a photo session with you guys would be ok. Although, I still am not too trusting of people. |
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| Active Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 23 Location: St. Louis, MO Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Olympia221
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Dito for us! In general I (Mrs. Olympia) am too worried about all the things mentioned before, such as kids finding photos or videos, another couple recognizing us, etc. to have our pics/video taken and kept by someone else. However, I AM the art history person and completely appreciate the power and beauty of an image. BodyScape's images are utterly erotic, gorgeous, empowering, and simply amazing and it would be far too interesting to see what came out of a play session with them to pass that up! | |
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| Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple
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Some other threads: Are you pic takers? Question about pics takin at a party Pics/Video (Julie, I'm lovin' the new options on the Advanced Search page! )-B |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 556 Location: off the board
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By the way I do have this idea to imulate some of Kilmt's work using body paints....interested? Mrs. Bodyscape...aka ~Cat | |
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| Active Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 23 Location: St. Louis, MO Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Olympia221
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I completely believe that Mr. Bodyscape is wonderful for your self-image, but then again, I'm sure you must be a wonderful Muse Oh! I love Klimt! That's a fabulous idea! Oh yes, and we love road trips (*grin*) |
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