Ok, my husband and I have talked about trying the swinging scene for quite some time. I think he has maybe decided not to out of fear of the unknown. I would like as much information about everything u can tell me. How do you go about meeting other couples (we live in a small town), does everyone use protection all the time, (we are both worried about diseases), is there a way to know if someone is clean or not, what if u don't want to have sex with other couples (just watch) at first, does it really make marriages stronger or are there some who have had their marriages torn apart, how do you feel afterwards, (we do talk very openly and honestly now so i think we would still be able to after the fact). What is the age range. Gosh, so much to ask... PLEASE, just give me as much info as you can...the good, the bad, the ugly...any info is greatly appreciated!