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tulippe44 last won the day on November 30 2013

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  1. My husband (95mustang) is totally straight. Although I have told him that it is a fantasy to see him do oral with another man, we both agree that it would be better keep to fantasy for us. It doesn't bother him that I fantasize (sp) about this, but it will never happen. Some fantasies for us should just remain fantasy.
  2. I would probably never be aloud into a club for "pretty people". Please don't take that the wrong way, I would not consider myself unattractive or a BBW, however while I feel that I have an attractive face as I have gotten older and had two children, I have gained weight, I also take medication that causes weight gain, that I will take for the rest of my life. Now, I would never go to a club for only pretty people because I would be so intimidated. I would think that the majority of swingers are your average people. I don't know this as we are new, but that is my guess. But it is somewhat offensive to me to be judged solely on the way you look by an owner and not on personality at all. I am not in the 200+ group, but I would hate to see these people judged on the criteria. If it were the case to allow people into a club like this, my question would be is this owner(s) judgement something you truley trust. I mean, if the owner doesn't like red-heads, but you and your SO do you may never see a red-head in this club.(I am a red-head by the way) This would totally turm me off a club. We want to go somewhere that shows diversity and make our own decisions on what we do. Just my Opinion.
  3. Just wanted to jump in again. My dh and I were discussing this thread again last night. We both agreed that oral cumming for guys in the mouth is a no-no. This is done for my comfort level. I don't at this time let my dh cum in my mouth. I am working on it but progress is slow. So looking at it from the other perspective, if my dh were to accidentally cum in someone's mouth I would of course be hurt if it was done intentionally but from the way he explained it he can always give me warning as he would anyone else. If we were with another couple and the female half did not respect this rule I would think that I would be more upset with her than my dh if he were on bottom. Also from the mans perspective, my dh says that if a man disobeyed this rule he would be furious and tempted to hit him(my dh is not violent in the least but is very protective) I have a very strong gag reflex so sometimes the smallest thing could potentially make me gag. Of course my hubby would be upset, not just because someone else disobeyed but also because for those of us that do gag alot this can be painful not only to the throat but also to the muscles. I am glad that the woman who started this thread was able to forgive her husband, but still feel the need to ask the questions about the other woman and was anything said to her that would let her know that she broke a rule. It takes to for that rule to be broken. Hubby is only at fault to the degree that he had control. His only other choice after giving warning was to physically throw this woman off of him.
  4. My husband and I posted about Clubs in a different area. We are talking about on-premise. There are serveral reasons for this. 1. The kids issue-it is very difficult for us to get a baby sitter, so if we want to play, we have one night maybe once everyother month if we are lucky 2. It would seem that if you went to off-prem and meet a couple and suppose you all went back to your hotel and nothing happens (I don't want to sound crass, but if we have payed a babysitter to stay all night and a hotel we want to make sure that we are truley doing what we want that night) 3. We are only going with soft swing in mind and feel that this might be the best environment for us to play in for now. We don't want "relationships" maybe friends someday but for now we just want to give it a try no strings attached. However I will say that after reading these post I am afraid I will walk into a club with my eyes looking huge. How do you take it all in and process quickly enough so that no one can tell that you are new to the whole lifestyle?
  5. I have to say that I disagree with evilmj on a few points. I have been married for a few years and sexually active for a few years before that. I have never let a man cum in my mouth and they have all known that that was a no-no for me. Never have I had someone disrespect that rule. I have always had warning. I have issues with some body fluids(I'm working on it ) However, if this "rule" was put into place by a couple it should always be respected. One of the things I have seen consistenly on this board is respect the rules and that most newbies have more rigid rules in the beginning. I don't think this is an unrealistic rule and would be furious if it was my dh but I would get over it. Although I still think that the origianl poster could be mistaken in what was seen.
  6. I can't give you any advise on this situation as we aren't at that point yet, but one of our rules is that he cannot (for now) cum in anyones mouth. That rule came about from the rule that you cannot do with anyone else what you can't do with me. I feel for you but also have to agree with txduo on this one. Did he cum in her mouth, or did she clean it up after? If this had been my DH and I, I would feel the same way you do at the moment and I am sorry to hear that this happend on your first swap. Tulippe44
  7. Okay, so this might not be as embarrasing as some but I think these moments totally suck at the time and then are laughable afterwards. There is nothing worse than having your children walk in on you. This has happened a few times for us. Mostly it has happened when we have gone to bed to actually go to sleep and then end up fooling around later and forget to get up and lock the door. This actually happened a few weeks ago(thank god it was pitch black out) But man talk about your heart going into overtime and a total mood killer. After the kids get water or whatever it is they wanted, we just can't seem to get going again. Again, there is nothing worse than hearing your child say mommy while you are in the middle of an orgasim.
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