We look at it this way, whomever we run into at a swingers event is there for the same reasons we are - to have fun. I have run into many people I work with and only one had a problem. It seems he was embarrassed to be seen by me (but not my partner) in the skimpy bathing suit he was wearing and did not want to be seen having sex with anyone. Now granted he was in his mid 20's and still rather shy about the lifestyle I can only assume either he has improved in his attitude or is no longer in the lifestyle. I am not interested in seeing either my parents or the parents of my friends at a club or house party.