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ShellyM

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About ShellyM

  • Rank
    Jay's Bumper Buddy
  • Birthday 06/12/1972

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    On the prowl for man meat
  • Location
    San Marcos, TEXAS
  • Swinging Experience
    Since June 2006

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    lost_j1
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Players Club in San Antonio, Aphrodites in Austin

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  1. I like the on the prowl for man meat .

  2. 38C. Where you been sexy, haven't talked to you in awhile. Hope you are doing well!
  3. Thank you! I appreciate that; we do try and have fun lol. Hmmm. Well, I know that the swingers in Austin are much more "cliquish" at the clubs than in San Antonio. I don't know why but they are. What you need to do I think is go to the club a few times and let them see you as a regular. I know with us, we got in with the owner and manager at our fave club in Austin, met some people and have great friends there. San Antonio is more "down home" than Austin is we have found. We can go to Players in SA and meet people at the bar and be laughing like we have known each other for years. I guess you are right, its just the area. They aren't better in SA than Austin, just different. Once they see you and you are a regular you will start making friends and will do great. Just be patient and have fun either way!! Best of luck to you.
  4. Do any of your friends know that you are playing and your wife is cool? You may do better because y'all know people in the swinging community and they KNOW your wife. I think that people you don't know will shy away, yes. But if any of your established friends in the lifestyle are into MFMs go for it!
  5. Did y'all catch that show on Showtime or HBO about Seymore Butts? We loved that show lol. Especially his uncle or cousin, I can't remember.
  6. Wow, thats scary to think about. I honestly don't know if any we go to do that. I want to say no but heck, I guess you never know. Personally I would not care but I know alot of people who are doctors, high profile people who would freak.
  7. House party definitely. Not just because of the sex but because its just fun meeting and hanging with cool people who are into what we are into...when we are at vanilla parties we have to watch how we talk, can't talk to sexual, etc. so we prefer to have friends who are swingers. I am a small group girl though. We usually end up with another couple in the private room in truth. I have had fun in groups but prefer one on one to groups.
  8. Well, at least I don't have big boobs lol.
  9. We are like TNT. Most of the time we do use condoms. But there are times when things are rolling really smooth and the couple is cool and we don't use them.
  10. Just looked, profile looks great. Yeah, I think you will be happy now, I don't think we have ever had a couple ask us Jay's measurements. If they do just say he is well endowed, but I would not bring it up yourself and you'll do great!
  11. May I ask why it takes you so long, or why its so hard to find playmates? I'm just asking to try and understand. I'm not judging, I'm the same way. In truth Jay is alot more successful numbers wise than I am. He loves women. I mean he loves thin women, curvy women, bbw women lol. He is a fan of the female. Jay truly can find beauty in any woman. Me, I'm much more picky and particular in men. Not that I want a certain demographic of man, but I admittedly am a whole lot more picky; this is why usually I give the final go ahead on couples we play with. And I'm not talking only looks. I don't know, its hard to explain. I just am attracted to who I'm attracted to and not to whom I'm not. I am thinking you are the same way. This can be a big liability in swinging though. I have had to open myself up alot. When we first started swinging I went by looks alone in truth. Now I look at a number of factors, looks only being one among intelligence, sense of humor, chemistry, etc. Perhaps you need to "open up" a little bit. Remember, you aren't looking for Ms. Perfect. You married her. You have your mrs. right. You are looking for a lady that you can enjoy a few hours with and then have fun with your wife. Anyways, I just wanted to interject that because you sound alot like I was when we started out.
  12. Thank you, that's very sweet of you. I did think about it and then I was like who am I, what's my name again? LOL. They are truly a great pair, not only sexually but in all ways.
  13. LOL! Touche! Alright, we'll just say that I like his mind. Hows that lol
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