inquisitivemale

As a married couple, we try to only play with single females and couples because wife is bi. She has played with single males at parties and at swing clubs. We do keep it to a minimum though. Alot of the single males we came across is married or have a SO that is not in the lifestyle. I have also seen single guys who use single women as a way to get in. To me they are not bringing anything to the table. They are always at the table but never comes to share anything. The ones that come with a single female or a swing partner really has no connection with ther partner other than to get in. Then you see the single guys who see the lifestyle as free pussy and can sometimes be very disrespectfull. We attended a party this past weekend and came across a single guy. He was very respectfull though and he was a friend of the host couple where the wife wasnot bi. So it is just a rule that we don't go out looking for single males but maybe at a party it is a small possibility.

A little of both. The overall dishonesty was an issue. I also wished for her to understand and not continue to talk to the guy. We have discussed it and she is not speaking to her anymore. We also set some new ground rules.

Maybe I rote it down wrong. I was not mad at my wife until I found out she was still in touch with him. After the incident when we discussed it on the way home it was done and over with. Also I do not leave her alone for her protection. Now some men think I did not hvae a set(balls) but The sex was not what I was mad about. Not until everything else happened. Also when it finally came to light that he was single and the guys were all friends Thats is when I broke it up. As for the number I thought she threw it away when i mentioned it. There have been a few parties where she was the only one to play and I have not gotten mad. Also I think it was a misunderstanding on her part. What I wanted was her to understand how the overall situation looked like. I wanted her to see it from my point. The thing is that sometimes she just does not get it. Also I feel she should have known to not take the number and turn the guy away because if it was the other way around she would have expected me to throw the number away. I asked her "if I had been in contact with a woman I played with that she did not like without her knowlege would she be upset?" She said yes. It is just that even though she says this, she does not really get it because she was not in my position. That is all I wanted was for her to understand. Also the people that insist that I weak. I am not. I could have got mad and took my ball home when I was not playing but I did want her to have some fun also. It was just the overall situation.

I want to tell you gentlemen that I am in no way a cuckold. I did not express my anger in the situation because I did not want to come off as a total ass and maintain some of my own respect. I love my wife and still trust her it is just that she does not see my point of view. I spend a major portion of my time watching her back and she does not get it. I feel that she is only thinkingf of herself sometimes.

I am the male half of a married couple and i wanted to know if i am the bad guy in this situation. My wife and I have been swinging for over three years. We have had very few problems that came up but have always came through them. We attended a party two months back were this situation came up. At the party they had a hospitality suite. We were in the room with quite a few other people. A woman was playing with a man she said was her husband and called my wife over. My wife goes over and they both start giving him head. After a minute the other woman gets up and leaves. My wife continues giving him head. This guy is very well endowed. The other women leave and so I have no one to play with since my wife is occupied and I will not leave her alone because I feel that I should be always be near incase she needs me. So I end up sitting there watching my wife have sex with this guy. This goes on for about an hour. Now my wife is not a quiet person when it comes to sex so she was very loud. During this our I had to endure the looks of all the single guys in the room. They wispered, pointed, laughed, and made little coments about me and talked about how their friend was wearing my wife out. Every now and then a woman would come in talk about how she wouldn't be taking that much dick that long. I got tired of it and told them that they were gonna have to finish it up. They said ok. Twenty minutes later they are still going at it. I really break it up now and we go back to our room. After that I just was not in the mood for sex so we went to bed. The guy came and knowcked on our dorr later that night and I sent him away. The next morning we are leaving and my wife and I getr seperated. When I find her She is talking to the same guy and he is giving her his number. I trust my wife and I though she did not keep the number. Now We talked about it on the way home. She tells me she did not enjoy it that much cause he could not really keep it up and she kept having to give him head. We get home and they post the next date for the party and my wife immediately signs us up for attendance. Now fast forward two months. I was cleaning out our messnger folders when I come across her talking to the husband of another couple we play with on the messenger in the archive. She tells him about what happened but explains it saying I got upset because I was being teased. She made it sound very childish as if it was really just me. She also said that she really enjoyed it. Then she tells him that the guy has been calling her and talking to her. She then tells himn all the things he says and that he wanted to get with her again at the next party. I did not know that he was calling her. We really had a discussion about that. Days later I see that he is still calling her and his number is still in her cell phone address book. After the discussion agian i get her to take it out her phone. She then calls him when I am not around and tells him to stop calling her. Now a true situation. We go to the party I have to deal with him and his friends again. If they disrepected me then, I feel that they have little respect for mre when I get there. My wife tells me I should move on and get over it. But it stays on my mind. Am I wrong?