SandB

We look at it this way, whomever we run into at a swingers event is there for the same reasons we are - to have fun. I have run into many people I work with and only one had a problem. It seems he was embarrassed to be seen by me (but not my partner) in the skimpy bathing suit he was wearing and did not want to be seen having sex with anyone. Now granted he was in his mid 20's and still rather shy about the lifestyle I can only assume either he has improved in his attitude or is no longer in the lifestyle. I am not interested in seeing either my parents or the parents of my friends at a club or house party.

We are a soft swing couple who have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years. We are very comfortable with our decision and are very up front with it in our ad's and when we meet new couples. My partner can make a man cum with her mouth that is as exciting as engaging in intercourse and I have been told I am very orally talented as well. We love the life we lead, the people we meet (and party with) and the fun we have but we reserve one thing for ourselves that is special. If others do not understand or are not willing to accept than they are missing out not us.