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deanncat

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About deanncat

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    Active Contributor
  • Birthday 05/25/1996

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    manteca
  • Interests
    4 wheeling, some camping, hubby loves to talk about cars and more cars and I'm very outdoors
  • Occupation
    sales manager
  • Swinging Experience
    rookie

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    deanncat
  • Favorite Club(s)
    havn't been to one yet

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  1. I love for my man to cum in my mouth and me swallow it all, thats my favorite, when in the mood enjoy cum on my breast and my new turn on if for him to cum on my face, but miss the hair don't like in my hair,LOL
  2. I have been on this board I think for 3years probably and found it very interesting and helpfull but not sure swinging was for are 12years of marriage, the reason swinging came up was because we wanted to spice things up, I didn't know it was possible or couples did that, we had lots of talk good one and bad one about swinging more good ones and even set up a date and guy didnt follow through and I was realived but disappointed too. And this friday I went out with girls and hubby picked me up so there was no drinking and driving and I danced the night away, hubby has always told me I can play without him and just don't want to do that,saturday had time just for me and hubby, got online and went to Swingerlifestyle and said we were available if anyone wanted to meet, was not planned at all, just happend, surprisly I wasn't even that nervous about it, we sit up a meet and the next thing we were head back to are house with me getting excited and hubby gave me a few cute flurtish looks and I was leading both men to the room and the fun was on, a couple of times briefly during the fun I said I should not be liking this two men and both of their penis just for me and all the extra attention, I was enjoying it and I can see hubby was having fun making me squirm, and when other male came first I thought there was going to be awkwardness but only for a second and they both just kept playing with me untill I was in completely satisfied and then played with them again and they had their fun as well completely, great fun and now as I talk about it, I don't know what I was so worried about, it was great sex and look forward to have couple fun and I think it will be fun to see hubby with another women, he say we don't have to but I think it would be fun, it was awesome fun, it was great sex and no regrets, I guess just wanted to share and say thanks for all the helpful advice has given us
  3. I can say, this was me (wife) and even after are first time (this weekend, finally)I think I could be wondering this with second time even third, I kept thinking he would think i'm used now or look at me different, but when your in them moment and the pleasure is there thats all you think about and you as well i'm sure, so you can't regret that, you look at your wife with love and she you and when you swing its just about enjoy the pleasure, thats what I just realized this weekend, explore all option you might feel out loud with your wife but don't over think it, thats what I learned this weekend are first time took me 3years to mmf and it was awsome, when man left we did it again, made it even better, this was not really a planed situation, got a babysitter and didn't even say it out loud we were going to swing tonight untill we were home, it all came together and I would say it was pretty mellow first time, but it was lots of fun and we both look foreward to making time to do it again. This is just how if work for us I think we just got tiried of research and over thinking it and did it and if we hated it talk about it and would of said ok we got a t-shirt no more, lucky enough it was fun and will need more t-shirts, LOL, good luck
  4. One night just had one, was are first time finally swinging, and when we set it up I knew it would be the only time we would do it with this man before we even met him, was very comfortable with it. It was a very good mild first time for us and I will swing again just not with same person. Maybe later will be some friends we can swing with more then once, either way dosnt' matter all is fun either way
  5. Things changed when at some point the men took control, I guessed it changed the fun for me. I wanted it to be about having fun and then if we were all having a good time and one thing led to another then it happened, that was ok. It is what keeps me from being too fearful I think - getting comfortable chatting face to face, having a good time, and then going from there. I decided that the net and phone are great introduction, but then one must go out and meet and get comfortable and then if it leads to swinging, ok, go from there.
  6. My husband has been with me every step of the way. He has mentioned it is to be at my pace all the time. Hubby said I could play away from home. I didn't want to do that, I go out with the girls and flirt and I think that is why he said that was ok, but to me, doing anything other than that is cheating and it bugged me that he thought that was ok. So, a MFM threesome sounded like fun and then I bailed. When I talked to other male on phone, yes, there was sex talk. Hubby was there too and it was a great time. Since that, since I hadn't really met him yet, I felt like now I have no option and must go to next step. Discussing swinging has made things very exciting in our bedroom and we talked about everything. Now, nothing is being discussed about it, and I don't think we know how to move on in the bedroom or try again. I'm aggravated at myself that I let such a little thing stop me.
  7. Ok, we have talked about swinging. I'm not shy, but can be in the bedroom. We have a great marriage and hubby has brought me out of my shell. We have been married for 12 years and want to spice up our marriage. Hubby suggested it. At first I'm like people really do that? Wow! I liked how it sounded and having been tossing around and talk and talk until totally worn out. We have fantasized about it and this resulted in outstanding sex. We've been on this site for over a year now and have read all the questions and answers. We've also been on swinglifestyle and even found someone recently that I hit it off with but then I changed my mind. We chatted, and they had a webcam and we talked on phone. When it came down to meeting, they wanted to meet at our house and I freaked. I should also say it was a mfm threesome scenario. I couldn't relax and he wasn't even here yet! So, we cancelled and now feel foolish and nothing exciting is happening. I just got nervous. It felt like even for first meet, must have sex at that point. I felt rushed because the one we want to meet had kids, we have kids, so it was going to be morning meet and sex. Oh wow, totally felt pressured and rushed. I just don't know how to move to next level. I thought I really wanted to play, but not sure now. Help!
  8. Weight is always a issue with me i'm up and down with my weight, but don't let it interfere in my self image, not ever day is perfect, I do have my days I want to hide because I feel heavy then other days and i'm 5"5 and 213, but sex is fun and its fun with more people and I don't think people look at you imagine its all about personity and the sexual fun, just look at it like that
  9. My hubby had to tell me it was time to not walk around in nude with my boy because he was getting to old don't remember his age but he was probably 7, we all live in same household we have seen each other naked by accident, really no big deal i'm the mom, daughter still see me naked sometimes to, I had the breast milk question too, and now she 6 if she seem me naked I only make it a quick walk, but I think thats just because it might bug her but it doesn't really bug me again im mom and she my kid nudity is just part of life that how i look at it
  10. Have been coming here awhile but have been absent for about 2months, no nothing about swingertown on CBS, don't even know what time its on maybe somebody can tell me and when was first epsode, lol
  11. I asked hubby this question, he says depends on her attitude and how outgoing she is. I think this statement is probably true on his part but usually he does go for the more plain just because they are not only thinking of how they look.
  12. This is interesting question, at first it sounds like if you have good conversation with man and you know he wants you, that might be enough to say lets fuck, but then maybe not, after reading some of your replys, early years always couldn't get myself interesting in man that totally liked me and we were to far in the friends stage so, I would probably have to say no desire to have sex with them means no sex for him even if I know he wants it.
  13. I watch porn with my hubby all the time, we even watched it once with some friends when we were dating, it really not a big deal, It breaks the madness from watching just regular stuff and we make jokes about the characters or we get turned on and have sex during or after. Watching porn with partner or anyone for that matter can be fun.
  14. This is wife speaking for hubby because we talk about this a lot and it makes sex better. He wants me to do MFM and at first I didn't get it and was very insecure even talking about it, but now we talk about it a lot and some day we will probably have our fun. I think he likes the idea also because he doesn't have to do all the work and the idea of me being satisfied more than once, and the chase just turns him on. Reading these posts helps me get it and it is a total turn-on now, can't wait until our lives get settled and we can actually experience it.
  15. I enjoy being naked, If I didn't have kids I would be naked from the moment I come home from work until time to sleep. I don't get to be naked around the house enough and as far as other people seeing me naked, I tried to get hubby to go some nudist club. He wouldn't so I have to be content with my home, but would so wouldn't care if other people were around. I am a medium sized person and no nude complex here. LOL
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