Fun4UinBham

My girlfriend and I are both Christians in every sense of the word, and altho we have not had a swinging experience together YET, we are playing with it, fantasizing about it, coming close and we both want it, and there's no doubt it's going to happen. Do we feel guilty? Yes. We are in church every Sunday that we are in town. Do I think it's wrong....in a way, yes. I think that just absolute random fornication, screwing anything and everything that moves, is not very right or healthy. I think that sharing intimacy with a close friend or friends is questionable but not as objectionable or just flat out wrong. The bigger question is this: Do I have to be perfect to please God? Does what I do in this area make me not acceptable to Him? Am I "working" my way out of Heaven? NO, NO and NO! I am acceptable only thru Jesus. I am Holy only thru what he did. I am NEVER going to make it on MY merit. That's what Christianity is: Putting my trust in what HE did, not in my imperfect record! I can't add anything to what Jesus did on that cross. If what He did there isn't good enough, then I've got no hope, and if it IS good enough, as I believe it is(what a WONDERFUL, FREE GIFT!!!), then there's nothing I can add to it or subtract from it. As for this lifestyle, I hope we meet another Christian couple that we can do EVERYTHING with, including going to church and worshipping God together, and thanking HIM for His Love and the Free Gift of eternal life! (see John 3:16-17 and Romans 6:23!!! I tell ya, it's exciting stuff!!!) Thanks for lettin' me share!