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  1. Thanks to all again who have posted. She actually told me that IF she ever did a MFM, she wanted me to pick the guy. And she also said she DID NOT want it to be a stranger I didn't know. She made this VERY clear. She does not want someone that neither of us knows entering our home or her body. She does not have to know who my friend is (again, SHE said this). She actually doesn't know who he is. Other that what I have told her about him over the past year or so. But she does want me to know him. So the idea of her possibly knowing him also and then perhaps feelings developing between him and her are slim to none. My friend is actually an experienced swinger. He has been the 3rd person in MFM threesomes before.
  2. Thanks for all that have responded. Now I am glad I found this site. I have actually sat down and tlaked to her about this without alcohol around and during non-sexual encounters. I explained to her in this way: I LOVE her with all my heart. She is my everything. I have never loved anyone as I do her. I will always be with her for as long as she will have me. I want to see her happy in everyway possible. She makes me happy. I know she has told me that she loves me too and I make her happy. I told her that the one thing I want to make sure of is that we do not get bored with each other. I have seen many of my friends who are married start feeling this way already after 3-5 years of being together. They are bored with each other and have gotten into the typical "routine". I believe one of the major (if not THE major) reason for couples getting divorced is that they don't feel the "spark" anymore that they once used to. And I believe that this is THE major reason people begin to stray into other men's/women's beds. To find that missing excitement. I told her that I want to fufill every one of her needs and desires. I said if she ever feels she is getting bored and feels the need of another man's attention, to please let me know and not do anything behind my back. I told her that I would rather make it an enjoyable session for us both rather than sneaking around. I told her that I actually would LOVE to see her have sex with another man while I watch. I told her that I know it is her MAJOR fantasy as she told me. She didn't deny it or say something to the effect that "Well that's only a fantasy". She was quiet. So I know it is something she perhaps desires deep down but is hesitant to do it. I also told her that this IS my fantasy and I only want her to do it if she wants to do it. I told her I do not want her to feel pressured into it and only want her to do it if it is what she wants......not to just do it becasue she thinks it will make me happy. I never want her to do anything for me if it makes her un-happy but does it just to "make me happy". Never!! I also told her that if we ever went through with this, it would only be if we BOTH agree on it. And if we ever decided it was fun and we wanted to continue to try this, it would be only a limited number if times and we would both still have to agree when it would happen. And that we are NOT looking to replace each other. I told her that I view it as sexual fun and nothing more. I have her body, mind, heart and soul. The other lucky guy would just get to share her body. The rest is for me only. Now I DO know one of her major hangups is how she feels about the way she looks. She is absolutely beautiful. Again, she gets hit on by men on occassion (makes me horny when she tells me this...). Due to her previous pregnancies, she has developed a bit of a belly. It is very cute actually. But she says I am just saying this because I love her. I tell her no, that she still looks great. But she still is VERY self-conscious about it. She says she can't see herself being nude in front of anyone else. I did tell her that my friend (who is very willing still to fuck her) thinks she is hot. I have showed him a few pictures of her semi-nude. And he still thinks she is hot. My fiance says that if he thinks that then it's obvious that I have only showed him pictures of her breasts and ass (which are VERY nice). But that I have not showed him her full body. Now I have to say that over the past years, I have shared a few pics of her with guys I chat with. She found out and got VERY angry with me and told me to stop doing this. When I met my friend, I went against her wishes because I wanted to show my friend at his request what she looked like. So I sent him the usual semi-nude pics. I did not send him any full body pics though. But late last year while chatting with him (and him asking still if she was ready) I told him that I thought one of the major reasons she was hesitant was because she was self conscious about her belly. He said that was bull. He asked if I had a pic of her full body. I said yes. He asked if he could see it. After much hesitation, I agreed to show him. so I sent it to him. And his response??? He said he didn't understand what she was all upset about. He thought it was cute and sexy. I was like WOW. I knew it!! LOL. Anyways back to the issue. When she told me that I must have just sent him pics of her ass and breasts, I told her no. I fessed up and told her that I sent the full body pic of her to him. I was awaiting the verbal abuse against me to begin as I knew I went against her wish of not sharing her pic. But she actually just said something to the effect of "really?". I told her to forgive me but that he said he thought her full body pic was very sexy and that he still wanted to fuck her more than ever. Her response was quietness. So, I have actually talked to her about this. I told her that I would love to fufill her fantasy. I told her that I want to sit in a chair near the bed and masturbate while I watch her fuck another guy. I told her that some of the sexual things she does not do with me (anal, oral, facial) I want to see her do with him. I told her that if she wanted to let him do whatever to her, then I would love to see it. Again, she stayed quiet. She didn't deny it or say no. She just stayed quiet. What does this mean??
  3. My fiance and I have been together fo 5 years now. I am 32. She is 24. She is a VERY attractive girl. Men hit on her all the time. We love each other to no end. Firstly I want to say.....our sex life is GREAT. She pleases me and she says I please her thoroughly. Neither of us has cheated. We have been totally monogamous. We are totally committed to each other. For the last year or so, we have been expressing little fantasies to each other during sex. She has mentioned things that I had no idea she would think about. Now first off let me say that one of my biggest fantasies (like alot of other men) is to see my woman sexually pleasured by another male. But I never really mentioned it to her (due to being afraid she would think I'm wierd). But she then started mentioning that her big fantasy is to have me watch her get fucked by another guy. She said she wants me to sit in a chair and masturbate while I watch. She says seeing me jerk off will show her that I really do want to see her get fucked. Needless to say I was shocked but pleasantly suprised to hear her say this. I told her that my fantasy also was to see her do this. I thought this may have been a passing thought for her. However over the past few months (and current) when we have sex, she always asks me "Have you been watching anything dirty on the internet?". I know what she is wanting me to say. I tell her yes. She asks "what?". I tell her MFM videos. And when I say this, it's almost an instant orgasm that follows for her. She is also an adult video conoussieur (sp??). She always wants me to rent threesome videos or orgy videos. Now my problem..........when I bring up the idea of actually trying it out, she is VERY hesitant. Now I know what you will proably say. It seems then it's just a fantasy for her and nothing else. But to this I tell you that once...and only once....awhile back we were driving home from a party. She had a few drinks but was not sloppy drunk by any means. Semi-drunk?? Yes. On the way home, she took off all her clothes in the car and began to masturbate while we were on the road. I thought this to be just typical sexual fun for us two. But to my surprise, she asked if I thought a friend of mine would like to come over to our home and "play". My mouth dropped. I asked her again just to be sure. She said she wanted to do the MFM. I called my friend while still on the road and told him to come over. He was at a club at the time and said it would be hard for him to get to our home anytime soon. I told him to hurry. My fiance and I got home and went upstairs to have sex. I didn't know if she was still wanting to do this. But as she was riding on top of me, she asked when my friend was going to get there. I exploded right then. I got up to call my friend and he said he was on the road hurrying. I kept glancing to my fiance and she was masturbating. Long story short, when my friend finally got there, my fiance had passed out (was 3am). I asked my friend if he wanted to wake her up, but he was polite and said no that it was late and to let her sleep. Maybe next time. My friend still asks me to this day if she is ready to try the threesome. But again, she is now hesitant to go through with it. Even though she still talks about it. So the question is..............what should I do???????? This is not just my fantasy. It's her's also. And I know (at least I think) she wants to do it but she is scared to put open that first door. (ps-----thanks for reading this loooooong drawn out story)
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