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About celtic239

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  • Birthday 07/06/1955

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    couple
  • Location
    new york
  • Interests
    we both like to stay in shape. She likes to watch British TV shows, he anykind of sports
  • Occupation
    retired early
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    08

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    celtic239
  • SDC Username
    celtic239
  • Favorite Club(s)
    the farm, deviate ny, trapeze fl, ews fl, paradise lakes fl, desire

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  1. We met a group of old friends at a hotel take over in January. We had some family obligations and then the pandemic hit. No vacations to Mexico or Florida.
  2. In college the weight gain was blamed on the "freshman 15" however I can't wait for the government to open up our local gym in order to shed the "Covid 19".
  3. We use go on vacation to Paradise Lakes and visit Caliente but due to family obligations we weren't able to go for the last few years. At that time Paradise Lake seemed to have a bit of an older crowd than Caliente and they both stated that they were NOT lifestyle resorts, so no sex in public. They do have nightclubs for dancing and drinks where local swingers used like a meet and greet. It now appears that there is a lifestyle group associated with Paradise called Tampa Lifestyles Connection. If you go on SLS and look under Florida groups you will see that they have "booked" two parties in May. We haven't been to one - can't make a recommendation
  4. As a group, swingers are generally an adventurous lot so when the news first broke we didn't think much of the virus pretty much believing it was a China problem. The last lifestyle type of event we went to was in January. I (the husband) developed a respiratory problem that lasted for about 7 weeks (dry cough and fatigue) and after three trips to the doctor's office, the first two placed on antibiotics which didn't do much, the last treatment was steroids and an Albuterol inhaler, it finally cleared up. The cough was pretty intense at that time where my wife thought I was going to stroke out and I thought I'd be a candidate for the Iron Lung machine. It cleared up just before the epidemic hit the news so my wife thinks it was the coronavirus but I believe that it was just a seasonal bug. Originally I didn't take this virus very seriously and truth be told I still don't. However we live just north of NYC and on tonight's news there was a shocking story - the NYC government has ordered the EMT's NOT to take heart attack patients to the ER if they can't be revived in the ambulance. That is fucked up!! We and our LS friends are staying home and just going to ride out the storm since we are in our 60's.
  5. While not advertised as lifestyle since they are nudist resorts but do host lifestyle dances/parties you might want to check out Paradise Lakes and Caliente. If you want to head to Pa. there is Sunnyrest which is a nudist resort but many swingers do attend during the summer
  6. In our experience has been that this is easier said than done. At times it seems like you might need a Ph.D. in advanced physics/ math or be an acrobat in order to successfully pull this off. If I want to do the back door entry and my wife and the other guy are doing the missionary position, being 5'7" I have to squat over her like in a football stance while attempting to maintain my balance on the bed. The other part of the problem is that my wife likes spontaneity so if we want to do a DP then I almost have to telepathically tell the other guy to be half off the couch, get my wife to straddle him and then position all the legs in order to enter her through the back door because if I start telling them what to do I will probably hear "don't direct". I do agree that for me, a very straight guy, I find this to be one of the absolutely hottest of positions.
  7. We have attended several different types of hotel parties and most of the time we got our own room. We did attend one about two hours away from our home and while we had a pretty good time the drive back was exhausting especially at 2 in the morning. It has been our experience that there are three types of hotel parties (1) the take over usually run by a swingers group where the entire hotel is one big party including the dance floor, (2) the vanilla bar/dance floor but the swingers group has reserved one or two floors for the attendees and (3) the one that has several adjoining rooms in a secluded part of the hotel. Most, if not all of the hotel parties, were for couples only but you would be surprised at how many "married" guys would act like single guys because their wives were either done for the night or really weren't into the party.
  8. On a rare occasion, we have played with a single guy for a MFM threesome but prefer couples play. The single guys on SLS must have some sort of NSA data bank because we get inundated with single guy inquiries. The general response to the single guys are "Thank you for expressing an interest in our profile. As a general rule we meet other swingers at Lifestyle related public events such as meet and greets or clubs. If you are attending such an event, and if our schedule permits, we wouldn't mind meeting you at that event for a chat". There is rarely a response, which works for us. As for non compatible couples, we will meet other couples at clubs or at small house parties where we personally know the hosts. If the venue is at a club we will check out the profiles of those attending and may trade a few emails, if we receive one from a couple that we know we think we won't click with, we will be polite but inform them that we don't think that we would be a match but wouldn't mind chatting with them just to be sociable.
  9. We use two SLS and SDC - both paid lifetime members. The main difference is geographical. SLS is well represented here in the NE but the site lacks some of the more advanced graphics. We have vacationed in Florida and at Desire, using SDC because that site has much more of a presence in Florida and Mexico. SDC has the ability to post videos but lurkers should be aware that SDC tell the other profile that you specifically checked them out.
  10. If the single guy was in a room with a couple that requested this then it would be OK. However we have been to too many clubs where this activity was way over the top especially in the group sex room - way too creepy for the wife and me. We have been to several house "private" house parties and almost everyone there was part of a couple noting the only time a single guy was at one party, he was there as part of a threesome.
  11. We hosted a party about a month ago during Cinco De Mayo. We got a platter of mixed Subway sandwiches, some chicken quesideas (?sp) chesse/crackers and chips. We asked some of the guests to bring small desserts. We didn't serve any food containing a bean product or garlic/onions.
  12. We returned from our 5th trip to a Desire Resort about 6 months ago. During our last trip in September, we stayed at their Rivera Maya location (RM) but due to pool construction at RM we were given free transportation and free admission to Pearl during the day. RM is the smaller of the two but that can work in your favor if you are interested in meeting other couples. Pearl has a huge pool and even bigger hot tub and the food at Pearl (we only did lunch there) was a bit better. We did hear from other couples that have stayed overnight at both that RM has a much better night life. We did visit the Cabo Desire resort but that has since closed. We haven't been to Hedo but while many people say that the place needs some repairs they do say it is like the best frat party you have ever attended. The big difference between the two (Desire/Hedo) is that Hedo allows single guys and gals where as Desire is a couples only resort. We might suggest that you check out some conventions like the Splash party and hotel take overs that generally last for 3-4 days that in some cases allow for nudity around the pool areas and do provide play rooms. Lastly there are a few clothing optional resorts (not exactly swinger resorts because they also cater to nudists) in Florida (Paradise Lakes/Caliente) and the one mentioned in California.
  13. I would happen to say "it depends" based on the location of the party. We live in Orange County, NY near West Point. We have joined a little group that hosts parties in New Jersey about an hours drive each way. However, even though I grew up in NYC we don't attend parties in the City because it is a huge pain in the ass to find parking, paying the outrageous tolls for bridges and getting stuck in city traffic. The real issue is just how tired you are AFTER the party and how that will impact on the drive home
  14. My wife and I have hosted swinger friends staying overnight because they are visiting our area but reside in other states but at the end of the night they sleep in the spare bedroom and we are in our bedroom. My wife will not sleep over at another's home because she is a cigarette smoker and is self-conscious and considerate about non smokers so we opt to play but stay in a hotel overnight.
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