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About rudrjunk

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  • Birthday 10/12/1969

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    Couple
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    Schaumburg, IL
  • Occupation
    Consultant
  • Swinging Experience
    Had our first MFM...Wife loved it. now it is my turn...He He He He

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    Couples Playhouse in Naperville

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  1. Let me take some time to introduce ourselves. I am "R" and she is "V" and both are 39 years old. We have been married for 18 years and have a great life and two lovely kids. We met during our college years and dated for four years before tying the knot. We had never had sex with anyone else before we met each other and for the past 21 years, we had only each other (coupled with porn and a couple of toys post marriage). We come from a sexually suppressed country with orthodox thinking (most of the population) and no knowledge of sex other than the fact that a dick inserted into vagina makes babies. This is how we add a population equal to one Australia every year. She was a simple, shy and very reserved (orthodox) girl when I met her in college. It took me 12 months just to get to kiss her and another 6 months get my hand on her breasts with clothes on. So you can imagine where she came from. I on the other hand had very liberated and open thinking, but never put it to use as I did not want to cheat on my loved one. We had our first intercourse (after a lot of cajoling and teaching) at my house. This was in the 3rd year of us dating. I taught her all that was to be known about loving and love-making by 18 year olds like necking, kissing, first blow-job, orgasms (male & female), etc. in fact I was her sex tutor and have remained so since we got married. I have always had fantasies (not that I am the first one) of group sex, multiple partners (no cheating), etc, etc. So one month after our marriage, I float the idea of swinging. Can you imagine what would have been her reaction? I'll tell you. No talk and no sex for one full month. Anyway, to cut the story short, I introduced her to sex clubs, sent her stories, purchased sexy lingerie, sex toys, movies, etc to get her more involved in swinging. While having sex, I would talk about my fantasies of seeing her with another man, getting a lady involved with us both and so on. Sometimes she would agree that we should experiment, but the next morning, she would not talk about it. Then we came to the USA and I introduced her to some swing clubs. Man the sex there was great, as she would be so turned on by the fact that she was getting naked in front of others, and people were seeing her having sex. Then last week, when I was on Swing Lifestyle and met a young stud who we will call "S" with whom she started chatting. Then we decided to meet with him for a movie and see how it goes forward. So both S & I researched and decided to go for a movie which no wants to see, so that we can get a empty theater. On the designated day, we went to a movie house close to where we live having no thoughts as to what may occur. This was the 10:30 pm show, on a weekday so the theater was empty. She wore a short denim skirt, with a red hot panty and a matching front clasp bra and a loose fitting light red top with a drawstring collar which could be opened up for easy access. We even packed a small backpack with condoms, lubes, and some towels in case we actually went ahead with S. Though both of us were nervous, I was extremely excited due to the fact that she actually agreed to meet with another man. This was a complete surprise for me that she actually agreed to dress up to impress someone, and also that she may end up having sex with someone other than me for the first time in her life. So we went to the movie house, butterflies in my stomach and met up with S. He was smart looking with a terrific physique and a great sense of humor. I purchased the tickets, and went in. We saw that there was just one other couple sitting in the entire hall, so we went up and sat in the last row, just under the projector with each of us on either side of her. Later on one more couple came in and sat up front under the railings so they were practically invisible to us. V was so overwhelmed that she could not even speak anything. I made small talk, and she eventually loosened up to start talking with S. As time passed, the movie started. I could see that she was very tensed up with her legs crossed and leaning towards me as if S would make a grab at her and she would not know what to do. I kissed her a couple of times and could feel that she was scared. So S started to just touch her on her hand. Nothing erotic, just keeping his hand near hers. I could see, that she was making a effort to touch him and she did. They held hands for the next 5-10 minutes. Gradually S started to roam his other hand on her arm and she allowed him to. Down under, she was already getting a bit wet, but could not control her mixed emotions. She kept on looking at me, and I told her that it will be entirely her choice and we both will respect it. S then started kissing her on the neck. The couple ahead of us was also involved in their own lip-lock. This was good motivation for V. She freed her hand and kissed me in the most passionate way that I could ever remember. S was still necking her and was touching her breasts thru her clothes. V was already moaning a bit (again, from mixed emotions), but she was getting hotter by the second. I opened the drawstring on her top and opened her. S needed no instructions and dived between her cleavage with his luscious pink lips. V just put her hand on her mouth lest anyone hear what was happening. I tried to keep a lookout and also part-take in the pleasure exercise that was happening with V. S played with her taut nipples and kept talking to her all the while roaming his lips on her neck, cheeks, shoulders and her breasts. Then V did the unthinkable and opened her bra. Both S & I needed no further invitation and we started sucking on her nipples from both sides. All three of us became oblivious to our surroundings. By this time, V was ecstatic and moaning in a low voice. S helped her uncross her legs and put her left leg on his right leg. I did the same and put her right leg over my left leg. All the time, we were playing with her open breasts. V put her hand on my penis, which was rock hard watching her being pleasured by another man and that too openly in a movie house. I loosened my jeans, and she took out my penis. I was surprised to see that she was doing the same with S. He was clean and uncut, whereas I was cut. It was later that V confessed to me that she was so scared, she just wanted to go home. But then she herself decided, that it was either this, or back to our bedroom and old lifestyle. And she chose to liberate herself once and for all. So here we were, in a movie house, with S fingering her thru her panty, top open with breasts out, and rubbing our open penises. This was too much for me, but I controlled myself. I put my hand on her panty, and she was soaking wet. Her wetness had permeated thru her panties to her short skirt. I parted her panty and started massaging her. S guided his hand and played with her wet pussy for quite some time until she almost had a orgasm. I had to kiss her to make her stop moaning lest someone hear us. This was like 30 minutes into the movie. S asked, and V decided that it was time to proceed to the hotel. There were quite a few hotels around and we went to the nearest and best one. She sat in the car, while I checked in and also purchased some beer from their bar. We parked in the back and I gave a key to S who went in first. V & I arrived after five minutes into the room. I opened the bottles and handed them to V & S. The three of us were sitting around the room talking and drinking beer. After 10-15 more minutes of talking and trying to see if the TV had a menu to select any porn film, we switched to HBO, and there was a sex reality show going on. This was enough for S & I to move to the king bed where V was sitting drinking her beer. I had already finished my beer and so I started fondling V's breasts and kissing her. On the other side, S started to do the same. He had already stripped down to his shorts, and I was still overdressed. Alternately we kissed her and sucked her, and fingered her. I helped V remove her top and bra completely. S helped her remove her panties and skirt. V was clean shaven S started stroking her while I undressed. V had her eyes shut and was moaning. She was so wet already, since she had come once during the movie. S started eating her making her moan more and V was jerking me off while I was sucking her breasts. V is very fond of someone sucking her breasts, but now, with someone pleasuring her pussy, with a dick in hand and getting her tit sucked, was more than she could handle and she came in S's face. Then it was my turn to lick her off and she started giving S a blow job while he played with her taut tits. This was a first for both of us. I was so hot looking at her eating another mans meat. After some time, S put on a condom as she lay on her back, and he entered her. OMG! here was our first fantasy coming to life. Another man making love to V. S was very passionate and knew how to get her to climax. I sat beside V stroking her breasts and kissing her. Within minutes, V was buckling and squirted hard. Even S liked to see her so wet. Then he turned her over on her knees and entered her from behind. Every now and then S would stop and stroke her with his finger or the head of his penis. V liked this very much. I was now receiving the best blowjob of my life from V while she was being taken by S in a doggy position. S kept up the tempo and he made her squirt once more. I could see the glow on her face. She was now so much into it that she kept moaning and asking S for more. Next S turned her on her back and took her from the side of the bed in a standing position. He would pound her for 30 seconds and then take her slowly, remove from her, stroke her with his penis head or finger and upon inserting she would squirt. I could see that she loved this so much, she was meeting each of his stroke. Finally after 40 minutes of S starting on her, he came big and so did she. V had that satisfied look on her face, something that I had not seen on her since some time. I knew that I would not last this long. I mounted V in a missionary position and kissed her with eyes closed. She was so wet, I slid in without any effort. S was by her side, sucking away on her nipple and getting jerked at the same time. I lasted around 10 minutes and came very hard inside her. We lay next to each other on the bed which is wet in 3-4 different places and V is feeling completely spent. So we try to watch tv for some time and talk regular stuff. V wanted to go to sleep as she was feeling sore, but a couple of quick kisses and nipple teasing, and she was game again. This time, I started with her while she was fondling S. After a hard pumping I came on her, but wanted to keep going, so I laid on my back, and V mounted me. This time, S stood up and another of our fantasies happened. V took him completely in her mouth while bucking on me. It was great to see her being so pleasured and her savoring every moment of it. After I came again along with her, S mounted her, and this time he came fast and hard. V lost count of the number of times she squirted. The bed was wet in so many places, it was difficult to sleep in any position without a part of you feeling cold due to the wetness. We both thanked S and he left for home. We went to sleep at around 3 AM so completely satisfied and curiously hungry for more. This was my version, she will put up hers later.
  2. Hi, Swinging is and has been a topic of conversation for me and my wife for a very long time. Everyone will advise you that communication is a must. And I completely agree with that. Swinging is a mindset that has to be nurtured and let mature. I have made mistakes in introducing my wife to others with the intent of swinging and we had even spoken about it. But then everything never happens as planned. Keep your communication channels all open, but try not to badger her into taking over a swinging mindset. She will be ready when she will be ready. My communication channels opened with my wife on the day after we got married. And it took her 18 years to have her breast massaged for 3 minutes by another person. This happened 3 weeks ago. Today, she wants to try being BI...Am I surprised? Hell yeah!. But it is upto her when she really wants to do something different. So keep communicating with her and introduce her to this forum. Lots of experienced people/couples and tons of friendly advice. Keep the fun going -
  3. We are completely new to swinging. We have been married for 16 years and dated for 4 years before that. I have never been with anyone else and neither has she been with anyone else in out entire lives. Currently, she is trying to find herself and looking to see if we are / can be part of the lifestyle.
  4. I am not naming any of the clubs here and hence the numbers. Club #1 -On-Premise - now either closed or trying to relocate based on info on their website. Sat parties - couples $60 with food and BYOB Club #2 - On-Premise - Wonderful place. We truly like it. Couples $80 for the first 3 visits. Then it is $60. B'day, anniversary, etc. half price. Special themes - bring another couple get half off / get $20 off Dec 31 - $100-140 Plus games every month with prizes ranging from liquor, hard cash, free couples entry, etc. Good food - we don't eat as we are pure vegetarians, but we have heard good comments about the food from others.
  5. Is there a specific brand or any suggested brands which I can order online? Looking for advice. Thanks
  6. Regarding size, there is another thread actively discussing Confession: I like smaller penises! This thread has a lot of actual statements from a lot of couples about the personal likes and dislikes of a big versus average or small and subsequent effects. It is worth reading. Cheers
  7. Wow! first of all WELCOME to the board. On the orgasm front, i would say that if you truly enjoy sex with each other, then the orgasm would be a natural process. However, if your sexual life with each other is not entirely satisfactory, you may try toys or sex therapy. I don't think that you not having a orgasm for the last 10 yrs might turn someone off. But you should put up your expectations with each other and make sure that your marriage does not suffer due to swinging. A sincere request would be to go thru the various forums on this board. There is a wealth of information and lots of good people with good advice. So take some time to read and make an assessment of your fantasies and then jump into swinging. Hope this helps.
  8. Put his emails in the junk folder and report him for spamming...What you did was not incorrect at all. It was he who was the problem and I would thank god that you did not get to meet him. What ever happens happens for good. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Well I can go on, but you've got the idea.
  9. Absolute fun...No hinderances at all. We kiss after oral sex and also after cumming on each other. We both just luv it.
  10. I too think that most people will be content with the #1 position. In actuality if you see and analyse the human intellect, there is no person who does not fantasize or have virtual sex with someone else. Certain individuals or couples actually give shape to this fantasy and swing/swap/cheat/etc. In fact there are married couples who fantasize while in bed and also talk about it (the fantasy object could be the boy/girl next door, movie star, porn star, colleague, friend, family member, etc, etc, etc. The list is endless). But they don't take it out of their bedrooms. Or one can also say that they are not liberated. All such couples do not actually get into xtra-marital affaris / swinging / swapping. The reasons again could be endless - circumstances, social stigma, disease/infection, just the general paranoia, or where I come from it could also be blackmail. So if you actually look at the proportion of populace, the majority will be at the # 1 position all their life. But as again, this is my opinion.
  11. Hey if it stinks it stinks. You gotta say what you gotta say. If it stinks, then maybe something needs to be done about it. This is one of the funniest threads I've read. Just can't stop grinning in office and co-workers are wondering what's going on...LOL
  12. We've been on various boards striking conversations (chat) for the past 1+ year. Initially we were very apprehensive about giving our photographs on the net. Later we did start giving our photographs and and receiving theirs before they wanted to start chatting. We must have given out ours to around 5-6 couples and then had to stop. Know why? We received our own photograph back from someone on the one of the other boards who wanted to chat. Anyone saying No Snap No Chat can stay without chatting with us. Giving out photographs on the net days are over for us.
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