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Honey_Tampa

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    M. Female
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    Tampa, FL
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    Food and libations! We love to relax ... have a sip of something divine .. watch a good flick ... catch a football game ... just basically enjoy life and have a laugh while living it.

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    Honey_Tampa

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  1. Is there any better wisdom than Yoda wisdom? Great post Cat and I second it.
  2. I have been on this site for a month now ... reading posts twice a day at least .. and I haven't noticed race be a topic or issue at all. I think that it HASN'T been mentioned is very lovely. It shows that it is a non-topic. Hopefully you'll find it a non-topic too. And welcome to the site
  3. Well I'm quite surprised at the responses. And relieved. You know ... I am continually surprised at the variety of interests/beliefs/rules/etc among swingers. It seems like every single person or couple has a teeny weeny different spin on an idea, desire or rule. I love it! And I'm so pleased I found this board. Btw, what does a "validation" mean? Do I have a girlscout patch I have yet to earn?
  4. Deptydog, if you ever sell those carrots on eBay .. DO let me know okay? I love them! Okay back to the topic at hand...carry on.
  5. I was just catching up on my new nighttime routine of reading through the usual witty posts and responses on the Swingers Board when a frightful idea popped into my head. And now I can't sleep until I ask...There are so many swingers here who have had loads [i love puns] of swinging experiences. Mr Honey and I have had "a few". Frightful idea: What if experienced swingers don't want to meet or play with us because we're "inexperienced"? Granted ... we didn't just fall off the back of the VanillaSex-R-Us delivery truck but .. honestly .. I have more toes than swinger-notches in our bedpost. I've heard of people being wary of "newbies" because they maybe haven't ironed out all their rules and boundaries. Or they're not ironclad sure yet they don't have jealousy issues. Or whatever other baggage they could bring with them to sandbox. We have been in this lifestyle off and on for 7 years so we're pretty clear what we want and what our rules are. Regardless..... If we put in our profile or in an ad that we have only had a few experiences, does that automatically make people click the "aww too bad/thank you for playing" checkbox?
  6. I was nodding my head at my screen reading your entire post, Mrs S. This point is worth repeating a thousand times over. Thank you for saying it. Mr. Honey and I have been to a few clubs. We've noticed how incredibly respectful genuine swingers are. At least from our experience, we couldn't imagine a true swinger being subversive like that. And it's one of the reasons that helps me feel so relaxed and playful in a swing club. I could never be playful where there are lots of "Cootch Hounds", male or female. For us, you need to understand you're the third wheel ... NEVER the second one.
  7. Reading this insightful thread raised a question for me.... when you check with your new potential swing partner about their D/D-Free health status, do you take their word for it, or do you ask them to produce some kind of ... I don't know .. some kind of paperwork, doctor's note, seal-of-approval? Because it seems to me ... if some slimeball is willing to pass around his disease, he's willing to lie about his check-ups, too?
  8. As a Christian believer, I smiled, and thoroughly enjoyed, the passion you put into this message, Sadie. And I share it with you. I do believe though that this type of gushing falls on deaf ears for the cynics .. and maybe even sounds like drivel. But don't let it suppress your passion, hon. I've only just found God, myself, within the last 8 years [i'm 33]. And it happened only a year before I discovered swinging. I feel pretty confused about how God feels about swinging because, simply, I've only read like 30 verses in the Bible. So, thank you Bible scholars here for adding your 2 cents and giving us laymen a little more insight. If God is truly against swinging, I honestly don't know what I would do. Stop swinging? I don't know. When my parents asked me to not date that guy in high school who was 5 yrs older than me, did I honor that? I'm afraid I didn't. Now...to purposefully be a sinner and meet His disappointed but loving face at Heaven's gates? I will have to put some serious consideration into that one... I feel pretty torn.
  9. Arami ... Believe it or not, the nervousness you're feeling is HALF of what they are experiencing. Hopefully you're one of those giving, wonderful types that likes to focus on their partner(s) ... to help make it the most comfortable situation for all of you. They have so much at risk. I don't mean to add the pressure but if you want to really be aware of the situation, it's a huge leap the couple is taking! Smile, be a gentleman, think about THEM at all times and I think you'll all have a good time. And be honest with yourself during the happy hour "interview" ... if you aren't feeling a click, don't push it and accept going further. That's what I would ask of our third partner....
  10. It seems quite appropriate that the first discussion I respond to be about DP ... since it's my [f] hottest fantasy. It makes me purrr just to Think about it. Mr. Honey and I have done some DP play with my vibrator and it's woooonderful. And he says he is willing to try the real thing because he's quite clear about how much it would please me. So I guess we're just waiting and hoping for opportunity to knock. Oh and I had a good laugh at some of the other responses ... thank you for sharing your experiences and insights! Like ... if it is a turn off to laugh during sex, don't bother. We are always up for a laugh. And the insight about the guy on the bottom not getting a lot of sensation...I will try to remember to do a lot of wiggling!
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