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Tojo99

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  1. Of course! How could I forget that. The advice was really great and we appreciate it. Thanks, yeah it really worked out well. She did jerk when we first touched her, but relaxed pretty quickly and was able to enjoy. And VanHlebar, I hear you on the relationship thing. We weren't really expecting that. An added bonus for sure. I am totally in Love(and lust) with her all over again! Great is an understatement.
  2. In a word - In-FUCKING-credible. This was our first ever swinging experience so we were really, REALLY nervous (especially her.) The guy we picked was absolutely perfect, put her at ease and kept the night moving well. Without a doubt picking the right partner was KEY in the night going so well. We met the guy first by going out to dinner. He was really easy going,not pushy, and seemed genuinely interested in helping us with our fantasy. We discussed some ground rules and a basic outline of how we thought the night would go. He was very supportive and by the end of the dinner we were both feeling as comfortable as possible (given the fact that this guy would soon fuck my wife!) One of the biggest obstacles was how should the evening start? My wife was terrified about undressing in front of a stranger, and didn't like the idea of watching him undress either. To get over this we came up with the idea of her starting out blindfolded. We went to the motel room first, she got ready and into bed, then he came in. This worked unbelievably well, while blindfolded she didn't know if it was me or him who was touching her and was able to relax. The blindfold lasted only about 10 minutes, by then she was really getting into 2 guys worshipping her body. We started with him going down on her while I concentrated on the upper half of her body. This was GREAT as she could focus on me and not freak out that another man was licking her. We were able to switch around some later as she relaxed and really able to get into the whole experience. There before my eyes the woman I love became a insatiable sex machine. She later told me it was like being drunk, if we hadn't taken pictures she would hardly believed the things she had done. Boy I would love to post some of those, they are truly awesome. The DP had a rocky start as I had some performance issues (sorry I'm just not used to 3 hour sex marathons!) After a few failed attempts we were able to do it with her riding me, and him entering her behind doggy style. She had the most powerful orgasms of her life and later told us she feared she might pass out. Wow. We really didn't expect the night to go THAT well, it far exceeded our wildest expectations. This was quite simply the most incredible night of both our lives. The night just could not have gone any better, except for my slight performance issue. It's been 5 days now and we still are in amazement, we look at the pictures we took every day. This has really expanded our relationship, we are even more in love now that we were able to experience this together. I think we can attribute the success to: 1. Having frank and open discussion between each other. 2. Picking the right partner 3. Setting ground rules, what she is and isn't comfortable with. 4. Having a rough gameplan, or script if you will. Unbelievably she now wants to experience a FMF to my absolute delight. Stu, I can't recommend this enough. We talked about it for years but the experience was absolutely amazing. I really hope you have success too. Feel free to email me if you have any questions.
  3. Really? What do you mean? I just ordered some online for the first time.
  4. Well we just had our very first experience this past weekend (MFM) and are almost identical to you, although we did this to fulfil a fantasy and are not really interested in the 'lifestyle'. We had been talking for years about a MFM involving Double Penetration, but it had remained just a fantasy. Finally we decided to make this happen fully expecting our fantasy to outshine reality. I mean, reality rarely compares to what we can come up with in our minds right? We met what we considered a very optimal candidate after searching on a personals site. This guy was experienced, married and pretty much what we were looking for. We scheduled a dinner meeting and were very happy and as comfortable (as possible) with him. After the dinner we decided to proceed with the fulfillment of our fantasy. My wife, although very excited about the evening was also extremely nervous. I have been the only person to see her naked for almost 20 years. She wasn't sure if she could relax enough to let someone touch her, let alone have sex with her! I had the idea of her being ready and blindfolded before he came into the room, that way she wouldn't know who was touching her, and she didn't have the awkwardness of watching him undress or undressing in front of him. This worked perfectly, when we first touched her she jerked, but soon relaxed when we started kissing her body. She wasn't quite sure which was him and which was me. The blindfold didn't stay on long, she was able to relax and really enjoy herself. We won't go into details, but suffice it to say the evening far exceeded our wildest expectations. This was quite simply the most incredible night of both our lives, not to mention the best sex we could even imagine (and I have quite a imagination.) The night just could not have gone any better, and the DP (although was rough to start) gave her the best orgasms of her life. The experience was so good our sex life has gone to new heights since then, we are acting like love struck teenagers. Great is an understatement. We really appreciate the help this forum gave us for making our fantasy become a reality and truly wish your experience is just as good as ours. Good luck and happy sex! -Tojo-
  5. Thank you all so much for the advice, it has helped! I never even considered the need for a sense of humor during this. All I can say is we'll try. Holy crap, we're down to hours now!!!! We're still plenty excited but panic is setting in too. Boy I hope we (her mainly) can relax enough to really enjoy this, after all that's what it's all about.
  6. Thank you all for the replies! We are both super excited, tomorrow is the day and I'm so excited I'm having trouble sleeping. We've read that a lot. Even though I'm the smaller guy (by an inch) she is pretty set on me being in front of her. She said she may be able to ride him if she's comfortable enough. This is our very first time so she is fairly nervous. Thank you! That is great advice. Our partner has been in the lifestyle for 7 years and is pretty experienced so I hope it will go smooth. Well, that is the primary fantasy. I know we couldn't help but both be disappointed if we can't pull this off. We very much enjoyed reading the OMG -- It's REALLY gonna happen!!! post by SBcpl. Their experience has really helped us. Any more advice?
  7. My wife and I have long fantasized about a MFM involving a Double Penetration. We're finally moving toward this and were wondering the best position for a DP (vaginal & anal). Our first thoughts were for her to ride me (me being on my back) and lay forward onto my chest. Then he could enter her from behind. Since this is our first time we really want this to go smooth, and she would feel more comfortable facing me. One other position I know of is for her to ride him anally facing away from him, then lay back onto him. Then I could enter her vaginally. That just doesn't sound comfortable to me. Suggestions would be most welcome! This is planned for THIS SATURDAY! This is our first 'swinging' experience and we are both terribly excited and a tad freaked out. Any other advice to help us would be appreciated as well. So far we've picked up some good stuff from this forum. Thanks!
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