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kandr2000

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About kandr2000

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  • Birthday 08/13/1973

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  • Location
    Porterville, ca

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  • SLS Name
    kandr2000
  1. I love the feeling of squirting, and my hubby loves it, the only downside is that it SOAKS the sheets. I squirt the most while riding him. Makes me horny thinking about it, lol.
  2. 777.........................Is that bad???????????????
  3. I'm not really sure if I would of openly discussed this with my kids. But my 13 year old daughter, figured out I was Bi on her own, with no problems handling it. She has since figured out that we go to adult swinging parties, about once a month. She came across the website, she is a very intelligent girl. We have discussed this with her, she is pretty grossed out. BUT, she also knows, although we attend the socials, we vary rarely hook up with anyone. We are very picky and enjoy having so many free willed friends. We love to dance, socialize, and have fun but out of 4-5 dances we have hooked up only once. So what's the big deal? Nothing. She understands that the main part of our exploring the lifestyle is because I desire to be with women, and we only do something as a couple. She also knows that my husband and I are very much in love. It is just a little extra fun. She is my oldest, we have two older boys who know nothing of our lifestyle choices. So it really depends on the child. She is old enough not to tell anyone, I'm sure she'd die before telling her friends. All the kids and my dad know we go to a dance once a month, we just don't share what kind of dance it is, LOL. I would never lie to my dad, if he asked me straight out, or the kids. Honesty is very important to us. Thank God he hasn't asked...
  4. Kind of, LOL, LOL. I am a leo and an only child. I tend to want to be controlling. He only is "contolled" as much as he wants to be. He is a pisces, so we are pretty much opposites, but can finish eachothers sentences and are very much in love. Im just a little spoiled. He wouldnt love me any other way.
  5. Intuition I have always thought you as being one of the most CLASSY people on these boards. My kids go without nothing. They are all involved in sports and cheerleading. My son (10) and two step sons (14,16) are all starting quarterbacks this year for football. We have 6 kids in all, my two (10, 12), his two (14, 16), and our two (2 1/2, 4). We have a lot compared to a lot of people. We are very happy. But we are considered lower middle class. BTW.....my pool with the inflatable ring is my most favorite thing in the world. I'm a swimmer (even though you cannot swim in these pools, lol) We lounge in it under the stars, when the kids are sleeping and have great sex in it. LOL. My husband works graveyards so we only have a couple nights a week in there, but look forward to every moment. Where we live if our porch light is off we have a beautiful outlook of the stars. It's amazing, we see so many things in the sky from shooting stars, to satellites, to UFOs (meaning flashes of light that we have no idea what they are, lol) It's the little things in life that make you happy. He makes me happy. Poor or rich no difference.....as long as I can provide for my kids, we don't need much. We may not be rich but we eat frequently at the best place in town, because of their salad, fresh bread, and great steaks and go to the movies once a week, sometimes just us sometimes all of us. We are taking all of them minus the two year old to the midnight showing of superman. ON Tuesday WHOOOHOOO!!!
  6. I am home disabled, returning to work soon and my husband is a cook. I'm educated as far as Medical Assistant, Administrators License for group homes, web design, computer work, etc. Plan on trying to publish a book soon of short stories and poetry. My husband is a supervisor/Cook/Kitchen manager. We are HARD working individuals. We feel very out of our league with some people, because we don't make a lot of money, or own a home. We have a lot of nice things and are nowhere near "low income". But it just isn't fair sometimes. Soon we will be moving to Northern California to work for my mom and her multi-million dollar business. So we have put off buying a house until then. Nothing irritates us more than people looking down their nose at us. It happens even though we just purchased a new car, lol. We have a lot of prejudice towards us do to us being a mixed couple, I'm white he is Hispanic, a very large intimidating Hispanic. LOL. This goes back to the groupie high school "bullshit" thing.
  7. We dont need to have many deep discussions, because we are pretty much always on the same wavelength. What I try to remember is that Im always right. Even when he is right I still try to seem that Im right. Everyone have their own perseption of things, and ****PERCEPTION IS REALITY**** I usually say Im sorry if we have an arguement or cry until he isnt mad anymore. Talking is a great thing. I have never had to lie about my past with my current husband. My ex-husband hated my past and could never deal with it. My current husband knows everything about me inside and out, he is in my head all the time. My motto has alaways been "when Im comiited Im faithful, and when Im single I hook up as much as humanly possible"LOL
  8. Although we have done our share of messing around, we are just as happy having hot and heavy sex. We do alot of talking and fantasizing, but are very in love and happy with just each other. We dont need to have sex with others its just a plus.
  9. Please, don't feel like this is your fault in any way. That is what victims do is blame themselves. Try the victims hotline, it may help. My husband is irate over this. If this was to happen to me, he'd end up in prison. That sounds awful. He'd like to help you guys out if you were closer. This whole thing just sickens us.
  10. BTW...Im a leo and he is a pisces......water and fire baby! What is even funnier is my exhusband was pisces and his exwife was leo. We are not suppose to be compatable but are very much in love. We are definatley, soul-mates!!!! He is working graveyards and Im miserable without him here to hold me....lol.
  11. I am so sorry...this story brought tears to my eyes and anger in my heart. This is very serious, the police should be informed. I would also be worried about outing myself as a swinger, but they should be able to handle it with care. They are trained to do so. I have come across quite a few people that are in some sort of law enforcement in the lifestyle. I would have the std tests, along with the hiv tests that they suggest for rape victims, just in case. I would feel relief in knowing that most times your gonna know if someone was inside of you, except for the fact that they probably wore a condom. (my husband and I had sex after drinking A LOT and I knew we had had sex when I woke up that morning, even before he told me) There is only ONE reason your going to be drugged. That is for someone to have their way with you. It is very brave to do(to drug you, for no reason. I also agree that maybe they banned you for something you did. If I didn't get anyone on the phone or by email, Id be making a trip to the house to get some answers. You are in our prayers.... Good luck.
  12. I agree with Dynamar, I am 5'7 and 195-200 and Im not fat, a little thicker than Id like to be. Even though we are new, we've noticed there are all sizes and colors.....so dont worry too much.
  13. Although I didnt read all the posts I just want to say....I used to hate seeing people so much in love, it really made me sick. After having a very bad first marriage I never thought it was meant for me. I had a cousin who got married and cried as he watched his bride walk down the aisle. At that point I realized my marriage was over. I longed for that kind of love, and I deserved it. About a year after I left my first husband, I met the love of my life. We moved into together two weeks after we met, and have been together ever since. If there was ever such thing as soul-mates this is it. We have maybe had 3 big fights, always make up with hugs and kisses shortly after. So now I would say we are one of the those couples. HE opens doors for me, we kiss, hold hands, and still have very passionate hot sex. He is the love of me life, funny thing is we crossed paths soooo many times before, worked at the same places, attended the same church, had some of the same friends. We just didnt meet until the time was right. I used to dream for my night in shining armor, and I found him. We love to see people inlove and it is a turn on.
  14. I am writing as a very bi female. I have known for many years that I am bi-sexual. Us being with another woman is definatley more for me than him. Although he enjoys it, whether it is watching or participating. We are interested in all things including full swap, although I would prefer to play with a couple that has a bi or bi-curious female, because Im very attracted to women, but would respect someone if they werent bi or were bi above the waist. The aspect of hooking up with other woman was a big part of the getting into swinging. BUT I have a girlfriend I can have anytime Id like, so it is not that big of a deal to hook up just bi couples. I love men more than women anyday, but just am very attracted to women. I have not hooked up with anyone through SLS or internet so far. It has been bi neighbor, bi (hubbys) ex, and I would imagine bi-curious best friend. Then a a couple other woman. Also, for the record as far as our profile on SLS, he has nothing to do with it really. I wrote profile, I send out emails, he picks out some of the ones he likes, but all contact is through me. He just is along for the ride, lol. So far a good ride its been. I also think that bi-sexuality is much more "cool" and more accepted now-a-days. My daughter is in Jr. High and has friends who are "bi" or think it is cool to say they are. Even with that fact that it seems to be so accepted the only one to know about me being bi in my family is my Gay step-brother.
  15. kandr2000 on swinglifestyle.com Ok I made some more changes and reworded stuff a bit. Let me know how it sounds. Thanks for the input. I just want it to sound right. Most of the pics are pretty current just would like to take some for face pics. Considering we went to a social and nobody recognized us from the ones we have on there. LOL.
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