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Gladiola4u

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About Gladiola4u

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    Active Contributor
  • Birthday 08/12/1974

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Ontario, Canada
  • Interests
    Reading, computers, music and walks on the beach, just add sex.
  • Occupation
    Customer Service
  • Swinging Experience
    Approximately a year.

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    Club Eros

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  1. Okay, I know exactly how you feel Julie, and for us the club closed completely so it really sucks and it's been more difficult to get back into the swing of things.
  2. My Sex Slave and I are very open about what we do. We are not ashamed and if somebody doesn't agree with it, tough shit. We have a lot of friends who know and they are in the mind set of "it's your life, I don't care" so it's great. So far there are no friends that we have lost since they have learned what we do. My sister and my brother know we are swinger but they are some of the people that I am the closest to and trust a lot. My mother on the other hand, although she is really open minded I could not think of telling her, she might think that we are on our way to a disaster marriage and all the speeches in the world and I am not about to sit and hear her out, especially since she lives with us.
  3. I would have to say that my sex slave is my and has been my best lover hands down, although we have never asked each other that question I know what my answer is and I am sure he also knows. We have had a few swaps and nobody has compared to the orgasms that he brings me to and he knows exactly what I need and like when I have reached an orgasm to feel fully and completely satisfied. I don't know if I am his best that he has ever had but I don't want him to answer otherwise so I will not ask.
  4. Julie, I know exactly what you mean. My sex slave and I have been in the same situation when we go to our club and find that we are the "Angelina and Brad" of the crowd and we have felt so out of place. We try our very best to look and smell good and we even found this other couple one time who could not stend the bad breath let alone the BO. Why do they bother I wonder? But to each their own and if they don't turn us on maybe some other people are into that. Good luck the next time you go.
  5. Popor Julie, you really have had a bad start to the new Yearh's eh? I would say it sucks to be you but that would be not so nice so I will say...POOR JULIE!!! I really hope that you start to feel better very soon, that the hose to your washing machine is thawed, and that next New Year's you don't make the same plans, at least not any plans with the same person. Take care
  6. Mr. and Mrs. Monkey, my sex slave and I are packing to meet up with you and give us some lessons too please.
  7. My sex slave had his V done a yeah and a half ago and let me tell you it didn't affect him in any way. In fact, the next morning after he got it done we had sex, boy was he happy that it still worked and that he could still function without any difficulties. Now it's so much better for us when we swing because there are no worries of that and it gives our play partners that peace of mind, it sure has made it really easy.
  8. For me, my husband had brought up the subject of adding a woman to our sex life. The day he brought that up I don't know if I wanted to shoot him or just keep talking about it. I had told him straight and flat out no, although we talked about it for hours that day and we discussed all the "what ifs" and all the "what about" I told him no. He left the subject alone for months until I brought it up to him. I always thought and was scared that it was my husband that would fall in love with another woman and not want me anymore. I discussed this with my brother (he often has threesomes) and he told me about a lot of the fun stuff that you can have but also some of the downfalls of it. It opened my eyes and made me see a few things differently than what a lot of people have in mind of what swinging is and how sex can be so much fun without having to be in love with the person or without having those kind of ties with your playmate. After this discussion with my brother I went back to my husband and suggested joining a club and see how I felt there while I was surrounded by swingers and how I would feel before any serious playing. Since then, I have just been wanting to go back and after our first threesome and swap with another couple, man I just can't get enough.
  9. After reading this, I think in a way I have a silly way of seeing this. When hubby and I are looking at profiles of other couples and see anybody who is 23 or younger I don't want anything to do with them. I am with Spoo on this one, a lot of them are not emotionally and mentally mature and I don't want to be involved in any potential drama with such a young person. I know at that age I was doing things to experiment and did a lot of things that were so wrong, I don't want to be a part of that in a young person. I'd rather hook up with a couple or playmate who knows that what they are doing is what they like and want to do.
  10. I was talking to a friend today and she said that she does not see herself as a swinger but she also said that she didn't care whoever wanted to have that kind of a lifestyle. Because of her background, I was surprised to hear her say that but I didn't mention me being a swinger simply because I know her mom and her mom knows my mother-in-law and so on. And to avoid a whole lot of blah blah blah from anybody, I didn't say a word.
  11. Most of the times my sex_slave gets me with the finger first, but after that I am like the energizer bunny but backwards, I just keep cumming and cumming and cumming
  12. Ok - I did not vote on the poll because I have not done any of the choices there were. But.....I was a secretary and my boss did me :surrender: The funny thing is that I just wanted a one night stand and it didn't exactly turn out that way. We are still together 9 and a half years later, now we are both looking for only 1 night stands that we can both enjoy.
  13. Both sex slave and I are Leos. Although we have been told that Leos should not be together because they clash, we have managed to be together for 9 and a half years now and still lots more to go.
  14. It would be Wil Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. I think that Wil Smith is like the Campbell's Soup.....mmm Good! My sex slave thinks his wife is cute too. If they were on the choices, John Travolta and Kelly Preston would be them hands down. Both sex slave and I would do them in a heart beat.
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