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  1. We have been active but things tend to be hot/cold for us because we're both extremely busy and tend to get picky. We find that swinging can be a second job in itself.
  2. Review our profile? For several reasons we're sure responses for us tend to be hot and cold. We've had several other photos posted but found they just lead to people sending us rather raunchy notes. We're constantly altering it as to not come off as prudes but want to be firm. Let us know what you think? Thanks! 2GirlsGoodBenBad at swinglifestyle.com
  3. We post our actual age because if we were to post the age in which we look most people would stay away from us completely. Often told we look like we're in our teens when dressed down.
  4. We met on the Internet and didn't like each other much at first. But, with some time half approached the other and we began speaking. Eventually, we met and started courting one another then things blossomed into something serious. Now we are in the process of trying to bridge the 2 hour gap between us so that we can both reside in the DC Metro.
  5. For women we tend to check the face and breast and if we're lucky the butt. With guys just the face...can better judge if naked
  6. This is a huge stereotype that I'm (Bad Girl) slightly annoyed with being associated with black people. We've been approached by several people with them hinting at wanting to sleep with a black woman because they think that we are oversexed and would give them the ride of their lives. That's quite insulting! And, we reject someone if they approach us in such a manner. We are actually a little reluctant to venture too much out into different groups and clubs because of race and our relationship. We tend to stay within our local Metropolitan area because we feel with the diversity here we shouldn't run into too many issues concerning our relationship and especially our race. We attended a private party where we felt that our race/same sex relationship shunned us from the general group of people and I'm sure the fact that we were the youngest pair there didn't make the situation any better. It always seemed when we were trying to involve ourselves with everyone they were ready to file out to another area of the house. So, we're always looking for some good people who can overlook these superficial things But, at the one club we went to in Washington, DC we found that the crowd was very racially diverse and had a great time and want to check out the scene in NYC because we heard the crowds there were great too.
  7. We have ran into other black females in the lifestyle but primarily through groups directed more towards black swingers. But, we find that these groups are often poorly ran or VERY cliquish. We find it difficult to meet other black people that are interested in black people when in groups that are majority white because it seems in those groups the focus is on interracial fantasies primarily with black men. But, we are two black females and tend to get approached almost always from non-black couples and singles which is just fine (as a fantasy of never having been with a black woman or "trying" black). Being approached from that POV is actually quite the turn off because we don't want to be seen as something "to try." We are not a hobby or thing we don't view others that way no matter their race. Getting off soap box. But, the DC Metro Area definitely embraces diversity through and through
  8. Kissing is reserved for the both of us to share with one another including sex without protection if there is such a thing between two women :?
  9. I (Bad One) think that when two people kiss with their eyes open they'll realize they look like two pitbulls trying to mull each other That's why we kiss with our eyes closed.
  10. Yes, that is definitely up there in the strange side of things.
  11. We say this all the time to people that are at least 40 and up.. ..One guy responded saying he thought his daughter was hot Creeped the hell out of us.
  12. When chatting online with someone we'll use our first initial to indicate who someone is exchanging messages with. We often use our real first name when we have become acquainted with someone. And, for contact we always use cell phones rather than our home numbers. Maybe we should come up with good aliases to use but we would slip and say the wrong thing--we've tried it before lol
  13. Well, I (Bad One) had been curious for some time and even joined a site or two to chat and possibly meet a couple as a single. I did once but nothing came of it so I shyed away for some time until I met the Good One. I brought the idea up to her while we were friends and she mentioned wanting to check things out. We ended up in a relationship--and here we are!
  14. Reading this and several other threads has been really enlightening! I honestly didn't even factor in the role of sexual abuse in the lifestyle or even the possibility of being drugged due to the fact that I always believed that with the lifestyle people always (well the majority) functioned with honesty. Obviously not--but thus far we've been lucky with the people we've met but this will allow us to be a lot more cautious of even those we believe we can trust.
  15. We have two sets of breasts in our ranks and still couldn't get the quiz 100% correct. 16/20. But, we like real breast something about how warm and soft they feel is a definite turn on for us both.
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