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notaswingeryet started following Herbal libido enhancers and sex supplement recommendations?, Would you want to own a swing club?, Screwing drunk friends and and 5 others
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I realize my first concern should be "Is the woman sober enough to give consent". However most of the time when I see a hot drunk woman my first thought is "will she puke on me?" Alchohol is a wierd unpredictable substance, and if someone is too drunk to give consent they probably can't hold onto their lunch either. JS
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Gentlemen's Choice of Lingerie Colors
notaswingeryet replied to Elusive BiFem's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I agree a red head in a black anything looks striking and tasty. -
I'm surprised no one has commented on the need to prove your usefullness before getting an invite. "Ecsuse me Mrs Jones, I see your throwing a party. I believe I have just the thing to liven things up."
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I'm glad that things worked out for you. How did your relationship with the other couple work out? How widespread has your outing been? Sorry for being nosey.
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notaswingeryet replied to Spoomonkey's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
I have no problem agreeing with this statement, however knowledge of the fact does not give me mastery of it. I have allways found that you should test the waters before jumping in. If she likes me and I like her then we can progress to the next level. However if she likes me but does not like my choice of words, it will spoil my chances. That failure on my part to "close the deal" will, in effect ruin my mood and possibly my future dealings with the oppisite sex, nervouse performance is not good no matter what causes it. I think most men will agree that our main hesitation problem is caused by our second guessing ourselve due to past situations. If on the otherhand the sitaution does warrent the green light, go for it, visualize you desires and ask for what you want. -
Did you have sex in high school?
notaswingeryet replied to Alura's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I had my first experience early (not gonna say how early, don't want to sound like a slut). Maybe I should have waited, try telling young hormones not every girl wants to do that with you. By the time I had "smoothed out" my approach to the opposite sex. I was well out of high school. It didn't help matters that I was a band geek, they don't date like normal children. -
Ok.. its Tuesday night...what evidence did you find inspector? I just have this mental image of you driving around the block at a snails pace peering in everyones garbage can.
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My pretty red haired wife has freckles too, they drive me nuts. Especially those across her chest. A friend once saw my wife and warned me. A blonde will screw you for the fun of it. A brunette will screw you because she likes you. A redhead will screw you till you break. And then look for another toy. Haven't broken yet, but god its fun getting bent.
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notaswingeryet replied to Spoomonkey's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Nice plan, simple, easy to remember. However you have to be absolutely sure of their response before diving in like that. If the other party responds with "I like you too but not in that way" you simply cover up your embarassment and move on. An "Eww I didn't mean to lead you on Eww" will result in a mounth of embarassment related performance issues. Most men dread that last response, and therefore allow our fear of rejection to cause us to dwell at the sticking point. Hitting it at the high point of the conversation could alleviate some of that fear, or it could push us to act reclessly, giddy with good emotions. There's a fine line there, I'm not sure I learned how to walk it. -
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notaswingeryet replied to Spoomonkey's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
It would seem that the female half could use any line and transistion into play, or back out if there was akward silence. We men on the other hand have to be carefull with our lines lest they come off as crude and pushy. I once had an aquaitance (can't say he was a friend) who could ask anyone "wannafuck?" with no shame. Amazing thing is he usally scored. Me, I'm going to sound like a bad teen movie if I try that aproach. Abought the only line I ever had any success with (not in a swinger situation) was "Would you like to try something different?" Perhaps that could be used in this context. -
I once worked as the doorman at an adult establishment that required the photocopying of DL for proof of age. It's surprising how many rights an individual has concerning his or her personal information and how it is used or shared after you give it to someone. If any information had been shared illegally (without the consent of the owner) or without legal collection methods (court orders) any one affected could and would have filed a defamation suit that would have left them in ownership of an adult establishment. As long as the information you give is stated specifically for the proof of membership, it should not be used for any other use. The laws are funny two-edged swords, the more you know about them the more capable you will be to protect yourself.
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Swinger Lifestyle myths and misconceptions, what have you discovered?
notaswingeryet replied to iapr's topic in Swingers Talk
I'm still trying to get over the whole "harry palms if you masturbate too much" myth. I'm pretty sure that any, how do you spot a swinger myth has been debunked by this group or any other swingers I've met so far. So I'm sure that the sex craved, inbred, trailer park degenerate myth is as far off as the hairy chest, shirt open to the navel, lecherous, gold chain wearing lothario myth. -
I like "spice box", but that leaves the door open for "scary spice box". Forgive I joke.
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No, I heard that in north Florida as well (not too far away I quess), as well as calling it her peach, and one young lady referred to it as her orange blossum special. Sounded sexier coming from the lady.